Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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:smh: He should have known better, but some people just have to get burnt. :yeshrug:

If we lived in an ideal world where females generally showed gratitude and loyalty to dudes who 'save' them and treated them like kings, it wouldn't be a problem. But history shows that is almost always never the case. Countless examples of dudes getting played despite throwing money and gifts at a broad just because they have a nice smile with a big behind and a sob story, yet they still never learn. Fukk I look splashing out on a chick like Maliah Michel, for example. :heh: (who this dude in the smilie dated at one time).

If anything, the only women you should be showering with money and gifts is your mother and maybe your grandmother if you're lucky enough to have one. Other than that.....:camby:

What about your daughter :lupe:
 

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brehs....

im torn between these good girls that make good wives but are low key boring and will test my ability to stay faithful

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these exciting girls who will make difficult wives but will most likely keep my interest.

i know, i know... there are good girls who aren't boring but in my experience a good chick with a great personality and good sense of humor is hella hard to find. most of the good pretty chicks are boring as fukk when you get to know that. matter of fact, most women are boring as fukk when you really sit down and have a conversation with them.

i may have to embrace this "bachelor for life" lifestyle. :lupe:
 

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There are some exciting women.You just have to have more in common with these women.Like I said you cant do nothing with a pretty face,and if you talking about growin old with her one day that face might get old.She has to have some sort of foundation.You guys can hype a trophy wife all you want,but those types arent going to help you grow and they will all of a sudden get bored.A woman has to keep your interest (smart,funny,great conversation).You can tell alot about somebody by their conversation.
 

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Yes heartbreak hurts and teaches us a lesson but eventually you have to move on.Its like this do you think football teams sit around and think about the players that leave thru free agency?NOPE they basically forget about them and move on.You can hurt for a day or two but you got to get back out there :manny:
 

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What about your daughter :lupe:

Nope, not daughters. They don't deserve unconditional showering of money and gifts, besides what do you think breeds a lot of these princesses with entitlement issues who think all men should bow before them and treat to them like goddesses - even if they've only known dude for 5 minutes. I've got a whore of a distant female cousin who is just like that and believe me, her attitude is horrendous....and that's all because she's been spoilt from day one.
 

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brehs....

im torn between these good girls that make good wives but are low key boring and will test my ability to stay faithful

AND

these exciting girls who will make difficult wives but will most likely keep my interest.

i know, i know... there are good girls who aren't boring but in my experience a good chick with a great personality and good sense of humor is hella hard to find. most of the good pretty chicks are boring as fukk when you get to know that. matter of fact, most women are boring as fukk when you really sit down and have a conversation with them.

i may have to embrace this "bachelor for life" lifestyle. :lupe:

Try and find common interests with the good girls and build from there.If they totally bore you to death that's one thing, but if you can introduce them to some of your interests and work together on it, then you have a potential gem right there. As I'm getting older, I don't care for "exciting" chicks too tough and would rather have stability with a good woman which is bloody hard to find in this hemisphere and in this day and age. If it's initial excitement for a while, then cool. But to actually settle down with an "exciting" chick is a no no. When you want to slow things down a bit, they'll be the first ones to give you aggro and eventually leave anyway. I don't want no "exciting" chick being the mother of my child.

Then on the other hand, find a woman that ticks all boxes, but remember no one is perfect. There are always going to be cons along with the pros, but you just have to ask yourself if you can deal with the cons rather than looking at the pros.
 

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man I think the best thing for you single guys out there is to love yourself...treat yourself...take care of yourself.... dont think u need a woman to make you complete...dont be a loner...you can have relationships with diverse people and still be single...society has made it seem being single is a reflection of a flaw in you as a result ppl just settling for whatever comes easiest and deal with the consequences later...i been with my girl 7 yrs and her colleagues at work (most single or on/off dating) wonder why we are not married or havent had a baby...ummmm because we not there yet... point is in this soiety when ppl see u happy on YOUR terms they have a problem..."why are u single AND happy?" ummmm why do you need your happiness to depend on others [except God]

:whew: that was longer than I planned :huhldup: but point is fellas dont just settle coz u dont wanna be lonely :ufdup: u being lonely might just be an opportunity to do some real shyt with with ya life :obama:

"you lose money CHASING women never lose women chasing money OR whatever u define success by


Im out :to:
 
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