Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[winb83]

i think its sad brehs that me as a man, a man who is a very nice individual who would give the shirt of his back to someone in need, has to literally be mean and cold to most women or i will be taken advantage of, its sad that life has come to this

What's sad is its in my nature to want to help people and when it comes to women you just can't. I don't want anything in return but at the same time I don't want to be used or taken advantage of. I don't want to be punished for charity or have some broad like she's entitled to my acts of kindness.

The new rule for dealing with women is "no good deed goes unpunished."

 

[Sharp]

Young brehs.... I'm currently going thru a divorce and I have kids.

I knew the game, but the biggest mistake I ever made in life was thinking that any woman was an exception to the rule. Even when you find that girl who you want to settle down with, do not get lax or change up the game. Keep to the principles, and if she acts up be prepared to let go.

I know you may have deep emotions involved, but remember "the only purpose of the heart is to pump blood, not make life changing decisions."

Marriage is a little bit difficult, because there are penalties... mostly financial, and custodial if you have children. If you do decide to get married, you must make it benefit you.

Even though it sounds wrong, it is true. Do not marry a woman who you can't control. What I mean by control is that you have to break her down. You have to get her to buy in to your principles. This is very difficult, which amazes me how many men are married to a woman who is volatile. Most divorces are filed by women. It really doesn't benefit you to get married, but if you must (like my dumb ass did), you need to control the marriage (can't be no equals), and she must believe that there is a severe consequence for disrespecting you or wanting to get a divorce.

 

[jalamanta]

just a random ramble, some may agree some may not


After more than a year of not having sex due to religious reasons , i've realized that besides sex, most women offer nothing to me. Can't talk to them about sports, video games, politics, investing for the most part.

As others have mentioned, the money being saved, time wasted traveling to and form, or constant text messaging back and forth, the nagging eh not missed at all.

i think its sad brehs that me as a man, a man who is a very nice individual who would give the shirt of his back to someone in need, has to literally be mean and cold to most women or i will be taken advantage of, its sad that life has come to this


now im at a point in my life where its , i could literally be fine being single for ever if so be. I will not settle for someone beneath me like many men do.

time is on our side brehs

I am 22 and I feel the same way. The sad part though is that I feel lonely sometimes. I realized all that shyt written in this thread from experience and I feel like I will never look at women the same way as it was with my ex. I feel like this void cant be filled with job/hobby/traveling.









fukk it though

 

[winb83]

Young brehs.... I'm currently going thru a divorce and I have kids.

I knew the game, but the biggest mistake I ever made in life was thinking that any woman was an exception to the rule. Even when you find that girl who you want to settle down with, do not get lax or change up the game. Keep to the principles, and if she acts up be prepared to let go.

I know you may have deep emotions involved, but remember "the only purpose of the heart is to pump blood, not make life changing decisions."

Marriage is a little bit difficult, because there are penalties... mostly financial, and custodial if you have children. If you do decide to get married, you must make it benefit you.

Even though it sounds wrong, it is true. Do not marry a woman who you can't control. What I mean by control is that you have to break her down. You have to get her to buy in to your principles. This is very difficult, which amazes me how many men are married to a woman who is volatile. Most divorces are filed by women. It really doesn't benefit you to get married, but if you must (like my dumb ass did), you need to control the marriage (can't be no equals), and she must believe that there is a severe consequence for disrespecting you or wanting to get a divorce.

As a man I've discovered you have to establish a set of rules and principles and never violate them. Every time something has gone wrong in my life with women its been because I violated my own principals. When I say never I mean married for 40 years and you still adhere to them.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Never ever ever play fight with your lady. Sounds stupid,but it can catch you a serous case and L. As we know a play fight can turn serious and by it turning serious will land you a serious case.So dont let a woman bait you into play fighting."Come on ni99a hit me" etc

 

[MikelArteta]

Young brehs.... I'm currently going thru a divorce and I have kids.

I knew the game, but the biggest mistake I ever made in life was thinking that any woman was an exception to the rule. Even when you find that girl who you want to settle down with, do not get lax or change up the game. Keep to the principles, and if she acts up be prepared to let go.

I know you may have deep emotions involved, but remember "the only purpose of the heart is to pump blood, not make life changing decisions."

Marriage is a little bit difficult, because there are penalties... mostly financial, and custodial if you have children. If you do decide to get married, you must make it benefit you.

Even though it sounds wrong, it is true. Do not marry a woman who you can't control. What I mean by control is that you have to break her down. You have to get her to buy in to your principles. This is very difficult, which amazes me how many men are married to a woman who is volatile. Most divorces are filed by women. It really doesn't benefit you to get married, but if you must (like my dumb ass did), you need to control the marriage (can't be no equals), and she must believe that there is a severe consequence for disrespecting you or wanting to get a divorce.

Did you get custody?

Did she file or did you?


Marriage as a man scares me you can do everything right but if the other person doesn't agree then

 

[MikelArteta]

I am 22 and I feel the same way. The sad part though is that I feel lonely sometimes. I realized all that shyt written in this thread from experience and I feel like I will never look at women the same way as it was with my ex. I feel like this void cant be filled with job/hobby/traveling.









fukk it though

Loneliness is a state of mind, many married people are lonely as hell because all yet haw is their spouse that neglects them

 

[Sharp]

Did you get custody?

Did she file or did you?


Marriage as a man scares me you can do everything right but if the other person doesn't agree then

I filed for divorce, but custody battle was nasty.

My ex-wife moved 250+ miles away with my son when I was at work. Then filed an order of protection against me, which opened a Children Services case. I had to come out of my pocket and get a private lawyer to beat all charges (which I did because they were fraudulent).

Women are devious when they are hurt. Once I stopped taking care of her, and did the bare minimum (paying the rent, bills, and taking care of my son) she got tight. When women get married they feel entitled. Towards the end of the marriage, my senses kicked back in and I prepared to leave. I started reapplying the principles and she got caught off guard by my changes.

She got physical custody, but I have joint legal custody. I have to pay child support, but if I would have stayed longer I would have lost more in the long run. I have to start over financially, but at least I can say I'm free.

 

[kevm3]

The more I stay here in America, the more I just realized the game is rigged. You have the system which is vastly tilted in the woman's favor coupled with a flock of women who were raised with a mindset that is contrary towards long-term values and holding down a solid family. Couple feminism with the moral-less drivel they are being fed via shows like Sex and the City and Atlanta Housewives and you have women who easily get bored and are actually rewarded for discarding a 'stable man.'

If you're looking for something short term, aka living the life of a bachelor, this is the time period that benefits this lifestyle the most... that is until they get one of these women pregnant, catch an STD or get shot by the angry boyfriend you were never told about. If you try to do something long-term, that's where you really begin to have a problem. You have to have so much together and have to have so many rules you follow, it starts becoming a headache. It's as if you almost have to watch the woman you are with to see if she's going to stab you in the back at any moment.

It may not even be her trying to intentionally do you wrong, but just for the fact that you can marry her, she gets 'bored' and wants something else, you might end up with a split home, her taking more than 50% off the assets with you having to pay her, etc. This simply isn't a society that rewards honest, decent men. Rather, they are utilized as hosts for different parasitical forces to drain and discard. The fact that you have to halfway have a pimp mentality to hopefully get some longevity shows you what a landmine it is. It's like a man has to be extra-fly for women who aren't putting in half that effort.

Let's look at it today. If you're a 'decent fellow' who holds down a job, treats your woman fair, lives a drama-free life, etc., your woman very well may look at you as some boring dude to be taken advantage of. You get much more rewards by being the guy that 'pops up' every now and then but she can never get a hold of him... She'll do things for him that she won't for the guy that is supporting her. In fact, if you're the hit it and quit it style of man, you may very well get her giving you the money from the predictable, stable guy.

When it really comes down to it, what reward is there for the decent man who desires something long-term with a woman? A little vagina? The same vagina she'll more happily give to the guy who knows how to spit game and come at her fly and never commits? Most of these women look at cooking and cleaning for their man as offensive, so you'll have to either grab one of those few who don't or just be so fly she'll override her ingrained aversion to such tasks. An 'independent woman' who wants to be taken to dinner and expects the man to pay for the majority of the financial expenditures while she uses those extra savings on herself? It's like you have to be so far beyond her that she's willing to discard everything she's known to follow you... something really ain't right in the air for those who want something decent and sane.

 

[MikelArteta]

My son, pay attention to my wisdom; Lend your ear to my understanding, That you may preserve discretion, And your lips may keep knowledge. For the lips of an immoral woman drip honey, And her mouth is smoother than oil; But in the end she is bitter as wormwood, Sharp as a two-edged sword. Her feet go down to death, Her steps lay hold of hell. Lest you ponder her path of life— Her ways are unstable; You do not know them. Therefore hear me now, my children, And do not depart from the words of my mouth. Remove your way far from her, And do not go near the door of her house, For why should you, my son, be enraptured by an immoral woman, And be embraced in the arms of a seductress? For the ways of man are before the eyes of the Lord, And He ponders all his paths. He shall die for lack of instruction, And in the greatness of his folly he shall go astray. (Proverbs 5:1-8, 20, 21, 23 NKJV)


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[MikelArteta]

also heres another gem, every women you sleep with MAKE 100% sure before you do, if you would be ok with her raising her kid. condoms are not 100%, neither are iuds. alot of dudes stick their dikk in anything, then their baby moms is a poor credit, clubber, alcoholic in debt with nothing going for her living in government housing raising your kid

 

[RawDogBandit]

Loving the knowledge dropped in this thread

 

[Captain Crunch]

I filed for divorce, but custody battle was nasty.

My ex-wife moved 250+ miles away with my son when I was at work. Then filed an order of protection against me, which opened a Children Services case. I had to come out of my pocket and get a private lawyer to beat all charges (which I did because they were fraudulent).

Women are devious when they are hurt. Once I stopped taking care of her, and did the bare minimum (paying the rent, bills, and taking care of my son) she got tight. When women get married they feel entitled. Towards the end of the marriage, my senses kicked back in and I prepared to leave. I started reapplying the principles and she got caught off guard by my changes.

She got physical custody, but I have joint legal custody. I have to pay child support, but if I would have stayed longer I would have lost more in the long run. I have to start over financially, but at least I can say I'm free.

Good luck on your future endeavors, I'm really pulling for you.

 

[Ohene]

As others have mentioned, the money being saved, time wasted traveling to and form, or constant text messaging back and forth, the nagging eh not missed at all.

i think its sad brehs that me as a man, a man who is a very nice individual who would give the shirt of his back to someone in need, has to literally be mean and cold to most women or i will be taken advantage of, its sad that life has come to this

I be saying the samne shyt man

To girls too and they still dont get it.

 

[Ohene]

lol cruise been in scientology since the 80s, like i said its funny and weird now how tom is some creepy old guy and a horrible parent, typical of women, you married him, laid with him unprotected, you knew he was in scientology since the early nineties, and what it was about , stop trying to play the sympathy woe is me card.

as a man once you learn the way women are you don';t fall for these tactics anymore

exactly what I touched on with kiiLove asked for what guys look for in a girl.

Women will always try and act brand new or try to change a man and act scorned when they fail in their attempts. You knew who I was when you decided to enter a relationship with me. Dont pull that shyt