Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Manger at work was walking towards me and i was walking pass her.

She said you got a lil strut then laughed.

I just said yeah you have to have one around here.

she laugh then went back to her job.

Few days ago i said she looked young she 40 pawg.

Idk i been wrong before was that a flirt or she just being nice.

dont do it, dont think about it if you like your job.

 

[Mr.Plan B]

dont do it, dont think about it if you like your job.

fukk the job it a part time that give me 20 hours a week if that.

The job was supposed to be temp but i was hard worker so they kept after the season.
Dead end job who care was she flirting tho?

 

[Medio]

why?
because then you develop oneitis etc.

imagine putting everything you have in one stock, if it crashes and burn you have nthing but if you diversify then

the thing is women always have liek 3-4 guys floating around yes even the good ones until they are secure and know for certain their relationship will work out .

so why would you give up the one thing as men we have commitment and exclusivity just like that?

lol yea,

dovetailing this. so this girl said she'll hang out again but asked if i don't try to kiss her this time cause she's 'emotionally unstable'. i don't have fkn time for this.

 

[Two Stacks]

It's a question as old as the Internet itself: iI you're married, and you get sexy with someone else through Facebook, is it technically cheating?

A court affirmed on Tuesday that it kinda-sorta is, and allowed dad Shannon Borden to retain custody over his two sons with his former wife, Mary Jane.

It's the latest step in a tug of war between the Tennessee couple, who split in 2010. Mary Jane originally took custody after accusing Shannon of molesting their children, though a subsequent investigation found no evidence of abuse. But Shannon found that he could position himself better in their divorce proceedings if he could show that Mary Jane had cheated on him with two former high school classmates.

And what better way to show that, than simply looking through undeleted Facebook chat records?

Though Mary Jane was tagged with the men in 2009 Facebook photos, and admitted meeting up with them in real life, she told the court that the only place she'd only been sexual with them was on Facebook.

To that end, the court saw 75 pages of chats between her and the men, which Judge Larry Roberts described as "quite explicit." (The State of Mississippi Judiciary, which heard the case, doesn't have the text of the sexy chats in its online database, and Shannon's lawyer didn't immediately respond to a request for them.)

On Tuesday, the Mississippi Court of Appeals found that the previous court had made its decision largely based on the illicit chats. "It is clear from the chancellor’s opinion that Mary Jane’s inappropriate communications with [the two men] caused her to be denied custody of her two children," Roberts wrote.

But that lower court was within its rights to consider the online infidelity as a factor, the Court of Appeals found, and Shannon's custody of the kids stood.

So let that be a lesson: If you're planning on having a virtual affair with old high school buddies, and want to keep custody of your kids, be sure to use Snapchat.

Illustration by Fernando Alfonso III

 

[DaRealness]

 

[Medio]

Really a great video, seriously fukk what people think. Especially with family sometimes, they will try to guilt trip you and all that. fukk that noise.

 

[NormanConnors]

Just know you are absolutely doing the right thing. She's trying to keep you in the pocket until she's ready to fully let you go. That isn't fair to you or your resources. She has a man, you are no longer he responsibility(really you shouldn't have been when she became your ex long before that),

You gotta be firm with your decision and toss her to the bushes so she knows you are not about to be playing any type of emotional game with her. Females are good for that shyt.

@NormanConnors .. Dude she got a bf now, that's her problem that she can't discuss her financial situation with him, not yours.

You told her how it's gonna be like and if she's not cool with that, then it's

Think about it this way, if you find a girl and she finds out you're still talking to the ex and even helping her out financially, you'll be in for big trouble.

Cut your losses, get over it and move on with your life. She's only holding onto you for the financial assistance, as soon as she gets the help she needs, you'll get the

she's using you as a favor buddy. this is why i'm wary of being too cool with women. a lot of them will try to hit you up for favors under the guise of friendship. it's not your business to finance her. that's what her man is there for. what she's doing is what a lot of women are very skilled at doing which is emotionally manipulating you to get her way. She is in the wrong, but is making you feel like you're wrong. to me it's disrespectful to the boyfriend as well. what does it look like from his perspective when he finds his woman is getting money from her ex... unless he one of them hustlers who will be like ay ma hit your ex up and make him pay our rent. man you're getting hustled. cut that stuff off.

I wouldn't even need to read any further before I suggest you just toss her to the bushes. She has a boyfriend who should be helping her out and it's not your problem, that's the bottom line.

I don't talk to females who have a man in their life and I don't give a fukk about their problems either. If you can't talk to him, fukk you crying to me for?

Bear in mind it's also not uncommon for some women and their boyfriends to be in collusion to fleece a dude of money......

Don't do it, women only want to be friends to relieve their guilt, or your the nice guy former ex she can always count on while she messes with teh scum of the earth. Especially shes a single mom



ah she has you by the balls you get nothing in return but continually you give and give and give



admit deep down if she was single and wanted you back you would jump at the chance, cut the cord breh cut it



let the father or her new bf give the kid good male guidance it aint your kid and your no longer with her



ive been in this situation, and you know what i said? not my concern. I had a ex i had under my name for a cellphone, she was paying it monthly we broke up she started dating someone new, she had bad credit and couldnt get a cell phone she begged and pleaded and i said NOT MY CONCERN, why should I continually do a favor when im getting nothing out of it?



they always get mad, no one told them to ring up their debts or had bad credit etc., let them realize that folks like you aren';t born on trees outside not every guy is nice and generous not wanting anything in return to bad the tide has turned now



thats what they do try to bring out all that crap, real friends dont use you and are only around when they need something, real friends treat you with respect and appreciate all he things you have done.



cut everything off and walk away from this toxic situation, breh i have been in your shoes wiht a ex trust me, this will go on for years or until the day you die if you let it. She won't be thinking damn NormanConnors is a great man I should go back to him or i really appreicate all normanconnors has done, nah in her mind your just a sucker ex she can use an she knows how to play with your emotions like a keyboard.

Im telling you cut the CORD tdoay righ tnow don't care about her situation about her kid, and get yourself some happiness.

Trust me I know deep down you would love for her to realize all the things you done, and her to want to give it another go etc. IT WONT HAPPEN. even if she breaks up with dude she will contiue hopping to dude to dude while you will sit there like damn i treated her and her kid good, i love her but your just that poor sucker there incase of a emergency.

GET OUT NOW THESE WOMEN ARE TOXIC AND WILL DESTROY YOUR LIFE TRUST ME

I appreciate the drops on this, can't even disagree, I would tell someone else the same looking at it from the outside (always a clearer picture). I've pretty much figured out she's looking to impress the bf (or maybe his mom/family) or something like that and needs to hide those financial issues until she is in the clear. I know her better than she knows herself (that has always made her ) and pride can be a mofo in her case. So yeah I agree with yall that I need to landscape that before I get trimmed myself.


@World War Z to touch upon what you said about if i had a chick and was talking with an ex (i agree btw). Here is a funny story (made short), Somehow it was "me " that ended up taking her to the hospital emergency one day (bad case of flu/bronchitis combo), she's all laid up thinking she's about to die/paranoid/panicking/end of the world type. While reflecting on the past events leading up to the hospital visit, she just randomly brings up a question asking if I had a girlfriend ..with this weird smile/look on her face, cant even explain how the smile looked, if anything it was a vulnerable look. I just replied back with "why would you ask that" in a normal tone. She stated so she could talk to whomever it was to explain or help iron out any problems me helping her is causing.....I was thinking she cant be this naive. I know for a fact she wouldn't have went for that when we were together back in the day.

 

[MikelArteta]

Trust me I've been there you've done so much for them that even if your getting nothing in return your scared if you cur it off she will struggle or NP one will be there for her and you know what? Who cares no longer our concern.

Women can and will always find a sucker to do favors for them, I used to be that signr not anymore

 

[The Frozen One]

Trust me I've been there you've done so much for them that even if your getting nothing in return your scared if you cur it off she will struggle or NP one will be there for her and you know what? Who cares no longer our concern.

Women can and will always find a sucker to do favors for them, I used to be that signr not anymore

Always love reading a reincar input. Hey btw saw my ex on tinder.. I was like wtf, thought she'd be happy with the guy at work. I then realized why would someone want a girl with 2 kids at the age of 25... I felt so stupid thinking about it cause I missed out on so many other opportunities.

I quickly deleted my account, didn't even bother to go on her profile. She probably saw me on there and creeped me cause I know how she is. And I've been getting prank calls lately, I instantly think it's her, cause I never got prank calls before and even though I've had my # for a long ass time, I'm pretty selective on who I give my # out to.

I have 0 roster right now, and before I would have gotten upset over it, but now slowly I'm actually getting out of that mindset. It gets easier once you've pretty much accepted the situation.

 

[DaRealness]

Really a great video, seriously fukk what people think. Especially with family sometimes, they will try to guilt trip you and all that. fukk that noise.

Family can be among the worse, I know this from experience.

Deep down even your so called loved ones may hate to see you make any kind of progress.

A "fukk the world" mentality is one of the greatest mindsets you can have.

 

[CityGuy]

Brehs what do you do to move past these hood rats. I'm conflicted, i've stayed away for a while but there's this one in particular thats so hard to resist. This woman is bad, sex is crazy and she does all the freaky shyt I love.

 

[Mr210]

Looks like my relationship...I hate the feeling in the gut when it ends. We had a lot of fun in our short time together

 

[MikelArteta]

Brehs what do you do to move past these hood rats. I'm conflicted, i've stayed away for a while but there's this one in particular thats so hard to resist. This woman is bad, sex is crazy and she does all the freaky shyt I love.

don't do it man, its all the freakiest and sluttiest that are the hardest to cut off and that are no good for you, they will literally destroy your life

sever the ties

 

[MikelArteta]

Always love reading a reincar input. Hey btw saw my ex on tinder.. I was like wtf, thought she'd be happy with the guy at work. I then realized why would someone want a girl with 2 kids at the age of 25... I felt so stupid thinking about it cause I missed out on so many other opportunities.

I quickly deleted my account, didn't even bother to go on her profile. She probably saw me on there and creeped me cause I know how she is. And I've been getting prank calls lately, I instantly think it's her, cause I never got prank calls before and even though I've had my # for a long ass time, I'm pretty selective on who I give my # out to.

I have 0 roster right now, and before I would have gotten upset over it, but now slowly I'm actually getting out of that mindset. It gets easier once you've pretty much accepted the situation.

ya i've seen a few exes on tinder as well, doesn't mean shes not with that guy at work, many women love attention and always look for the next big thing, she was prob on tinder when you were taking her out to eat as well etc.


why did you delete your account? just swipe no and get on with your life you wouldnt have seen her profile again and she could not contact you. Why don't you change your number? its onl liek 20-30 bucks and it will give you peace of mind, never have to worry if shes going to contact you again kills that last gram of hope buried deep inside.

Nothing wrong with having no one, now is the time to realize you don't need anyone to make you happy but yourself, You live in vancouver right? whats stopping you from filling up the tank and heading to seattle for a few days. you can go to cuba for 7 days for like 600 all inclusive the world is yours.

as time goes on you will realize wtf was thinking, trust me. I wasted like 5 years on and off, off and on ...on a horrible horrible women that made my ex fiance look like mother teresa it wsa hard cutting off but when i did finally the weight was lifted off my shoulder no longer my concern no longer my issue no longer my problem.

 

[MikelArteta]

Looks like my relationship...I hate the feeling in the gut when it ends. We had a lot of fun in our short time together

most relationships end, the older you get the more you realize, i dont fall for that honeymoon crap few weeks in i found the one, or a month in i love you, what about the future bla bla