I dont think they got the memo that men know to avoid these women, women in the church, etc lol. You cleaning up someone else life, and for the low desired men they rather just do sex tourism at this point so that escape route is gone now too
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More often than not I tend to take that L.
skyrunner1
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Lets see how long it take for this to go viral on every side of equation.. Save most people time but single mom who feel sooo bad for finding best friend, wonderful human that they love and loves them back and pours into them and gave them dream life that they wanted soo bad to when they received it decided they didnt want anymore because "Narcissistic social hierarchies of control" and marriage is a tool of patriarchy and wants to be sovereign in life now..
why is there a gofundme?
these women are DEMONIC
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RaspberryFitted
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mind explaining more?
you mean you just wanna smash a chick, but she holds out on you cause she wants something more ?
you just ride it out or move on tbh. there are plenty of women who will be trusting of/ attracted to you enough to smash even before a relationship. i'm not into manipulating women and selling dreams so i'll keep a girl like that on the backburner while i'm seeing and smashing other girl(s).
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
Recently, my app and irl interactions start off light but slowly morph into more serious conversations about wanting a committed relationship/long-term partner. I tell them I am not interested in that atm and the conversation ends.
There’s nothing wrong with being upfront, but It’s never subtle. It’s always a melodramatic explanation of how bad dating is, how they are tired of getting played, finally in another stage of life, etc.
I ask myself if the vibe I give off is one of a sucker or a man that carries himself too seriously for them to assume I want a relationship off the rip
If I was speaking about macro trends in dating, it's not just you. It's a product of Tik Tok algorthims, and a newer cultural demand for "serious relationships, I think you can even see it in the movies and music, and just generally where society is at. If there isn't a bunch of academic studies and podcast NY Times about it, there will be.
Got it. It sounds like your convos might be lean too neutral or “safe,” which can make things drift into serious territory quick instead of staying playful or building tension.
When there’s not much flirtation, push/pull tension, it can feel like the default path becomes “let’s define what this is,” which is why you’re getting those heavy conversations early.
What’s the age range of the women you’re talking to? That will tell you everything.
Where are you meeting them (apps vs. real life, and what kind of environments)? (This does back to figuring out your market)
What do your photos / energy translate? Do they lean more relationship-oriented or more fun and light?
You might be presenting in a way that invites seriousness instead of playfulness early on.