Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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yeah I often get blank stares when I express to people how the school system produces factory worker bees and it has been literally designed to do so. How it kills critical thinking skills and creativity in favor of short term memory development and recall of things that you'll never really use.

Its as simple as training you to get up and go to a place for 9 hours a day with an hour break

ruining your attention span by breaking your long term train of thought by switching subjects once an hour

and teaching you that 2+2=4 is correct, but 1+3=4 is not.

I actually have a list of footnotes at home on the subject (I'm at work now). If you're interested,I can post links and such tomorrow some time.

Sure, I've actually been working on an extremely long blog about social programming. I'm glad more and more people are waking up. God bless.
 

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Missed a golden opportunity today to talk to one that is MY TYPE exactly :snoop:
 

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Missed a golden opportunity today to talk to one that is MY TYPE exactly :snoop:

she just wasn't for you.

i dont believe in missed opportunties, because sometimes in my life I thought a girl was my type or whatever missed out on talking to her and then like a month later or whatever bumped into her again.
 

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After browsing the breakup section of Reddit for an hour I'm convinced that a person's breakup is the most important thing to them. nikkas be writing full-on novels and shyt. I know I've been guilty of this as well. It's funny how similar all the situations can be tho. Makes you wonder how "special" any of these girls really are.


@kevm3 @His_Excellence_Reincar What y'all think of this??? I ask because recently an older woman has been trynna get at me(No kids, Good Job, Doesn't look her age) I might hang with her next weekend. http://laidnyc.wordpress.com/2013/08/05/dont-marry-any-woman-older-than-25/


Man use your own intuition and common sense instead of following some baseless rule by a guy with a blog. I know a bunch of girls in the 28-33 age range right now who are quality and will be good wifeys. They're smart, good looking, and cool too. Most of them have no baggage either. I actually admire a woman who worked on herself and didn't succumb to society's rules (except my ex, she shoulda settled down :youngsabo: ).

But yeah man, just make sure you do your due diligence when dealing with an older broad and you'll be fine. Young chicks come with their own set of problems too. Lord knows I know. :snoop:
 

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I enjoy the personality of older women to younger women generally. My main concern would be that a woman that is a pure gem is usually wrapped up by that age, so I would be curious to hear the reasons as to why she is single. A lot of these women are great at reeling guys in, but eventually the man finds out why she is single at her age.
 

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the thing about older women is especially if they are attractive, is why are they single :patrice:

is she the career women who pushed aside dating etc., and now wants to get in the market.
is is she the women who slored herself up and rode the dikk carousel had her fun and wants to settle down.

I look at it like a old used car, it may be in great shape but have alot of miles on the odometer.

And many older women want to settle down and have kids right away

like is aid their are pros and cons to both
 

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I enjoy the personality of older women to younger women generally. My main concern would be that a woman that is a pure gem is usually wrapped up by that age, so I would be curious to hear the reasons as to why she is single. A lot of these women are great at reeling guys in, but eventually the man finds out why she is single at her age.

I'd just proceed with caution, there are pros and cons to messing with older women

You guys are right but sometimes its a pure numbers thing. For instance, a single.. attractive 33 year old in Iowa is a red flag. Because dudes out here will settle down with you at age 22. It's the culture.

The same woman in Atlanta or New York tho... :patrice: There may not be anything wrong with her. She may just have standards and most of the guys aren't trying to settle down and there are a ton of young women to compete with. Also, she may have come off a long term relationship that didn't work out. I say this because, hell, I've created a couple of these women. I actually respect some chicks for not settling and lowering their standards.

But I think we all agree that you gotta proceed with caution and do your research. I just hate applying generic rules to people because I wouldn't want anyone to do the same with me. For instance, nowadays I'm hearing a lot of, "Stay away from black men, they don't want to settle down." out there. As a black man, even though I know it's true a lot of times I wouldn't want it held against me if I wanted to be serious with a girl.

Lastly, a young chick who is mature and knows what she wants is just as rare as an old chick who has nothing wrong with her. Two sides of the same coin in my opinion. The only thing for sure is that an older chick will need to have kids ASAP. She doesn't have the benefit of time.
 
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