Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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:snoop: That's just disgusting behaviour and pretty low, but unsurprising for chicks nonetheless.

Everybody else said what I was already going to say. For the life of me, I don't know what it is you're blaming yourself for.

She just didn't feel like going out, therefore didn't bother have the basic human courtesy most people would posses and cancel way beforehand and reschedule. Instead, she just sits back and says nothing knowing full well you were going to the spot.

I don't know what age group she is, but she's beyond immature and you should just delete her number. That lowlife bytch is not even worth cussing out.

I don't take the texting game seriously anyway.

At least this time you know to make for damn sure a chick is serious and for real. First sign of bullshyt, no matter how small it is, you end right then and there and don't give them the time of day just off the strength off a "maybe" or "what if". Remember, they know damn well what they're doing and nothing is by accident.

#HOH has to be your motto and situations like this only show why.

The bolded is where I said my nikka went wrong. This is the kinda shyt girls pull. The day before..if you dont contact them in anyway...when the time comes in the night and you say something like, "hey we still on for tonight..." they pull some bullshyt about being tired or having an emergency or thinking you didnt wanna go. My dude made a rookie mistake. The broad is stupid as shyt...and should be castaway...but this is something that experience teaches. Girls always pull that kinda bullshyt the day of so you gotta contact them early in the day to weed out the bs

a mature human being will take it upon herself to say, "hey i'm guessing youre busy...just wanted to confirm" if they had doubts. But bytches will never do that
 

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i know what you're saying, but i've been at this job for 3.5 years. I've done everything. There's little progress on my end. And the other day after my year end performance review, i was told to get my act together or the door is right there to leave.

I might get fired :lupe: , especially with the way i've been treating customers lately.

Get that resume fired up and start submitting. Don't wait. You have to take control of the situation now. 3.5 years and no progress and possibly getting fired? If where you are at right now isn't cutting it, take charge and put yourself in a better position. That's the essence of being a man.
 
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I met this chick online from cali, that just moved near my area. I just got off the phone with her which was a lengthy convo, but I'm thinking that I revealed too much about myself too soon. She was making me out to be something I wasn't so I tried to prove how different I was than other dudes and ended up telling my life story lol smh.

Even though I talked good to her and now got her coming to see me this week....I'm like "I know this bish didn't just get me to open up" :stopitslime:.

I usually don't that, but once I found out she was a latina.....it was a wrap. Oh well, as long as I can get to smash
 

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We're the generation that has to deprogram ourselves and unwind a lot of damage the Baby Boom generation has done. Look at what happened... all the jobs shipped overseas... hated around the world... men acting like women and women acting like men... rampant feminism.. student loan debt nearly surpassing credit card debt if it hasn't already. If you follow the plan laid out to you by the previous generation, then you are headed towards destruction. They've foisted neo-feminism on us and look at the divorce rates. I'm saying this to say that you have to carefully analyze your mindset and remove a lot of the programming you received from the prior generation. Many men no longer know how to be men, nor do women know how to be women. They are missing the concept of 'teamwork' and two becoming one who work together to accomplish something greater than themselves. How do you significantly weaken your enemy? You create divisions and competition amongst them and make them fight amongst each other. The family structure was something the elites wanted to destroy, and it looks like they are successfully doing so by making men and women hate each other by implanting a divisive mentality into their heads through a variety of means. One means is through the implantation of unrealistic expectations covertly via media. Another is the creation of false realities via the media. For example, they show that by being an emasculated male, you will be rewarded by women. In reality, you will be punished, and this creates much of the quarreling we have today. I'll delve into this subject more a little later.
 

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I think I kno how u feel a bit.....only difference between me and u is that I've been at my cashier job just since october (3 months) while uve been there for years...

But with me even with the minimum wage increase to $8.25 in ny an hour...the pay is still shytty because they have a rule that unless ur a manager everyone only gets a maximum of 29 hours and many times you don't even get that and get less....tired of customers also....some days ur good at dealing with them but other days you are not.....

I wish I had some side income.....the link in my sig is something I tried in the past but I can get nobody to do the offers....because something like that could definitely get some stress off my back....

Would finally have some extra funds to eat healthier and work out more so I can get stronger and get more confidence naturally and then be able to deal with the cashier job more....

i know this might be out of scope for this topic, but i'm having a difficult time with my job and i'm at the breaking point where i'm gonna quit.

if i quit i have no way of paying rent, and within 4 months i'll go broke cause i won't have any income coming in.

i can go disability but i don't know how it will affect my future. this job was just there so i graduate and get my degree and i'll be getting my degree in 3 months. they were accommodating to my schedule for school, but now it's not doing it for me. I get shyt pay, shyt hours, it's just enough for rent and my other bills.

at work, i'm depressed, sad, lonely and feel out of place. And it also affects my work itself. I hate doing it. I'm a sales rep, taking requests from people and dealign with their issues. And it's not something i can do anymore. I'm at a loss on what to do?

Have any of given up on a dead-end job cause you weren't happy? Did you stick it out? It's affecting my mental health A LOT. I'm angry all the time, i dwell on work related stuff, i dread waking up to go to work. I hate the people i work with. I basically hate everything about the job, but the money i get. And it's only just enough to make ends meet and nothing else.
 

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The bolded is where I said my nikka went wrong. This is the kinda shyt girls pull. The day before..if you dont contact them in anyway...when the time comes in the night and you say something like, "hey we still on for tonight..." they pull some bullshyt about being tired or having an emergency or thinking you didnt wanna go. My dude made a rookie mistake. The broad is stupid as shyt...and should be castaway...but this is something that experience teaches. Girls always pull that kinda bullshyt the day of so you gotta contact them early in the day to weed out the bs

a mature human being will take it upon herself to say, "hey i'm guessing youre busy...just wanted to confirm" if they had doubts. But bytches will never do that
dude should've confirmed plans that day he fukked up

not her fault
 

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Adnan Januzaj’s initiation into the ranks of professional football continues, with the 18-year-old Manchester United star the subject of a tabloid ‘kiss-and-tell’.

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No bedroom revelations to embarrass young Adnan, thankfully, but rather the source of student Melissa McKenzie’s dissatisfaction was the £30,000-a-week star’s choice of venue – budget chicken joint Nando’s.

Melissa, 25, was also peeved Januzaj turned up in tracksuit bottoms and trainers and let her pay for parking after she had allegedly picked him up from a street corner where his mum had dropped him off.

I’ve never met anyone so stingy in my life,’ Melissa told The Sun. ‘I was so excited for the first date. We met on a social network site and I got all dressed up and even got my make-up done – costing me £30.

I expected him to come to me in a flashy car, but I ended up driving him about in my old blue Fiesta and I was left to pay and display. Then he said he was taking me to Nando’s – my face fell.

‘I usually go there for a quick bite to eat with my mates. I didn’t expect to be going there on a date with a Man United footballer, especially in my dress and heels.’

Yes, dead right, Melissa – how dare he act like us regular plebs.

The paper reports that Januzaj did fork out £18 for dinner before the evening moved on to to a three-star hotel, where the pair watched The X Factor.

Melissa claims the forward then asked to be driven home at 9pm, and alas the romance ultimately led nowhere.

Possibly a lucky escape there, mate.

Look at these hoes man. She wanna tarnish a young nikkas name just because he didn't do what she expected and because she wanted to gain some fame. :pacspit::pacspit::pacspit::pacspit:


fellow professional footballers backing him :salute::salute:






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that's the hoe. :umad::umad:
 
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I met this chick online from cali, that just moved near my area. I just got off the phone with her which was a lengthy convo, but I'm thinking that I revealed too much about myself too soon. She was making me out to be something I wasn't so I tried to prove how different I was than other dudes and ended up telling my life story lol smh.

Even though I talked good to her and now got her coming to see me this week....I'm like "I know this bish didn't just get me to open up" :stopitslime:.

I usually don't that, but once I found out she was a latina.....it was a wrap. Oh well, as long as I can get to smash

I've made that same mistake too, so I can't knock you.

You're not in court or being interrogated by the cops, so you don't have to "prove" or explain yourself to a broad, especially one you don't even know. People play mind games all the time with these little insinuations to try and see if they can manipulate you in any way, you need to be careful. If she makes assumptions without even knowing you, so what? That's her problem. Anybody you meet who has you doubting yourself or makes you uncomfortable is bad news.

I've learned that sometimes less is more, no matter who it is you're dealing with. For example, we all know that most politicians are dishonest scumbags and full of shyt, but notice how when they're faced with tough questions they say as little as possible? Also, as much as I hate the Marlo character, one thing I did respect about him is that he never gave too much of himself away. Like this scene for example:



Stringer was doing all the talking thinking he was kicking knowledge and showing vulnerability while Marlo didn't answer none of his questions but listened to everything he had to say and subsequently took action accordingly based on the information. Let chicks do all the talking since that's what they love to do. Ask them open ended questions. In Rush Hour, Lee said "You seem as if you like to talk. I let people talk who like to talk. It makes it easier to find out how full of shyt they are". I find that's the mentality to have. fukk worrying about "awkward silences" in case a chick thinks you're "boring", so damn what? They should be letting YOU know how worthy THEY are. Be more mysterious and never give them shyt they can just throw back in your face or run with at a later date. We need to stop showing our cards with chicks.
 

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Look at these hoes man. She wanna tarnish a young nikkas name just because he didn't do what she expected and because she wanted to gain some fame. :pacspit::pacspit::pacspit::pacspit:


fellow professional footballers backing him :salute::salute:






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that's the hoe. :umad::umad:



:camby::camby::camby::camby::camby::camby:

This is the problem with these chicks with a warped princess mentality who think because they have a vagina that they're entitled to the whole world. Seriously, fukk this bytch. Never mind the fact that she has a chance to spend time with a footballer, she's moaning about having to eat at Nandos which is a good restaurant anyway and having to pick him up. Boo hoo. You think if I was old enough back in the early 90s to date any of the broads from En Vogue or SWV I'd be complaining about them dressing up casually or taking me to a 'budget' place? I'd feel like I just won the lottery by simply [i[being[/i] in their presence.

LOL @ her complaining to sleazy tabloids not realising this actually makes HER look bad. I reckon Adnan's mother probably told him the skeezer was a obviously a golddiger who wanted him to trick and that this whole thing was a deliberate (and smart) ploy so she can show her true colours and expose herself for what she is. Now what dude in his right mind would give this bytch the time of day?

Didn't I say just recently that these broads think all they have to is look pretty and do jack shyt? I'm glad more men are waking up now. Leave this chicks alone so they can live out the rest of their lives looking for some little bullshyt fairytale lifestyle.
 

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This is the problem with these chicks with a warped princess mentality who think because they have a vagina that they're entitled to the whole world. Seriously, fukk this bytch. Never mind the fact that she has a chance to spend time with a footballer, she's moaning about having to eat at Nandos which is a good restaurant anyway and having to pick him up. Boo hoo. You think if I was old enough back in the early 90s to date any of the broads from En Vogue or SWV I'd be complaining about them dressing up casually or taking me to a 'budget' place? I'd feel like I just won the lottery by simply [i[being[/i] in their presence.

LOL @ her complaining to sleazy tabloids not realising this actually makes HER look bad. I reckon Adnan's mother probably told him the skeezer was a obviously a golddiger who wanted him to trick and that this whole thing was a deliberate (and smart) ploy so she can show her true colours and expose herself for what she is. Now what dude in his right mind would give this bytch the time of day?

Didn't I say just recently that these broads think all they have to is look pretty and do jack shyt? I'm glad more men are waking up now. Leave this chicks alone so they can live out the rest of their lives looking for some little bullshyt fairytale lifestyle.

and what's also more sad is that she is 25 and adnan is 18. :bryan::bryan:
 

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and what's also more sad is that she is 25 and adnan is 18. :bryan::bryan:

LOL, I know, fukking wastebytch. Imagine if the roles were reversed and an older dude was complaining about a teenage chick not treating him. :snoop:

But this is a society that tells women the world should be given to them and any dude who fails to comply is not a "real man". LMAO.
 

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Wasn't ready for what I heard today. Go on a date with this PYT that i've been eyeing for a while. All it takes is a couple of drinks and she tells me her body count. 21 years old............23 bodies.

23 :dwillhuh:

23:what:

23:wtf:


23 :deadrose:


Im sitting at the table gagging on my food looking at this broad like :mjpls::lupe:. All the shyt @His_Excellence_Reincar and @kevm3 said throughout this thread finally came into focus. Still shook right now at these slore's out here. These streets are ruthless. How does anyone put any weight into what any of these women want.
 

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Look at these hoes man. She wanna tarnish a young nikkas name just because he didn't do what she expected and because she wanted to gain some fame. :pacspit::pacspit::pacspit::pacspit:


fellow professional footballers backing him :salute::salute:






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that's the hoe. :umad::umad:


Man, I'm glad men are waking up. These women literally think they deserve free meals at expensive places because they are 'blessing you' with their time. A lot of this comes from that older generation calling every woman a princess and on the other hand telling the dude you got to be a gentleman and treat her like a lady or something corny like that. This creates women who literally believe they are owed fancy meals for being in your presence... but never mind the fact that she'll probably meet some other guy at the club and go to the hotel with him at the same night. A man taking a woman to a restaurant is a PRIVILEGE that he bestows upon her. More men need to step up and realize their own worth and stop believing they owe women free meals.
 

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Wasn't ready for what I heard today. Go on a date with this PYT that i've been eyeing for a while. All it takes is a couple of drinks and she tells me her body count. 21 years old............23 bodies.

23 :dwillhuh:

23:what:

23:wtf:


23 :deadrose:

Im sitting at the table gagging on my food looking at this broad like :mjpls::lupe:. All the shyt @His_Excellence_Reincar and @kevm3 said throughout this thread finally came into focus. Still shook right now at these slore's out here. These streets are ruthless. How does anyone put any weight into what any of these women want.


the sad thing is breh this is pretty much average., a chick i knew, a chick that was in church all of her life, she told me her number was over 40, and that was just sex not counting head, dudes groping her titties or fingering etc.

i remember a girl telling me her number was only 2 yet she was sucking my dikk like a pro and was riding it like a cowgirl at teh calgary stampede.

And these are the women you want to wife?: these are the women you want to call wifey, get down on one knee bring home to mom and birth your kids?:

breh just imaging wifing or gasp marrying a woman like this? everyime you look at her just image 20 other dudes got in there for free, didn't have to give commitment dind't have to call the next day, take out to dinner etc.


i remember one time awhile ago i was talking to a girl i dated, and when i was dating her she told me she only had 5 partners :heh:, well when i was talking to her way after we dated etc. she told me how she used to sleep with guys for car rides, or dinner, or money :snoop:, and i just felt disgusted, knowing i wifed her like a damn sucker , i paid a price and every other dude on teh block got it for free
 

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Man, I'm glad men are waking up. These women literally think they deserve free meals at expensive places because they are 'blessing you' with their time. A lot of this comes from that older generation calling every woman a princess and on the other hand telling the dude you got to be a gentleman and treat her like a lady or something corny like that. This creates women who literally believe they are owed fancy meals for being in your presence... but never mind the fact that she'll probably meet some other guy at the club and go to the hotel with him at the same night. A man taking a woman to a restaurant is a PRIVILEGE that he bestows upon her. More men need to step up and realize their own worth and stop believing they owe women free meals.

one thing i can be glad about in this day of the internet every day more and more men are waking up. Whether its mgtow, the red pill, or countless blogs, tom leykis, divorce court, getting a backbone men are realizing that most women are offering nothing.
 
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