Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Some people on this forum kill me.

I recently made a thread where I posted an article about a formerly obese guy turned bodybuilder. I made a jcomment in jest about him turning down the same women who dissed him years ago. I wasn't even taking that seriously, but all of a sudden I get accused of being this resentful, vengeful woman hater by a couple of ass dudes with other posters dapping them (ironically some of the same posters who have said worse themselves or have dapped me up countless times and still do ) when I've been one of the most respectful dudes towards women.

I notice a lot of muthafukkas are so over sensitive on this forum and quick to label anybody a woman hater like they got some kind o point to prove.

simps are indoctrinated. its funny the same people on this forum who call you bitter, a hater, etc., are teh ones who have cheated on the women and are driven by p*ssy. You know how much times i've been called this bitter dude who hates women , , just because I don't pander to their whims and im not afraid to call them out.

 

[MikelArteta]

I hear that, but the catch I was referring to is the fact that she's a single mother. In fact, came to find out one of the teenagers who were playing with us is her son who is 17 and she has a younger daughter too. Personality wise she seemed cool and has a good sense of humour, but I've vowed not to take on any single mothers and I'm sticking to that. I know as you get older it gets harder to find a woman past a certain age without children, but it is what it is.

Without me even bringing the topic up, my own dad advised me a couple of weeks not to take on any single mums....and this is without even knowing my thoughts on the topic. He was talking from his own experience too - he's been remarried for 20 years - so he knows the score. It's something I'm just not going to take on.

That's the thing about single mothers, the dude who impregnated them didn't stay around , so even though "he is this horrible a$$hole" as she would put it, why did she sleep with him unprotected why did she have his kid? what did he see in her that made him realize he would not want to be with her and her child.

I've seen enough from single mothers and men who have dated them to stay away, they will draw you in with their good looks, how their life is not that bad, and then you'll be to deep in a whole.

 

[Mr210]

Still going

 

[George Gooney]

I wasn't checking up on hwr twitter breh @reincar. But i forgot to unfollow one of her bestfriends who was quoting jokes from a phone convo they had together. No doubt because she knew I'd see it but oh well I'm not gonna sink down to their level and badmouth others no matter how badly i want to. I just deleted my twitter and instagram anyway that shyt is for tje birds.

 

[CrossBones]

What a lot of young guys will find absolutely bizarre is the less you care about dealing with women and the less you invest in them, the more interested in you they will become. So it definitely pays to put them on the backburner and handle your business and deal with them as they come. If you spend all kinds of time pursuing women, most men will come up with little of value. All of that money spent, time wasted, etc., because she was 'bored with your swag' and just up and went to the next guy. I used to think it was all about leadership this and that, but really, that's a sham too because these women don't want that either. They want to deal with guys who don't pay attention to them or exhibit dramatic, and even dangerous characteristics. I personally don't see women valuable enough to change my personality, so hence I focus on other things.

I will admit that plenty of women today arent even knowledgeable in what it takes to be a good woman or to be wifeable. they might not even really be interested in assuming that role. they think if theyre "badder" than the other chicks than she deserves everything from a man. or at least her competitive ego will be happy for a while. as for being a true blue wife, I dont think many are equipped or all that ready for it.

at the same time I believe that there are some righteous women out there, theyre just hard to find. on top of that, the majority of them are probably not found in north america. it is what it is, but as far as being a leader, if not for women then we need to be that for us. if for no more than just for the sake of this world having leaders who arent wishy washy and ruled by emotions. there is no one else is better qualified for the role in my eyes

 

[DaRealness]

I've seen enough from single mothers and men who have dated them to stay away, they will draw you in with their good looks, how their life is not that bad, and then you'll be to deep in a whole.

That's just something I'm not going to risk. I know a lot of dudes who have shyt going for them saying how a lot of these single mothers try to seduce them. Even if the woman and her kids are great, it will always be half assed and deep down I'd feel cheated. If I'm not there from the birth, to seeing their first step etc then why do it?

Nah, not for me. Personally I'd rather be an old father than take on another woman's kids.

 

[twan83]

That's just something I'm not going to risk. I know a lot of dudes who have shyt going for them saying how a lot of these single mothers try to seduce them. Even if the woman and her kids are great, it will always be half assed and deep down I'd feel cheated. If I'm not there from the birth, to seeing their first step etc then why do it?

Nah, not for me. Personally I'd rather be an old father than take on another woman's kids.

i can understand that and nothing wrong with it if you dont wanna date a single mom. im more of i dont mind it type of dude i did it before i had kids and maybe i was lucky but i got less shyt from them than the one's without kids and i think maybe cuz everyone i dated the father really didnt exist in the picture at all and the mom was like a high profession like a nurse, doctor, lawyer

but ya its hard too date them though thinking bout if the father comes along and it can cause some serious issues and u wanna be their from the get go at birth cuz u help created that child not some other dude.

i dont knock nobody who doesnt but i say if people wanna try its not that simple or easy cuz u got a lot of em that aint shyt and will try too seduce u and shyt ( doesnt apply too all though)

and when i was a single father it was more easier for me dating a single mom cuz the one's without kids i dated didnt understand im a father there are things i cant do and i have a responsibility too my kids as where a single mom aka the good one's understand that

regardless though whether single mom or not a good woman is hard too find cuz most women i have met and known aint shyt thats the reality but when u get a good one u gotta do right by her and keep her and so should she

 

[MikelArteta]

That's just something I'm not going to risk. I know a lot of dudes who have shyt going for them saying how a lot of these single mothers try to seduce them. Even if the woman and her kids are great, it will always be half assed and deep down I'd feel cheated. If I'm not there from the birth, to seeing their first step etc then why do it?

Nah, not for me. Personally I'd rather be an old father than take on another woman's kids.

the one thing when you think about it, is that relationships are already hard with just you and a woman. Now add a child, now add a baby father, .

And the situations, if the baby father isnt in the picture at all then you will be the beta daddy , and you'll wonder what type of losers was she laying with? if the baby dad is in the picture, deep down she will always have feelings for him, and hope for a family and the white picket fence, and no matter what dude does he can show up whenever to see his child, or get his dikk sucked or a quickie because he already knows how to seduce her.

I don't need that stress nor that extra drama in my life. Hell I wouldn't even date a woman who was still in contact with her ex, and with a baby daddy you can't say anything. Like I said i've seen it numerous times, going to pick up my godson to take him out or whatever, and his pops car is there all day or overnight, the same dude she "hates", is probably still in them guts whenever he wants.

 

[MikelArteta]

i can understand that and nothing wrong with it if you dont wanna date a single mom. im more of i dont mind it type of dude i did it before i had kids and maybe i was lucky but i got less shyt from them than the one's without kids and i think maybe cuz everyone i dated the father really didnt exist in the picture at all and the mom was like a high profession like a nurse, doctor, lawyer

but ya its hard too date them though thinking bout if the father comes along and it can cause some serious issues and u wanna be their from the get go at birth cuz u help created that child not some other dude.

i dont knock nobody who doesnt but i say if people wanna try its not that simple or easy cuz u got a lot of em that aint shyt and will try too seduce u and shyt ( doesnt apply too all though)

and when i was a single father it was more easier for me dating a single mom cuz the one's without kids i dated didnt understand im a father there are things i cant do and i have a responsibility too my kids as where a single mom aka the good one's understand that

regardless though whether single mom or not a good woman is hard too find cuz most women i have met and known aint shyt thats the reality but when u get a good one u gotta do right by her and keep her and so should she

but if the father wasnt in the picture wouldnt you question why would he leave a broad like this? and then whose watching her kids when you date, it would just show irresponsibility on my part.

Why would I want to date a woman who doesn't even put her children first?

 

[MikelArteta]

i can understand that and nothing wrong with it if you dont wanna date a single mom. im more of i dont mind it type of dude i did it before i had kids and maybe i was lucky but i got less shyt from them than the one's without kids and i think maybe cuz everyone i dated the father really didnt exist in the picture at all and the mom was like a high profession like a nurse, doctor, lawyer

but ya its hard too date them though thinking bout if the father comes along and it can cause some serious issues and u wanna be their from the get go at birth cuz u help created that child not some other dude.

i dont knock nobody who doesnt but i say if people wanna try its not that simple or easy cuz u got a lot of em that aint shyt and will try too seduce u and shyt ( doesnt apply too all though)

and when i was a single father it was more easier for me dating a single mom cuz the one's without kids i dated didnt understand im a father there are things i cant do and i have a responsibility too my kids as where a single mom aka the good one's understand that

regardless though whether single mom or not a good woman is hard too find cuz most women i have met and known aint shyt thats the reality but when u get a good one u gotta do right by her and keep her and so should she

but if the father wasnt in the picture wouldnt you question why would he leave a broad like this? and then whose watching her kids when you date, it would just show irresponsibility on my part.

Why would I want to date a woman who doesn't even put her children first?

 

[twan83]

but if the father wasnt in the picture wouldnt you question why would he leave a broad like this? and then whose watching her kids when you date, it would just show irresponsibility on my part.

Why would I want to date a woman who doesn't even put her children first?

thats why i ask y did he leave or y they left but i dont believe what they say cuz the longer u date them u tend too get an idea if she lying or not by how she acts also but even i know she can put up a front a long time and it be hard too tell.

and watching kids part is easy it would be their parents they would say and its what i did i ask my parents or siblings none gave me hard time watching my kids

 

[MikelArteta]

http://www.vanityfair.com/culture/2013/09/social-media-internet-porn-teenage-girls

the women of today

 

[RealAssanova]

A lot of guys are blaming their own actions for what women do, but you just have to have a mindset of as soon as they come in, they are ready to step out. As soon as they are with you, they are looking for you to falter and they are looking for the next best deal... and realistically, I could do all the circus tricks to show 'how much value' I have to women, but for what? A lot of fellas will be amazed at how much less drama enters their lives and how much less they stress when they stop worrying about women and what they want or what they will do next.

What a lot of young guys will find absolutely bizarre is the less you care about dealing with women and the less you invest in them, the more interested in you they will become. So it definitely pays to put them on the backburner and handle your business and deal with them as they come. If you spend all kinds of time pursuing women, most men will come up with little of value. All of that money spent, time wasted, etc., because she was 'bored with your swag' and just up and went to the next guy. I used to think it was all about leadership this and that, but really, that's a sham too because these women don't want that either. They want to deal with guys who don't pay attention to them or exhibit dramatic, and even dangerous characteristics. I personally don't see women valuable enough to change my personality, so hence I focus on other things.

Realest shyt i never wrote.

But remember, you can preach till you turn blue in da face, but change has to come from within a breh. I kno lotta n!ggaz dat stress like CRAZY cuz of women.

May allah help me if i ever get to that point . I live by those bolded rules, and its funny, i get called emotionless, cold, an a$$hole, bitter and a whole host of other shyt on da regular. But da fuk do i care?

 

[DaRealness]

Aiight, I'm sure most of you are playing GTA V, so in relation to this thread, you prolly know what mission in the game pisses me off (SPOILERS):



I would love for an ex to come to MY house shouting and telling ME what kind of person I am, that my success means nothing, calling me everything but a child of god and barking orders at me and shyt. LOL @ Franklin still simping her. The very second she started her nonsense I would have told her to GTFOHWTB.

The funny thing about her character is that after you complete the game you get a pointless phone call from her telling you she's getting married tomorrow to her doctor boyfriend like that shyt is supposed to mean anything to me.

 

[NickTaLife]

Hey bros when I was at work I thought of some questions and figured this would be the best place for honest answers
How do you feel about giving compliments(looks, brains, and things in general)? If so how much is too much?
What do you do when the convo goes dry?
What if she doesn't wanna chill? It is what it is? She'll come around when she's ready?
How honest is honest? Can you take it too far?
Is two(or more) girls better than one? Keeping a bench to keep you crisp
Always be playing(mind games, not taking things seriously)?
The fukk her feelings its all about me mindset?
Always refuse to pay and make her pay?
After sex protocol dip out or chill?
Always keep convo dry and basic(don't open up kinda thing)?