Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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i know this might be out of scope for this topic, but i'm having a difficult time with my job and i'm at the breaking point where i'm gonna quit.

if i quit i have no way of paying rent, and within 4 months i'll go broke cause i won't have any income coming in.

i can go disability but i don't know how it will affect my future. this job was just there so i graduate and get my degree and i'll be getting my degree in 3 months. they were accommodating to my schedule for school, but now it's not doing it for me. I get shyt pay, shyt hours, it's just enough for rent and my other bills.

at work, i'm depressed, sad, lonely and feel out of place. And it also affects my work itself. I hate doing it. I'm a sales rep, taking requests from people and dealign with their issues. And it's not something i can do anymore. I'm at a loss on what to do?

Have any of given up on a dead-end job cause you weren't happy? Did you stick it out? It's affecting my mental health A LOT. I'm angry all the time, i dwell on work related stuff, i dread waking up to go to work. I hate the people i work with. I basically hate everything about the job, but the money i get. And it's only just enough to make ends meet and nothing else.


like i mentioned in that other thread, its easier to find a job when you have already one.

If you get fired it's going to be bad trust me, you won't be eligible for ei if you get fired or if you quit. And your going to need that job as a reference or a co-worker etc. because you've been there for 3.5 years and you can't leave it off your resume as that's a big gap.

Fix up your resume
head to indeed.ca, kiji, craiglist, monster, etc. and send like 50 a day (i prefer indeed)

I got my godsons mother a job through indeed.ca, and she was on ei applying to mcdonalds and tim hortons and i got her a job paying mid 40's to start off
 

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I met this chick online from cali, that just moved near my area. I just got off the phone with her which was a lengthy convo, but I'm thinking that I revealed too much about myself too soon. She was making me out to be something I wasn't so I tried to prove how different I was than other dudes and ended up telling my life story lol smh.

Even though I talked good to her and now got her coming to see me this week....I'm like "I know this bish didn't just get me to open up" :stopitslime:.

I usually don't that, but once I found out she was a latina.....it was a wrap. Oh well, as long as I can get to smash

To me there is really nothing wrog with that :ehh:, i keep telling cats if a woman likes you alot and is into you. You don't have to do anything.

One thing I've learned through the yeras is women love to talk. I always have questions to ask women why.

1. they love to talk
2. it makes them think your interested and want to get to know them.
 

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Check this out brehs... @kevm3 @DaRealness @Turbulent @His_Excellence_Reincar @World War Z @Black Reign @CrossBones



Look at these hoes man. She wanna tarnish a young nikkas name just because he didn't do what she expected and because she wanted to gain some fame. :pacspit::pacspit::pacspit::pacspit:


fellow professional footballers backing him :salute::salute:






Student_Melissa_Mc_1900315a.jpg


that's the hoe. :umad::umad:




i cant believe she would actually come like this ?

does she know realize how much of a idiot she looks like?
 

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one thing i can be glad about in this day of the internet every day more and more men are waking up. Whether its mgtow, the red pill, or countless blogs, tom leykis, divorce court, getting a backbone men are realizing that most women are offering nothing.

Women these days don't even know how to act in a fashion that is suitable for a woman because nobody is even telling them anything. You have these male feminists reaffirming a woman's whoredom and telling her it's ok to sleep with everyone because he wants to covertly agree himself into some coochie. You have shows like sex and the city creating false realities, showing these women whoring it up and in the end 'winning'... All of these factors are combining to create women that are not built for the long term. Then you have the court system that allows unscrupulous women to put men in financial prison for a long time if not life... this is why at a bare minimum you need to only deal with women who show gratitude and who can do things like listen. What else are they bringing to the table for you to deal with them for the long term? A basketball team has already been in that, if not two basketball teams worth of guys... so what value is she bringing to you to be able to demand anything? Like I said before, men don't value themselves, so they accept anything, and you have these male feminists cosigning and backing every bad behavior a woman engages in just to get some cooch. I can only blame the women to an extent because you have society and emasculated men telling them anything and everything they do is ok.
 

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Women these days don't even know how to act in a fashion that is suitable for a woman because nobody is even telling them anything. You have these male feminists reaffirming a woman's whoredom and telling her it's ok to sleep with everyone because he wants to covertly agree himself into some coochie. You have shows like sex and the city creating false realities, showing these women whoring it up and in the end 'winning'... All of these factors are combining to create women that are not built for the long term. Then you have the court system that allows unscrupulous women to put men in financial prison for a long time if not life... this is why at a bare minimum you need to only deal with women who show gratitude and who can do things like listen. What else are they bringing to the table for you to deal with them for the long term? A basketball team has already been in that, if not two basketball teams worth of guys... so what value is she bringing to you to be able to demand anything? Like I said before, men don't value themselves, so they accept anything, and you have these male feminists cosigning and backing every bad behavior a woman engages in just to get some cooch. I can only blame the women to an extent because you have society and emasculated men telling them anything and everything they do is ok.


yep, if you take sex out of the equation most women don't add to men lives they subtract. Your money, your time, your emotions, while adding unnecessary drama.
 

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if a guy reveals himself to much, does that kill the vibe? or once you like a dude you want to know more about him.

:lupe:

I must be honest and say that there has to be a "mystery" factor to getting to know someone. I don't want him to reveal too much of himself too soon because then it's a turn off and it comes off as desperate. And if I learn a lot too soon, yes, it can and often does kill the vibe. I prefer for dude to learn how to gauge the amount of himself he should disclose as things progress if we like each other. As a woman I need time to figure out if I truly like you (out of the sexual desires I may have) and that time frame varies. but If I do like you then yes, I do want to know more and will be as interested as you are.
 

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nope. She wanted to ruin young januzaj's name and it backfired. :banderas:

and she 25 while homeboy is 18. :heh::heh:

:heh:

if i was rich id do the same thing, rich people stay righ tby not spending anything

worse thing she aint even that hot, i see better girls working at yorkdale mall for min wage
 

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Look at these hoes man. She wanna tarnish a young nikkas name just because he didn't do what she expected and because she wanted to gain some fame. :pacspit::pacspit::pacspit::pacspit:


fellow professional footballers backing him :salute::salute:






Student_Melissa_Mc_1900315a.jpg


that's the hoe. :umad::umad:
























Have you seen the Melyssa Ford latest interview? I'm not talking about the one with the Breakfast Club that got alot of pages on here....she just did aanother recent one on Hot 97:



Go to the part towards the end of the interview where she starts talking about Flo-Ride....mentions they dated 3 different times and mentioned at first she was hesitant because she was a "veteran" in the game and he didn't have much experience like her and said something about how "improve your self young man" something like that im paraphrasing but she just threw in the "young man" ...that is the part i remember

now with older folks callling people in their 20s and 30s "young man"....that i understand.....but these are both grown ass people BOTH in their 30s....and she is being condescending with him? She mentioned how she dated recently a Swedish/Russian guy and predictably had nothing bad to say about him(gee i wonder y...but thats for another thread)

There is a reason why she is single.....


these females be having too much mouth.....another day at my cashier job today and like @World War Z i'm getting more and more pissed everyday...these broads need to start getting popped in their mouth...don't wanna bother getting into stories that happen today but at this point i've given up trying to see if there will be ONE DAY where i don't get an unclassy female customer....its pointless.....


In regards to this smut .....the fact that she went to whine on social media and magazines about what happened goes to show the footballer's assumptions were correct about her....sometimes its best to listen to your gut....

I remember back when i was naive i use to laugh at @Art Barr and his comments about how no many should be going on "Dates" with women unless they are a wife,etc but through experience and seeing examples like these you really realize that its gospel advice to heed....
 

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Look at these hoes man. She wanna tarnish a young nikkas name just because he didn't do what she expected:umad::umad:

today we have a real issue with attention whores. let me even say it like this; we have a problem with attention and whores.

its been real common these days for a so called "sexually liberated" woman/vixen to air out all of her dirty laundry in an attempt to bring down the man she was involved with. but like its been said, most of the times its just making the whore look bad for being played like the fool she is.

for a person in the public light, Id say its important to keep away from women like that. the ones who parade around in brand names, talk about men needing to have lots of money to fukk with her, how shes paid and is the baddest, and basically worshipping money and material items all the time. its an obvious giveaway, still many of these attention whores have come up on a marriage/being a baby mama/selling ass/selling stories. it aint even funny. men should know better by now.

as for men that are not in the public eye, its still a risky road to take if you mess with a harlot who loves attention. you can lose time, money, peace, well being, even your reputation. you lay with dogs, you can get fleas.

the woman in the story is only doing what an attention whore does. even if it makes her look bad, she doesnt even care or realize it. she needs the attention and she loves to whore. all of thisnoise shes bringing, this is part of their rules and recourse. we cant even be surprised by it anymore.
 

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LOL, I know, fukking wastebytch. Imagine if the roles were reversed and an older dude was complaining about a teenage chick not treating him. :snoop:

But this is a society that tells women the world should be given to them and any dude who fails to comply is not a "real man". LMAO.

Breh.....I need your help.....one more day and I am about to punch the fukk out of one of these female customers.....i know we are supposed to certain women don't change but i cannot continue to tolerate "consistent disrespect"....its not like other jobs where its less often but everday?

should i just work hard towards finding another job?i always thought that "you should endure being in bad situations" is a bit cliche especially when it comes to jobs...
 

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Have you seen the Melyssa Ford latest interview? I'm not talking about the one with the Breakfast Club that got alot of pages on here....she just did aanother recent one on Hot 97:



Go to the part towards the end of the interview where she starts talking about Flo-Ride....mentions they dated 3 different times and mentioned at first she was hesitant because she was a "veteran" in the game and he didn't have much experience like her and said something about how "improve your self young man" something like that im paraphrasing but she just threw in the "young man" ...that is the part i remember

now with older folks callling people in their 20s and 30s "young man"....that i understand.....but these are both grown ass people BOTH in their 30s....and she is being condescending with him? She mentioned how she dated recently a Swedish/Russian guy and predictably had nothing bad to say about him(gee i wonder y...but thats for another thread)
There is a reason why she is single.....

these females be having too much mouth.....another day at my cashier job today and like @World War Z i'm getting more and more pissed everyday...these broads need to start getting popped in their mouth...don't wanna bother getting into stories that happen today but at this point i've given up trying to see if there will be ONE DAY where i don't get an unclassy female customer....its pointless.....


In regards to this smut .....the fact that she went to whine on social media and magazines about what happened goes to show the footballer's assumptions were correct about her....sometimes its best to listen to your gut....

I remember back when i was naive i use to laugh at @Art Barr and his comments about how no many should be going on "Dates" with women unless they are a wife,etc but through experience and seeing examples like these you really realize that its gospel advice to heed....


meylssa ford is near 40 the ship has sailed the only rich dudes she can get are just dudes who remember her from back in the day, sort of like a fetish. Like even though tyra banks is :ehh: right now i stil remember her on the front cover of si and if i had a chance to date her being rich I would :ehh:, would i marry? nope, would i wife? nope

chicks like melyssa ford will never be happy they will continue to hop from dikk to dikk until the day they die
 

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Breh.....I need your help.....one more day and I am about to punch the fukk out of one of these female customers.....i know we are supposed to certain women don't change but i cannot continue to tolerate "consistent disrespect"....its not like other jobs where its less often but everday?

should i just work hard towards finding another job?i always thought that "you should endure being in bad situations" is a bit cliche especially when it comes to jobs...

Find you another job. You don't want to let people push you over the edge to where you end up in jail or something over the. Honestly, ya'll should put women in the background. Focus on stacking your bread, getting your mind right, getting closer to God and just basically all the things that give you peace of mind. Basically get to a place where you are living a joyful life... that's what your focus should be on and when you're established to that point, that's when you potentially let a woman in your life, and any women you let in, you just got to make sure she doesn't steal your joy, only adds to it.
 

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meylssa ford is near 40 the ship has sailed the only rich dudes she can get are just dudes who remember her from back in the day, sort of like a fetish. Like even though tyra banks is :ehh: right now i stil remember her on the front cover of si and if i had a chance to date her being rich I would :ehh:, would i marry? nope, would i wife? nope

chicks like melyssa ford will never be happy they will continue to hop from dikk to dikk until the day they die

shyt she even said herself "i was born alone...im gonna die alone" right in that very interview....

folks don't realize that ludacris's woman is one of the rare good women out there who are ALSO dimepeices....cause most of the time those who look like melyssa ford are narcissistic characters....
 
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