breh i am im cutting her out of my life tomorrow
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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breh i am im cutting her out of my life tomorrow
smARTmouf
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@His_Excellence_Reincar you sound like a good man.
Don't let this change you. You just have to cut your losses. It seems like she's going to need you, before you need her in the end.
Don't let this change you. You just have to cut your losses. It seems like she's going to need you, before you need her in the end.
"Common male living in the modern western world, this is how your existence will develop. You will commence with aspirations, grand aspirations. You will consider that you are intended for something extraordinary. You will unwillingly abandon your visions as the ages pass and reality adamantly inclines upon you like a bitter blanket of grit. That truth stares at you something like this –
You will age, get less attractive, and expand as each year passes. Soon you will notice young, desirable females failing to take your flirtations seriously. Your laziness and social disinterest will worsen until individuals do not even worry to be gracious around you. You will progressively lower your standards in what you want in a girl until desperation thrusts you to marry a dumpy oinker well past her best years. You will now be paying full price for the used car that everyone experienced the “new car smell” with in its virile prime. You will rut with her once a week initially, then once a month, then holidays only, then only on anniversaries. You will release yourself tediously masturbating in the middle of the night by the cold wavering light of your computer monitor while that overstuffed warpig who doesn’t care for your desires snores in the bed you can no longer get a nod of sleep in.
Your one scrap of comfort will come from knowing your low value wife; will have as few options in the sexual marketplace as you do, essentially guaranteeing constant fidelity. Eventually she will pump out a few snotty kids and your free time and discretionary cash will be completely obliterated. You will dissipate whatever fragments of opportunities that pass your way as you settle into a placid, dull job paying the average wage obediently plugging away as a lifeless soul in the corporate hierarchy that will proceed to discard you like used trash the moment the value you offer drops. You will wordlessly bemoan your ineffectual, shrivelled manhood as the reputable order extracts the last penny of praise from your cracked spirit. You will numb the pain with alcohol and countless hours vegging in front of the TV. Hours, days, months, years will slip away. Then, one dark, lonely day, you’ll consider the arch of your life. You will feel the bedevilling grip of desolation as the overwhelming weight of what a barren nothingness your reality proved to be presses down on you. Hardly understanding, you’ll shake.
And then, finally, the Grim Reaper will pinch your last breath and you will fade from the world as if you had never been here and when they bury you not one person will really notice and no one will really care because in your whole life you never ever, not even once, stepped outside the square, and lived life.
And it will be too late when you understand that the chains clutched to your ankles and wrists were unlocked all this time, and you were always free to go."
You will age, get less attractive, and expand as each year passes. Soon you will notice young, desirable females failing to take your flirtations seriously. Your laziness and social disinterest will worsen until individuals do not even worry to be gracious around you. You will progressively lower your standards in what you want in a girl until desperation thrusts you to marry a dumpy oinker well past her best years. You will now be paying full price for the used car that everyone experienced the “new car smell” with in its virile prime. You will rut with her once a week initially, then once a month, then holidays only, then only on anniversaries. You will release yourself tediously masturbating in the middle of the night by the cold wavering light of your computer monitor while that overstuffed warpig who doesn’t care for your desires snores in the bed you can no longer get a nod of sleep in.
Your one scrap of comfort will come from knowing your low value wife; will have as few options in the sexual marketplace as you do, essentially guaranteeing constant fidelity. Eventually she will pump out a few snotty kids and your free time and discretionary cash will be completely obliterated. You will dissipate whatever fragments of opportunities that pass your way as you settle into a placid, dull job paying the average wage obediently plugging away as a lifeless soul in the corporate hierarchy that will proceed to discard you like used trash the moment the value you offer drops. You will wordlessly bemoan your ineffectual, shrivelled manhood as the reputable order extracts the last penny of praise from your cracked spirit. You will numb the pain with alcohol and countless hours vegging in front of the TV. Hours, days, months, years will slip away. Then, one dark, lonely day, you’ll consider the arch of your life. You will feel the bedevilling grip of desolation as the overwhelming weight of what a barren nothingness your reality proved to be presses down on you. Hardly understanding, you’ll shake.
And then, finally, the Grim Reaper will pinch your last breath and you will fade from the world as if you had never been here and when they bury you not one person will really notice and no one will really care because in your whole life you never ever, not even once, stepped outside the square, and lived life.
And it will be too late when you understand that the chains clutched to your ankles and wrists were unlocked all this time, and you were always free to go."
man the things i have done
when she got knocked up she literally had no one and was planning on having a abortion I talked her out of it.
She had no place to stay for 4 months my brother in law and sister took her and her hcild in rent free
then when she found a place she only had half of first and last and thats when i lent it to her.
she had no furniture not even a bed, my mom gave her the extra couch in the basement and the mattress that was in the guest room
My sister watched her child when she was off on mat leave for FREE for like 5 months.
She lost her job and was on ei couldnt even afford groceries, probably like every month for 7 months i was buying her kid food to eat as well as hers.
she was applying for jobs at mcdonalds and couldnt even get a interview till i fixed up her resume and started applying and got her a 45k a year gig
and after all of this she sent my godson to live with his dad who only saw him once a month because she didnt want to pay daycare, club and sleep around.
and all ive gotten is disrespect, spat on and manipulate, I neve rasked for my money back when she had her old crappy min wage job and struggling now that she's making good coin and still getting child benefits i asked back for it in installments, as shes planning trips, buying new clothes, etc. and all i got was disrespect. So i made my ultimatum and tomorrow is the final day of this.
and no i didn't do any of this for praise, for look theirs reincar a great guy, for sex, for favors for nothing. I just did it out of kindness because I have no problem helping out someone who needs it, but when they use and buse it
Loaning money to women is a bad idea 8 times out of 10. There are a few stand up ones, but most of them will try to be slick and not pay you back. They'll try to talk you out of it, shame you or offer you something else in exchange for it. Sad to say, there are few women who make great friends or have any sense of honor. As a man, you want to be kind and make sure 'your friend' is alright, but that woman usually is just going to treat you like a resource. Use you and as soon as she gets her favor, you're nothing to her. Somehow these ladies are always one step away from financial ruin, you let them tell it, but some how, some way they have money to go to the club or buy liquor and have nice outfits. It's more like they'll spend your money on necessities and use their own money they have tucked away on luxuries.
yeah i know that now, like i said i was just doing a favor for her to get a place
and i agree with what you said while im making my last stand tom, she has money to go clubbing, buy new clothes, get her nails, hair done, take the bus etc., but can't cough up my dough
If a female 'friend' asks to borrow a large sum of money, tell her you don't have that amount to loan and instead tell her the most you can give is $50 to $100. If she can't pay that small sum back, that's one you never do favors for. Most females you think are your 'friends' are not really your friend. To them you are more like their favor friend or benefit buddy. The women I've been friends with are the ones I have general conversations with and we just become cool and talk about whatever. There are only a rare few females I would loan money to.
Think about this though. When most women ask to borrow money, it's because they don't have their financial ship in order. If you look at their history, they have a pattern of financial irresponsibility. So realistically, why would she pay you back? If she can't keep up with her general obligations, then she's not likely to pay back something from one of her favor buddies. She'll magically disappear and cut contact and will run from you just like she's ran from her other responsibilities. If you see a woman has been clubbing recently, then be very wary about loaning her money. She can buy liquor, nice outfits and pay the club entry fee, but she can't find money for her responsibilities?
Here's another thing to watch out for. Avoid women that favor-stack. They start off by asking you something small and then they stack another favor on top of that and ask for something slightly bigger, and then keep on asking you for more and more favors. A lot of women are very skilled at doing this and have a way of emotionally manipulating men and making men feel like they owe her a favor. I'm sure some of you have had females cop attitudes when you didn't do them some favor. You don't owe them anything. It is an act of gratitude on your part that you choose to do something.
Think about this though. When most women ask to borrow money, it's because they don't have their financial ship in order. If you look at their history, they have a pattern of financial irresponsibility. So realistically, why would she pay you back? If she can't keep up with her general obligations, then she's not likely to pay back something from one of her favor buddies. She'll magically disappear and cut contact and will run from you just like she's ran from her other responsibilities. If you see a woman has been clubbing recently, then be very wary about loaning her money. She can buy liquor, nice outfits and pay the club entry fee, but she can't find money for her responsibilities?
Here's another thing to watch out for. Avoid women that favor-stack. They start off by asking you something small and then they stack another favor on top of that and ask for something slightly bigger, and then keep on asking you for more and more favors. A lot of women are very skilled at doing this and have a way of emotionally manipulating men and making men feel like they owe her a favor. I'm sure some of you have had females cop attitudes when you didn't do them some favor. You don't owe them anything. It is an act of gratitude on your part that you choose to do something.
That white girl I knew from hs has a boyfriend now and claims to love him yet was sending me messages on fb to hang out. You really can't trust anyone now it's kind of crazy how easy it is to cheat.
That older Puerto Rican woman has been texting me all the things she wants to do to me and it's a bit tempting. She looks extremely good for her age and while I haven't done anything with her she's making it difficult to say no.
That older Puerto Rican woman has been texting me all the things she wants to do to me and it's a bit tempting. She looks extremely good for her age and while I haven't done anything with her she's making it difficult to say no.
she must of had you wide open breh.
and this is also why you shouldn't go around bragging about your cashflow and how much your account holds.
I thought I was going to marry that girl breh
why is that when you're in a relationship you wanna get out of it but when you're single you hate being lonely and wished there was someone there .. ?
selfishness and ego.
just like how you hate your job, hate waking up early then when you get laid off your
but isn't that what you wanted?