Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Canon]

So after a month i see this girl around the way and waive at her. We get to talkin via text

Turns out she thought she saw me with a white girl and that i saw her but it wasnt me. Either that or she mistook an ethiopian i was prolly with. I told her if it was a white girl it couldnt have been me. Now shes all apologetic because she was acting mad weird

I told her I missed her, she telling me she missed me and thinks about me everyday. This is maybe a week ago then yesterday even told me she went through withdrawals and is obsessed with me lol. I’m like wtf, why didnt you tell me or show all this when we were seeing each other - she says because she knew i was talking to other women and doesnt compete. Said shes talking to some other dude but would drop him for me.

These girls depriving themselves by not putting their best foots forward but hey, i get it. Competition aint for the feint of heart

I still think that everyone is competing whether they realize it or not and it would behoove them to operate as if they know another woman or man is going after the same person. Just the nature of today’s beast. Being egotistical will always prevent you from getting with someone

let them die alone If they wanna follow tik tok advice

 

[Apollo Creed]

So after a month i see this girl around the way and waive at her. We get to talkin via text

Turns out she thought she saw me with a white girl and that i saw her but it wasnt me. Either that or she mistook an ethiopian i was prolly with. I told her if it was a white girl it couldnt have been me. Now shes all apologetic because she was acting mad weird

I told her I missed her, she telling me she missed me and thinks about me everyday. This is maybe a week ago then yesterday even told me she went through withdrawals and is obsessed with me lol. I’m like wtf, why didnt you tell me or show all this when we were seeing each other - she says because she knew i was talking to other women and doesnt compete. Said shes talking to some other dude but would drop him for me.

These girls depriving themselves by not putting their best foots forward but hey, i get it. Competition aint for the feint of heart

I still think that everyone is competing whether they realize it or not and it would behoove them to operate as if they know another woman or man is going after the same person. Just the nature of today’s beast. Being egotistical will always prevent you from getting with someone

“Dont compete”

bytches will compete for a job, to get in the club, for beyonce tickets, for a fenty release but not a man.

Toss em in the trash

 

[Apollo Creed]

let them die alone If they wanna follow tik tok advice

Exactly, rewarding this behavior with human interaction continues the cycle. Should be zero tolerance.

 

[Ohene]

let them die alone If they wanna follow tik tok advice

Pretty much man
I was trying to tell her but she don’t hear it

She thinks a man and woman should just choose eachother and lock in. I told her when and after what? Thats how you end up dating somebody only to realize after a year they not for you

As a woman you can afford that cause men always orbit anyway. As a man nah…they gotta earn the position

 

[Ohene]

“Dont compete”

bytches will compete for a job, to get in the club, for beyonce tickets, for a fenty release but not a man.

Toss em in the trash

Told her she basically opened the lane up for another girl with all her weirdness (even if she thought i was giving mixed signals). And that i aint dropping that other chick cause itll just complicate shyt

It was cordial though. Basically agreed to just be cool/friends in the meantime

Interesting case study. She 34 …too old to be acting that way

 

[Apollo Creed]

Told her she basically opened the lane up for another girl with all her weirdness (even if she thought i was giving mixed signals). And that i aint dropping that other chick cause itll just complicate shyt

It was cordial though. Basically agreed to just be cool/friends in the meantime

Interesting case study. She 34 …too old to be acting that way

Single after 28 is a red flag lol. It sounds harsh but it is undeniable.

You better than me even explaining shyt, i’d be too annoyed by the stupidity and just ghost.

 

[Ohene]

Told this girl wherher or not you realize, youre always competing at life

School
Work
Romance
Video games
Sports

In some case we even competing against ghosts. Not what people are doing but what the world thinks or believes that idle candidate, boyfriend, student, etc are

Even moreso nowadays

 

[Ohene]

Single after 28 is a red flag lol. It sounds harsh but it is undeniable.

You better than me even explaining shyt, i’d be too annoyed by the stupidity and just ghost.

I tell all my friends


Attractive women after 28 is red flag
Give it a few months and you always find out why

I fukk with her enough to keep her around as a friend on the bench and were neighbors. Outside of that shed actually a sensible intelligent chick. We used to talk about a lot of interesting shyt

 

[MikelArteta]

So after a month i see this girl around the way and waive at her. We get to talkin via text

Turns out she thought she saw me with a white girl and that i saw her but it wasnt me. Either that or she mistook an ethiopian i was prolly with. I told her if it was a white girl it couldnt have been me. Now shes all apologetic because she was acting mad weird

I told her I missed her, she telling me she missed me and thinks about me everyday. This is maybe a week ago then yesterday even told me she went through withdrawals and is obsessed with me lol. I’m like wtf, why didnt you tell me or show all this when we were seeing each other - she says because she knew i was talking to other women and doesnt compete. Said shes talking to some other dude but would drop him for me. Told her Im talking to another that she basically opened up the lane for but wont drop her and would prefer not to complicate things by seeing both

These girls depriving themselves by not putting their best foots forward but hey, i get it. Competition aint for the feint of heart

I still think that everyone is competing whether they realize it or not and it would behoove them to operate as if they know another woman or man is going after the same person. Just the nature of today’s beast. Being egotistical will always prevent you from getting with someone

Mad that she might have saw you with another girl but yet shes talking to another guy

Women

 

[Ohene]

Mad that she might have saw you with another girl but yet shes talking to another guy

Women

Lol they want it to be one way breh
She’d probably claim she only started talking to him after she saw me

 

[Canon]

Told this girl wherher or not youre always competing at life

School
Work
Romance
Video games
Sports

In some case we even competing against ghosts. Not what people are doing but what the world thinks or believes that idle candidate, boyfriend, student, etc are

Even moreso nowadays

you waisting time trying to even rationalize with them at this point


silence is always the answer

 

[Apollo Creed]

I tell all my friends


Attractive women after 28 is red flag
Give it a few months and you always find out why

I fukk with her enough to keep her around as a friend on the bench and were neighbors. Outside of that shed actually a sensible intelligent chick. We used to talk about a lot of interesting shyt

Women period regardless attraction level. Nobody career that important or that serious lol and early 20s enough time for casual dating, where mid 20s you likely get into something serious.

The excuse men get is many know the physical and financial burden falls on them thus they delay, but womeN NEVER say “ima grind so i can help my man and ease his load”, the “grind” women speak about what she gonna do for her child (aka the accessory aka after she get her wedding and divorce you if she even fakes the wife thing).

Because even if a woman works its still some cosplay shyt 70% of the time (i dont have to work, my man being a slave lets me chase my dreams and ok i will buy groceries lol).

 

[Apollo Creed]

you waisting time trying to even rationalize with them at this point


silence is always the answer

Exactly, because they wont even understand whats being presented and will be back to the dumb shyt moments later. This shyt is a sign parents have been utterly useless to a generation of women.

 

[Ohene]

Women period regardless attraction level. Nobody career that important or that serious lol and early 20s enough time for casual dating, where mid 20s you likely get into something serious.

The excuse men get is many know the physical and financial burden falls on them thus they delay, but womeN NEVER say “ima grind so i can help my man and ease his load”, the “grind” women speak about what she gonna do for her child (aka the accessory aka after she get her wedding and divorce you if she even fakes the wife thing).

Because even if a woman works its still some cosplay shyt 70% of the time (i dont have to work, my man being a slave lets me chase my dreams and ok i will buy groceries lol).

Her excuse was she spent a lot of time prioritizing her career and in pharmacy school then paying debt after

But she been to like 20 countries and once told me she probably had like 4 dudes who were obsessed with her and probably wouldve wanted to marry her lol

I was taking notes on all of this and processing it

She outwardly said she regrets it though…not prioritizing dating and finding a man. I respect her reflectiveness at least. But despite that she not humble enough to compete

Women…

 

[Ahadi]

I have yet to meet a woman who is a Chris brown fan that’s worth a damn. No shade at Chris but I swear it has never failed me.

shyt. The ones who don’t like em are a headache. I had a bytch pull up his police report (idk if she had it saved on her phone) but she was going hard. I’m like damn get over it. They holding on more than Rihanna.

Then dealt with another who paid the 1k for the photo. Turn off.

But it’s a case by case situation. I like CB.