do what the fukk you want.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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do what the fukk you want.
I was going to go with a note card and say something corny in it. I don't want to come off "mushy" or anything like that.@Rawtid A nice SMALL batch of cookies packaged nicely with a thoughtful card is MORE than enough. Don't go broke for these ungrateful negroes. #HOG Hardongroes
George Gooney
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As a young minister I wouldn’t have considered it possible for me to love any woman. I had too much experience that women were only tricky, deceitful, untrustworthy flesh. I had seen too many men ruined or tied down, or in some other way messed up by women. Women talk too much, and to tell a woman not to talk too much, would be like telling Jesse James not to carry a gun, or telling a hen not to cackle. Can you imagine Jesse James without a gun, or a hen that didn’t cackle, and for anyone in leadership or position as I am. The worst thing in the world that a man could have, is the wrong woman. Samson was destroyed by the woman that slept in his arms. It had been 10 years since I thought anything about a woman or a mistress, and as a minister now I was thinking even less about getting a wife------"
MALCOLM X (from the Autobiography of Malcolm X)
"In my years as a Muslim minister, I had always taught so strongly on moral issues. That many Muslim sisters accused me of being anti-woman. I had not even touched a woman for 12 years------"
MALCOLM X (from the Autobiography of Malcolm X)
"I love Sister Betty, she’s the only woman that I ever thought about loving. She’s one of the very few women that I have ever trusted. She’s a good Muslim woman and wife. With me trying to wake up this brainwashed black man, and telling this arrogant white man the truth. Betty knows this is a full time job. I am only home 2 or 3 days a week, but if I have to do work while I’m home she allows me to have that quiet time that I need to work in---"
MALCOLM X ( from the Autobiography of Malcolm X)
"While in Beirut I went walking, and I could clearly see the European influence upon their women. It showed me how any country’s moral strength, or it’s moral weakness is quickly measurable by the street attire and attitude of it’s women, especially it’s young women-----"
MALCOLM X
"Look at the women in America , young and old. Hardly any moral values are left in them. You can measure this by their dress and attire. Their spiritual values are almost destroyed, because of their emphasis on material things---"
MALCOLM X (from the Autobiography of Malcolm X)
"Our young girls, our daughters, and our baby sisters are becoming unwed mothers before they are hardly out of their teens. Our community has 1000’s of unwed mothers, that has no hope of ever getting a husband. Our community has 10’s of 1000’s of little black babies who have no father to act as their provider---"
MALCOLM X (speaking at the University of California , 1963)
MALCOLM X (from the Autobiography of Malcolm X)
"In my years as a Muslim minister, I had always taught so strongly on moral issues. That many Muslim sisters accused me of being anti-woman. I had not even touched a woman for 12 years------"
MALCOLM X (from the Autobiography of Malcolm X)
"I love Sister Betty, she’s the only woman that I ever thought about loving. She’s one of the very few women that I have ever trusted. She’s a good Muslim woman and wife. With me trying to wake up this brainwashed black man, and telling this arrogant white man the truth. Betty knows this is a full time job. I am only home 2 or 3 days a week, but if I have to do work while I’m home she allows me to have that quiet time that I need to work in---"
MALCOLM X ( from the Autobiography of Malcolm X)
"While in Beirut I went walking, and I could clearly see the European influence upon their women. It showed me how any country’s moral strength, or it’s moral weakness is quickly measurable by the street attire and attitude of it’s women, especially it’s young women-----"
MALCOLM X
"Look at the women in America , young and old. Hardly any moral values are left in them. You can measure this by their dress and attire. Their spiritual values are almost destroyed, because of their emphasis on material things---"
MALCOLM X (from the Autobiography of Malcolm X)
"Our young girls, our daughters, and our baby sisters are becoming unwed mothers before they are hardly out of their teens. Our community has 1000’s of unwed mothers, that has no hope of ever getting a husband. Our community has 10’s of 1000’s of little black babies who have no father to act as their provider---"
MALCOLM X (speaking at the University of California , 1963)
yelp for nice lil spots in your area you'll be surprised
DaRealness
I think very deeply
She should be happy with wherever the hell you take her if she's into you. If you did take her out to dinner, make it clear you're splitting the bill. If that's not an option, postpone your date for Saturday afternoon and go to a nice museum somewhere or anywhere you can walk around for free.
If she thinks that's "cheap", then Mark Camby her ass straight to the bushes.
As men we need to stop being so anxious and racking our brains with worry trying to figure these things out in order to impress some inconsequential chick we may not even see again.
stop rewarding these broads for doing absolutely nothing. you just met her, don't know nothing about her, she could be talking to 10 different dudes, she could be there for a free meal and jet, so why in the world is she able to call the shots? why is she able to choose the venue of where to eat at?
That's where I was getting at with the attitude of stop trying to catch and 'win over' women as opposed to giving them an opportunity. You choose a place you want to go, you offer, if she declines, oh well, you'll still go, enjoy yourself and leave yourself open to meet another woman. When you try to win her over, you're inflating her ego, making her think she can call the shots with you and telling her she doesn't have to bring anything but her company in order for you to have to spend money. Give these women an opportunity to cool out with you... if she doesn't want it, don't chase her.. go enjoy yourself and look for another one.
That's where I was getting at with the attitude of stop trying to catch and 'win over' women as opposed to giving them an opportunity. You choose a place you want to go, you offer, if she declines, oh well, you'll still go, enjoy yourself and leave yourself open to meet another woman. When you try to win her over, you're inflating her ego, making her think she can call the shots with you and telling her she doesn't have to bring anything but her company in order for you to have to spend money. Give these women an opportunity to cool out with you... if she doesn't want it, don't chase her.. go enjoy yourself and look for another one.
philmonroe
Superstar
I think people in general in love having fall back people because they are scarred to be alone IMO. I can't be the only one thinking this way because I definitely agree with this just think its people in general. I do understand this is targeted to guys though.
Honestly what's the purpose of having a roster if you doing your thing. I look at it like having two starting qb's in the nfl. If you got two starters you got none but if you are single I guess.Gotta always keep your roster in tact for moments like these
DaRealness
I think very deeply
Always have a plan b so that if the chick you're with pulls some b.s., then you know of a spot you can visit on your own or at least with a few friends. I know for a fact women do this all the time.
Don't be in a position where your Friday or Saturday is ruined because you get all dressed up for a date, only for it not to go ahead or end early because of her bullshyt. Living in London, every time I work in the city I make mental notes of all the cool jazz bars, restaurants, festivals, events etc and have it mind that if such and such doesn't work out, I spent my time getting dressed to look good so I'm not gonna just take myself home and watch DVDs, I'll go out some place solo....who knows who else you'll meet out there? You may even have an opportunity for a second date. Something to think about........
Always get to know your city well and what goes on in it.
Don't be in a position where your Friday or Saturday is ruined because you get all dressed up for a date, only for it not to go ahead or end early because of her bullshyt. Living in London, every time I work in the city I make mental notes of all the cool jazz bars, restaurants, festivals, events etc and have it mind that if such and such doesn't work out, I spent my time getting dressed to look good so I'm not gonna just take myself home and watch DVDs, I'll go out some place solo....who knows who else you'll meet out there? You may even have an opportunity for a second date. Something to think about........
Always get to know your city well and what goes on in it.
cosign, when I take a woman out to eat, I never have her pick, I tell her the spot, if she says she doesnt like it and has a legit reason I go to spot 2, if she shyts on that, the bushes she goes
Yes, I know there are tons of women outside of my company to date, but I cant help the way I feel about this chick, its been a long time since Ive had a chick on my mind this strong, and its way more than just a sexual thing. Normally I would agree about dating someone at work, but on the flip I think once in a lifetime a woman comes around that is worth taking a small risk, just got to vet her and make sure ground rules are set and if the woman has a good enough job like you, then she isnt going to risk getting in trouble at work.
I think a lot of people stay in relationships well past the time they should, because the look at the investment of years and months they put in, the fact that family and friends are involved. Also you justify staying because you look at all the positive and wonder if this person is the best you will find. Obviously its the wrong thinking
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
Ole "you're boring" chick just messaged me again.
Manger at work was walking towards me and i was walking pass her.
She said you got a lil strut then laughed.
I just said yeah you have to have one around here.
she laugh then went back to her job.
Few days ago i said she looked young she 40 pawg.
Idk i been wrong before was that a flirt or she just being nice.
She said you got a lil strut then laughed.
I just said yeah you have to have one around here.
she laugh then went back to her job.
Few days ago i said she looked young she 40 pawg.
Idk i been wrong before was that a flirt or she just being nice.
why?
because then you develop oneitis etc.
imagine putting everything you have in one stock, if it crashes and burn you have nthing but if you diversify then
the thing is women always have liek 3-4 guys floating around yes even the good ones until they are secure and know for certain their relationship will work out .
so why would you give up the one thing as men we have commitment and exclusivity just like that?