Man I problem I have when it comes to relationship is I hate letting people down,meaning the gf, her family, and her friends especially when i know they really like me and the fact that me and who ever the girl Im with are together. But what ends up happening, is i put up with crap that no one should in a relationship and vice versa. Mostly just constant bickering and disagreements because i keep thing that if I let it fail I will let a lot of people know and I hate letting people down, this goes beyond just intimate relationship. Mind you these women have a good heart and do a lot of things for them, but we still just have some issues. Well the relationship continues until about the 16-18 mark and thats when all of my relationships finally end, literally the last 4 relationships all fall within that range. Then I look back feeling stupid because I invested that time for nothing. At that point im deep with the family who consider me their son and or brother.
well here I am again, Im in a relationship, only been together 4 months, and we are still having small little fights way too often. She has no kids, never been married, college degree, very simple (not high maintenance) and appreciates the small things. Very goodlooking woman and the sex is the bomb, but we are having too many fights and I dont want to continue with the fighting. I can tell this woman is deeply in love with me and it hurts her that we still have this fights. Its like Im afraid to break up because im afraid that in this day in age that I wont meet another woman who has so many of the qualities im looking for. In the past my prior relationships were a little too spoiled for my taste. My gf family loves me (her mom is always bringing me all kinds of things), there friends of hers that ive met i like and vice versa. She has only met my cousin and aunt. My mother doesnt want to meet her because she isnt black and feels like this relationship wont last and doesnt want to invest the emotions.
Here is another issue, Im crazy about this woman who works at my job, but at a different department. Everyone who knows the 2 of us tell me how crazy she is about me. She has a great personality, lookwise is ok, but real talk her personality really enchances her beauty. Ive yet to see one red flag from her or anything of concern and ive known her for like 8 months. Lately ive been dreaming about this woman (mind you I never ever dream about woman, not even my gfs). She knows im in a relationship and has done nothing to disrespect it. Im starting to feel bad because here I am in a relationship but thinking about another woman. Normally I have a strict "dont date people at work" but I honestly would make an exception for her. She does have a 12 yr old kid who ive met and the other thing is she is white. Normally Im not attracted to white women (never been with one) and I know my family would have some issues especially my mother, which in the past has caused issues with my gfs that werent black. But then again I dont think my mother will like anyone I date because even when ive been with black women she has still been cold with them.
I normally dont write long post, but this has been on my mind for like a month right now. I really dont know what to do. I know life is about following your heart sometimes and dealing with the consequences that come with it. Any suggestions
well here I am again, Im in a relationship, only been together 4 months, and we are still having small little fights way too often. She has no kids, never been married, college degree, very simple (not high maintenance) and appreciates the small things. Very goodlooking woman and the sex is the bomb, but we are having too many fights and I dont want to continue with the fighting. I can tell this woman is deeply in love with me and it hurts her that we still have this fights. Its like Im afraid to break up because im afraid that in this day in age that I wont meet another woman who has so many of the qualities im looking for. In the past my prior relationships were a little too spoiled for my taste. My gf family loves me (her mom is always bringing me all kinds of things), there friends of hers that ive met i like and vice versa. She has only met my cousin and aunt. My mother doesnt want to meet her because she isnt black and feels like this relationship wont last and doesnt want to invest the emotions.
Here is another issue, Im crazy about this woman who works at my job, but at a different department. Everyone who knows the 2 of us tell me how crazy she is about me. She has a great personality, lookwise is ok, but real talk her personality really enchances her beauty. Ive yet to see one red flag from her or anything of concern and ive known her for like 8 months. Lately ive been dreaming about this woman (mind you I never ever dream about woman, not even my gfs). She knows im in a relationship and has done nothing to disrespect it. Im starting to feel bad because here I am in a relationship but thinking about another woman. Normally I have a strict "dont date people at work" but I honestly would make an exception for her. She does have a 12 yr old kid who ive met and the other thing is she is white. Normally Im not attracted to white women (never been with one) and I know my family would have some issues especially my mother, which in the past has caused issues with my gfs that werent black. But then again I dont think my mother will like anyone I date because even when ive been with black women she has still been cold with them.
I normally dont write long post, but this has been on my mind for like a month right now. I really dont know what to do. I know life is about following your heart sometimes and dealing with the consequences that come with it. Any suggestions
. Then told to pump her breaks 
with all these plans and lets just handle business. 
for ol girl... Those days are done
I'm glad you told her step. Notice how she said YOU should take her to dinner. 
Bwoy, dem gal deh nuh easy, rudebwoy.
