yeah, man! It's AMAZING how a lot of women notice you not giving a fukk.... and want to make you try!
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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just too get your damn attention
you fukked it up because you simped, cool. first you gotta do some introspection. Why did you simp? the specific simping actions you did, what was your thought process and purpose while doing them. what is it you were seeking? why were you seeking it. keep reducing until you get to the most common denominator as to what you were seeking.
during that process you might discover things and insecurities you didn't even know were inside of you. some of these things you can change and some you will have to learn to live with and deal with.
ask yourself also, why is it you want to become a cold pimp? not that it's right or wrong, but just know why you want this. in order to steer the change in a direction you want, it's good to be aware of why you want it and what is preventing it at the core.
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beautiful post brehYou can be a good guy, breh. Just remember that:
90% of this shyt you see and hear from some women is bullshyt.
Don't pay attention to what she says, pay attention to what she DOES. What she says is just what I call "makeup", something they put on to hide who they are and their intentions. A good looking woman don't need it.
Don't take no excuses.
Don't play into a woman's sense of entitlement.
Don't take on no responsibility that ain't yours. If a woman can't swim in the world of adulthood, then let her drown. Cause really, how was she swimming before she met you?
You're an ADULT. a good dude with a good job. Don't let no woman shame you into believing you're not just because you won't take care of her like she's your child.
Never let them make you believe you hate women when you refuse to budge because of their flirting and bullshyt mindgames. You don't hate women, breh. NONE OF US HATE WOMEN! Women just hate to see or hear The Truth about themselves. They hate to be seen with no makeup on and can't stand the sight of themselves without it.
If she ain't willing to pay at least 40% of the time, then she ain't there for you. She wants you to buy her attention and affection. If she ain't there cause you ain't paying, then she was never there. She's a halfway whore. She just ain't on the stroll. Don't be a halfway John.
If her p*ssy is all she got to offer, then her p*ssy is all that she worth.
Remember: This brickwall you trying to put up is there to keep whores, bytches, sluts, smuts, slores, skeezers, bustdowns, beckies and skeeoes away from you. Like a bytch Filter. You can STILL be a good dude. If you waiting on a "good woman", then being a "Stone Cold Pimp" will make her avoid you like the plague.
Don't follow none of that shyt I just typed. BE that shyt I just typed.
Listen to Suga Free at least once... twice a day.
http://www.wat.tv/audio/suga-free-02-you-know-my-name-28dx5_2ixwr_.html
Cause it aint about being a "Pimp".... it's about us as first and foremost adults and then MEN keeping ourselves off these bytches personal hoe tracks and out of they stables.
*rereads post* goddayum I done came a long way.....
You can be a good guy, breh. Just remember that:
90% of this shyt you see and hear from some women is bullshyt.
Don't pay attention to what she says, pay attention to what she DOES. What she says is just what I call "makeup", something they put on to hide who they are and their intentions. A good looking woman don't need it.
Don't take no excuses.
Don't play into a woman's sense of entitlement.
Don't take on no responsibility that ain't yours. If a woman can't swim in the world of adulthood, then let her drown. Cause really, how was she swimming before she met you?
You're an ADULT. a good dude with a good job. Don't let no woman shame you into believing you're not just because you won't take care of her like she's your child.
Never let them make you believe you hate women when you refuse to budge because of their flirting and bullshyt mindgames. You don't hate women, breh. NONE OF US HATE WOMEN! Women just hate to see or hear The Truth about themselves. They hate to be seen with no makeup on and can't stand the sight of themselves without it.
If she ain't willing to pay at least 40% of the time, then she ain't there for you. She wants you to buy her attention and affection. If she ain't there cause you ain't paying, then she was never there. She's a halfway whore. She just ain't on the stroll. Don't be a halfway John.
If her p*ssy is all she got to offer, then her p*ssy is all that she worth.
Remember: This brickwall you trying to put up is there to keep whores, bytches, sluts, smuts, slores, skeezers, bustdowns, beckies and skeeoes away from you. Like a bytch Filter. You can STILL be a good dude. If you waiting on a "good woman", then being a "Stone Cold Pimp" will make her avoid you like the plague.
Don't follow none of that shyt I just typed. BE that shyt I just typed.
Listen to Suga Free at least once... twice a day.
http://www.wat.tv/audio/suga-free-02-you-know-my-name-28dx5_2ixwr_.html
Cause it aint about being a "Pimp".... it's about us as first and foremost adults and then MEN keeping ourselves off these bytches personal hoe tracks and out of they stables.
*rereads post* goddayum I done came a long way.....
Breh do you not realize what you just posted and how amazing it was!!!?? I got some questions for you though....even if I do finally come a long way like yourself years from now, what would i do if somehow I find that righteous woman and it is discovered either through me telling her or someone else telling her that I fukked around with whores alot?
Do you think the "double standard"(i hate that word because hoes love it) is justified? I mean look at Beyonce's mom and the relationship she had with her father.....andd how it ended up pretty much the same thing with B and Jay....I think its human nature to see the fact that it is wrong for females but cool with men right?
Since I was born a male, that puts me in the clear right breh...? Please tell me that I am right
As for Suga Free I have been hearing about him for a while now.....I need to add him to my playlist. We all know next to the 60s, the 90s had some classic R&B but we gotta be truthful despite how much it hurts to admit it, but alot of those classic songs were some extreme simping like over the top.
Suga Free
Lloyd Banks
Rakim
Killer Mike
Kool G Rap
need to listen to music like that to keep simping out of our mindsR.A.P. Music, Ghetto Gospel, third verse...
I got some questions for you though....even if I do finally come a long way like yourself years from now, what would i do if somehow I find that righteous woman and it is discovered either through me telling her or someone else telling her that I fukked around with whores alot?
Do you think the "double standard"(i hate that word because hoes love it) is justified? I mean look at Beyonce's mom and the relationship she had with her father.....andd how it ended up pretty much the same thing with B and Jay....I think its human nature to see the fact that it is wrong for females but cool with men right?
Since I was born a male, that puts me in the clear right breh...? Please tell me that I am right
As for Suga Free I have been hearing about him for a while now.....I need to add him to my playlist. We all know next to the 60s, the 90s had some classic R&B but we gotta be truthful despite how much it hurts to admit it, but alot of those classic songs were some extreme simping like over the top.
Suga Free
Lloyd Banks
Rakim
Killer Mike
Kool G Rap
you referring to the line about the jezebel whores?
just when i saw KM on your list, first thing that popped in my head was that verse cause it pretty much represents what everyone has been talking about on here. kinda went on a tangent, wasn't referring o the question in your post.
as far as your dilemma, IMO, you should represent who you are and let her choose. I don't think it's a good idea to hide your past or who you are. Also, if you don't think messing with hoes is right, you should stop doing it. Never partake in behavior you are ashamed of.
yes i quit a week ago....cool i get to get a pass because I'm a Man....this is great 
As for her though......if i find out she was affiliated in that life in anyway its game over
not exactly. she has a right not to be cool with it and not give you a pass for it. it all depends on her standards, values and what she finds desirable/attractive. what i'm saying is to let them choose first, that way you don't have to worry about this. some women will be ok with it, some won't. there is no such thing as a pass.
I got some questions for you though....even if I do finally come a long way like yourself years from now-
nah, breh! I was just in this very thread whining and crying about women a month ago! 
what would i do if somehow I find that righteous woman and it is discovered either through me telling her or someone else telling her that I fukked around with whores alot?
Way I see it, we've ALL said or done some things in our past that we're ashamed of. If you've been on the straight and narrow for any amount of time and have no STDs or babymomma drama, she shouldn't judge. Hell, most women I've seen that get married to self proclaimed "former whore nikkas" love it MORE when they feel like they're keeping him satisfied. They think they tamed him or some shyt. Women are FAR more driven by ego than men are. Men are just more openly competitive.
Too bad they married those nikkas and then quickly got cheated on. Multiple times.
Me personally, my next relationship/friendship or whatever? I ain't divulging shyt about my past.
mind going into more detail? are you asking is it okay for men to fukk around while women will be considered whores if they do?
Since I was born a male, that puts me in the clear right breh...? Please tell me that I am right
Not for me to say, dude. How you feel about it?
As for Suga Free I have been hearing about him for a while now.....I need to add him to my playlist. We all know next to the 60s, the 90s had some classic R&B but we gotta be truthful despite how much it hurts to admit it, but alot of those classic songs were some extreme simping like over the top.
Suga Free
Lloyd Banks
Rakim
Killer Mike
Kool G Rap
Yeah, and that really is all I use it for. Plus his shyt talking is motivational. And the fact that Free is HELLA entertaining. "It aint my fault that when I was a baby I fell into a box of glitter... and I been Shining. EVER. SINCE."
I mean... I don't think all women are worthless bytches and hoes and I don't think that all women will go bad. I'm not trying to be a pimp or player. I truthfully Just want to focus on myself and get my chips up like @kevm3 been saying since this thread started.
It just keeps me away from all of that "please baby I'll do it if it gets me your attention yeah I'll pay for date/dinner/your bills if you let me sniff your car seat please tell me I'm doing something right in your life I just want to be worthy of your time and affection" bullshyt I been on my whole life.
If you go around all different communities you see men are waking up to the dumpster that is the modern dating scene. You simply have to put up with too much if you want anything long-term. These women were brainwashed by society to be the antithesis of 'long-term. So many of them are sleeping with every guy around the block, and by the time they are 'ready' for a relationship, they are 30 with numerous kids, lost their looks and have nothing to offer a man.
That's why I say focus on doing your own thing and getting your life together. You're dumping your time down the drain spending all this time trying to figure out the majority of the women out there. There are a few jewels here and there, but you're not going to find them in the club or any of those settings. You're going to spend all this time banging your head against the wall wondering what missing tidbit of knowledge eludes you to get these women loyal to you over the long-term... until you eventually realize it's nothing you are doing. It's the way these women were raised. Daddy's little princess, feminism, don't slut shame, low accountability due to the media and school, etc. You'll be much better served by putting your time in an endeavor that will actually reward you for investing your time and energies into it. If you do find that gem along the way, great. On the other hand, if you focus on being the circus monkey to get the attention of women, you will regret wasting all of that time when you find out that woman can up and leave you at any time for seemingly little to no reason... and what will you have to show for it?
That's why I say focus on doing your own thing and getting your life together. You're dumping your time down the drain spending all this time trying to figure out the majority of the women out there. There are a few jewels here and there, but you're not going to find them in the club or any of those settings. You're going to spend all this time banging your head against the wall wondering what missing tidbit of knowledge eludes you to get these women loyal to you over the long-term... until you eventually realize it's nothing you are doing. It's the way these women were raised. Daddy's little princess, feminism, don't slut shame, low accountability due to the media and school, etc. You'll be much better served by putting your time in an endeavor that will actually reward you for investing your time and energies into it. If you do find that gem along the way, great. On the other hand, if you focus on being the circus monkey to get the attention of women, you will regret wasting all of that time when you find out that woman can up and leave you at any time for seemingly little to no reason... and what will you have to show for it?
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Real talk, I talk from experience, lastyear I spent thousands on taking women on dates and presents catering to women. those women are now long gone, I dont even talk to them anymore. All Im left with is a dent in my wallet,I could have used that money to pay off my debts.oh well you live n learn