Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'm not anti social. I'm just low key. If I'm not going to marry someone I don't care to meet their family.

I don't do family functions and events because I never have. I'll go to a wedding or a funeral , maybe a baby dedication and that's about it.

But breh, why wouldnt you go to your own sister's birthday party that was 5 minutes away? :why:

You do shyt like that but expect your brother in-law to always take your side against the mother of your god-son and one of his flock.

You are clearly anti-social but trying to date someone. We all know what the outcome is gonna be. :snoop:
 

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Nah I'm not

Is it so hard to believe there are people out there who don't care about birthdays, family bbqs etc.?

If my cousin is getting married I'll go.
If my cousin is having a family dinner nah.


Its no difference than being forced to go to church once your of age you stop going.


He's trolling us :snoop:
 

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Nah I'm not

Is it so hard to believe there are people out there who don't care about birthdays, family bbqs etc.?

If my cousin is getting married I'll go.
If my cousin is having a family dinner nah.


Its no difference than being forced to go to church once your of age you stop going.

That's not what I mean:

I can't see how you are surprised this is an issue for her or most women especially since you didn't put it on her radar initially.
 

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That's not what I mean:

I can't see how you are surprised this is an issue for her or most women especially since you didn't put it on her radar initially.
Basically. I'm not trying to fault Reincar for being who he is, but what I find troubling is that he doesn't see how this would be an issue for her.

Ole girl is wondering if Reincar will want to even show up for his own kid's birthday parties.

LOL, why bother going to a funeral? They're already dead and don't give a fukk if you show up at that point.
 

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Nah I'm not

Is it so hard to believe there are people out there who don't care about birthdays, family bbqs etc.?

If my cousin is getting married I'll go.
If my cousin is having a family dinner nah.


Its no difference than being forced to go to church once your of age you stop going.

Birthdays are just an excuse to celebrate life amongst friends & family. Eat good food & doing the things you find fun, whether that's going on a trip, a game, hit the club, whatever....How could someone NOT like that? If you don't want to celebrate someone's birthday you probably don't like them much. Are you not close with your sister? If not, I totally understand......but to say I just don't want to celebrate life & have fun at all is bonkers.
 

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Birthdays are just an excuse to celebrate life amongst friends & family. Eat good food & doing the things you find fun, whether that's going on a trip, a game, hit the club, whatever....How could someone NOT like that? If you don't want to celebrate someone's birthday you probably don't like them much. Are you not close with your sister? If not, I totally understand...

he doesnt even celebrate his mom's birthday.

Reincar wants to be free of the "obligations" of social interaction, but he claims he's not anti-social.

Reincar, you just spent the weekend with the new girl you're dating (who is not even your girlfriend) but have skipped the last 6 birthday celebrations for ma dukes. What's the science behind that? I'm just trying to understand where your priorities lie w regards to who/what you deem worthy of your social interaction.
 

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I'm being grilled this morning I can tell its almost over. I just hit her with the I'm sorry I can't be who you want me to be.

And maybe I'm a @sshole whose not sacrificing but shrugs. I remember back in the day id miss like the Superbowl, NBA draft etc being stuck at my girls house or at q dinner and I told myself no more.

Yes I'll admit I'd rather watch a footbakl game than being at my girls mom bday party .

Im at the point where I don't care anymore I was fine being single and I will again if it goes that way.

Principles > p*ssy.. If she ain't down, she ain't going to be around..

http://www.personalpowermeditation.com/forum/social-dynamics/the-betaization-process/
 
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he doesnt even celebrate his mom's birthday.

Reincar wants to be free of the "obligations" of social interaction, but he claims he's not anti-social.

Reincar, you just spent the weekend with the new girl you're dating (who is not even your girlfriend) but have skipped the last 6 birthday celebrations for ma dukes. What's the science behind that? I'm just trying to understand where your priorities lie w regards to who/what you deem worthy of your social interaction.

He doesn't have love for people

He said he wouldn't love his wife or kids.....:wow:
 

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My Mom lives in Jamaica the majority of the year. Should I fly down?

My mom is the number 1 woman in my life and the only female I trust who has my best interests .

Equating that to a few days up north with a chick I'm not even that serious with is :scusthov:


he doesnt even celebrate his mom's birthday.

Reincar wants to be free of the "obligations" of social interaction, but he claims he's not anti-social.

Reincar, you just spent the weekend with the new girl you're dating (who is not even your girlfriend) but have skipped the last 6 birthday celebrations for ma dukes. What's the science behind that? I'm just trying to understand where your priorities lie w regards to who/what you deem worthy of your social interaction.
 

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I don't need a special day to spend time with anyone.

I don't celebrate Christmas either.

Growing up I was close with my sister as we are a year and a half apart. Since she's been married not so much she has a husband and two kids and one on the way.

Hell my last birthday I celebrated I was 12. I don't need a special day fixated on my age to be thankful

Birthdays are just an excuse to celebrate life amongst friends & family. Eat good food & doing the things you find fun, whether that's going on a trip, a game, hit the club, whatever....How could someone NOT like that? If you don't want to celebrate someone's birthday you probably don't like them much. Are you not close with your sister? If not, I totally understand......but to say I just don't want to celebrate life & have fun at all is bonkers.
 
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