Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Panther]

Survey Question:

What types of reactions have you brehs got from chicks out here when describing your thoughts on dating and relationships? Not even necessarily from a chick you may want to get at just in general.

I was thinking back on some conversations i had during the summer with 1 of my boys girls and her friend. And after expressing my viewpoints on why I'm not out here trying to cater to any of these hoes, im not coming out the pocket off top etc... They tried to tell me i needed to get off my high horse They were like "Who does Panther think he is? , and what throne did God sit him on?"

I found it pretty humorous at the time, and while i don't think I'm 'above' a woman i do feel that these broads out here don't know their roles in relationships, and aren't playing their positions because they are too busy trying to play mine

 

[kevm3]

Survey Question:

What types of reactions have you brehs got from chicks out here when describing your thoughts on dating and relationships? Not even necessarily from a chick you may want to get at just in general.

I was thinking back on some conversations i had during the summer with 1 of my boys girls and her friend. And after expressing my viewpoints on why I'm not out here trying to cater to any of these hoes, im not coming out the pocket off top etc... They tried to tell me i needed to get off my high horse They were like "Who does Panther think he is? , and what throne did God sit him on?"

I found it pretty humorous at the time, and while i don't think I'm 'above' a woman i do feel that these broads out here don't know their roles in relationships, and aren't playing their positions because they are too busy trying to play mine

i don't even share them for the most part unless i know someone sees it from my perspective. if some of these dudes want to put way more in the relationship and walk out with problems, that's on them.

 

[DeuceZ]

Just was telling my friend yesterday that females won't turn down a free meal, if a woman is interested, she will take the initiative sometimes to plan something. Stop coming out of pocket each and every time thinking you are getting close, when in reality you probably aren't.

My own sister told me that when I was in high school I was like




she dunno how much $ she's saved me

 

[DaRealness]

Survey Question:

What types of reactions have you brehs got from chicks out here when describing your thoughts on dating and relationships? Not even necessarily from a chick you may want to get at just in general.

I was thinking back on some conversations i had during the summer with 1 of my boys girls and her friend. And after expressing my viewpoints on why I'm not out here trying to cater to any of these hoes, im not coming out the pocket off top etc... They tried to tell me i needed to get off my high horse They were like "Who does Panther think he is? , and what throne did God sit him on?"

I found it pretty humorous at the time, and while i don't think I'm 'above' a woman i do feel that these broads out here don't know their roles in relationships, and aren't playing their positions because they are too busy trying to play mine

I don't discuss anything with randoms. I'm going to be a lot more indifferent to chicks now - in fact, to anybody who doesn't have anything to bring to the table for that matter. Not as some slick ploy to get attention, but I just want to filter out as much bullshyt from my life as possible. I got studying and other things to do. It will take a great woman for me to give the time of day to. If and when I discuss how I feel on dating and relationships, I'll give it to 'em raw like ODB. If they don't like it, tough.

 

[DaRealness]

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/359218/Missus-bedded-pal-at-our-Christmas-bash

 

[MikelArteta]

Survey Question:

What types of reactions have you brehs got from chicks out here when describing your thoughts on dating and relationships? Not even necessarily from a chick you may want to get at just in general.

I was thinking back on some conversations i had during the summer with 1 of my boys girls and her friend. And after expressing my viewpoints on why I'm not out here trying to cater to any of these hoes, im not coming out the pocket off top etc... They tried to tell me i needed to get off my high horse They were like "Who does Panther think he is? , and what throne did God sit him on?"

I found it pretty humorous at the time, and while i don't think I'm 'above' a woman i do feel that these broads out here don't know their roles in relationships, and aren't playing their positions because they are too busy trying to play mine

the reaction i usually get is "your still hurt" , whenever you don't conform to the way these simps and other men out there do kissing thier feet, being controlled by their vagina they have to throw out defensive mechanisms to try and bring you down.

i dont mean to be rude or harsh but im at the point in my life where i could care less if a woman is turned off by what i say, there is the door

 

[CrossBones]

Survey Question:

What types of reactions have you brehs got from chicks out here when describing your thoughts on dating and relationships? Not even necessarily from a chick you may want to get at just in general.

I was thinking back on some conversations i had during the summer with 1 of my boys girls and her friend. And after expressing my viewpoints on why I'm not out here trying to cater to any of these hoes, im not coming out the pocket off top etc... They tried to tell me i needed to get off my high horse They were like "Who does Panther think he is? , and what throne did God sit him on?"

I found it pretty humorous at the time, and while i don't think I'm 'above' a woman i do feel that these broads out here don't know their roles in relationships, and aren't playing their positions because they are too busy trying to play mine

lol, you know the stupid thing is that theyre ones on their high horse with that gimme gimme attitude, and theyre the ones who think theyre on a throne. that entitlement thing is real

but the thing is, they want a man who does better than her. he has to be like that for them to feel him. someone who can "handle her behavior." they want a man with strength. they want a man with confidence.

you have to get used to NOT dealing with their hen pecking and nagging. you have to say what you have to say, and they if want to be bytches, well tell them thats all well and good, but that you didnt ask for their opinion on how you operate. g em. dont entertain their nonsense. matter of fact, a good thing to do is to not take what they said seriously and even walk away. excuse your yourself from their stank, they hate that when you dont entertain them. its dismissive, which it should be. get some space and talk with other people at the venue. do your thing and dont entertain their name calling, and juvenile debating. once you spend too much time explaining yourself to them over and over, you lost.

because the thing with women, theyll argue until they are blue in the face, talking circles around the whole issue. theyll name call and basically think you have to put up with their childish behavior because youre supposed to. recognize that ploy and keep it pushing when that happens. we dont argue with hoes, and we dont sit up there putting up with childish behavior. when as a man you deal with things by stating your word very clearly, then acting on it. we speak better through actions anyways. dont reward their bullshyt with attention, or entertaining their games. just shut em down and get somewhere else you can fit in.

even if theyre mad, on some level they will respect it, because your actions matched up with your words. you didnt stoop to their level and they will effectively be on time out. its forever important that you stand by your words and never debate with their childish antics.

 

[Rusty Dusty]

WOW. Amazing thread.

I'll certainly chime in from time to time to contribute.

 

[TheArchitect]

It just simply means the bytch isn't worth fukking with, so she's doing you a favour.

I despise people with the sheep mentality and it shows they're just mentally weak and have no backbone, so you don't need them in your life anyway. Let them continue to listen to the bad mind haters who are probably just envious and don't ever want to see them happy at all, so will just speak any old bullshyt in their ear. This is why I'm wary of women who roam around in cliques.

Yea...I guess that's the price I pay for not fitting the status quo. It REALLY infuriates me when they try to show up in front of a nikka afterwards trying to show remorse, on some "I was wrong" shyt, with fake-ass apologetic behavior. I just turn my back on they ass...

 

[TheArchitect]

In my experience most women are followers. They tend to like whatever their friends like and dislike in the same manner. Other times they just fear questioning or ridicule for something their peers don't consider to be the norm. It is what it is honestly. No sense in really letting it get to you. That's just their nature. Why do you think when you get with a woman and she spends more time with you than her friends she begins to emulate certain aspects of your character? It's the same thing only now you're her main influence not her friends.

It seems as if your whole character can instantly be assassinated due to someone else's bullshyt. You can try and defend yourself, but all these simple-minded fukks are still going to be looking like this...Makes a nikka just want to retire from the field, and just fukk bytches no strings attached from now on...The games ain't worth it...and I'll be damned if I wind up being one of them cats who finish last, and wind up with some washed-out bytch with all kinds of baggage. No sirrrr. I am NOT. THE. ONE......

 

[MikelArteta]

It seems as if your whole character can instantly be assassinated due to someone else's bullshyt. You can try and defend yourself, but all these simple-minded fukks are still going to be looking like this...Makes a nikka just want to retire from the field, and just fukk bytches no strings attached from now on...The games ain't worth it...and I'll be damned if I wind up being one of them cats who finish last, and wind up with some washed-out bytch with all kinds of baggage. No sirrrr. I am NOT. THE. ONE......

it can, and the thing is before a woman dumps you shes already discusedd it with the clan, her female friends her mom etc., and they are all like yeah go do it girl, hes a loser, you can do so much better etc.


its all followers, why if say a group of 4 close friends one gets married just watch as the rest go in ltr and get married, or if one gets a bf the other ones do.

Or if one breaks up watch as the other ones do so they can start clubbing partying going on vacays etc. again.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

If a woman's friend is downing you or talking reckless to your girl about you......its because she wishes she had a man like you in her life.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

When a woman breaks up with you think of it as NFL cut day in training camp everybody knows your gonna get cut (Owner,GM,head coach,coordinators,staff) and only person left out on the cut is YOU..... until she (or team in my analogy( calls you up (face it a woman isnt going to tell you face to face) is when you found out you have been released.What im sayin is...A woman will tell everybody.Friends.sister,close friend at work (basically her job),hair dresser,mom etc...until you find out.Which is why I always say in a relationship its between you,her and her closest friends and family.A woman is like social media only share what you feel comfortable,because once you say it its out there forever and will come back to you in one form or another.

 

[kevm3]

The more I think about it, I actually think it's a positive thing that women diss these 'nice guys'. There's a vast difference between being a 'nice guy' and a good guy.

Nice guys are sneaky men with a vein of cowardice in them who use their veneer of pleasantness to bait and switch. They come under the veneer of friendship only to try to shift it to something else. It's like somebody coming up to you saying they want to be your friend and acting cool with you, only to try to get you to join Primerica or one of those MLM schemes. If you don't join, they get mad at you because they felt that them being 'nice' to you entitles them to getting a favor from you. The 'nice guy' act disappears real quick when they don't get what they originally came for, which is something they never mentioned in the first place.

When dealing with a woman, stop being scared and stop coming at them like you are a 'friend' and try to parlay that into something more down thel line. These nice guys have the audacity to get mad when they don't get taken up on their bait and switch offer. If you come as a friend, that's where she'll place you.

Something about these 'nice guys' is that they aren't necessarily good. They are manipulative and if they don't get what they want, they get angry. They also like to avoid confrontation, so they will say anything to 'keep the peace'. They are like perennial yes men who will tell you it's ok to jump off a cliff if that's what they think you wanted to hear in order for them to avoid conflict or in order for them to keep it cordial with you so they can get what they want down the line. Sometimes conflict is necessary in order to set things straight, and being pleasant all the time isn't being real.

 

[The Frozen One]

fukk it i'm done with women

i'm not gonna keep chasing women, if they want me, they'll have to come to me. I'm not hitting on any women from now on. I'm just gonna focus on myself.