Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RealAssanova]

WTF is that dude talking about? In our best interests, how?? Does that include women who cheated or threw you under the bus? So I guess remaining friends with an ex is better than moving on with your life. LOL that dude is a dumbass.

I can't stand these manginas.

Fam....he went...."lemme just say for all my dudes outthere....that...*pauses*...its in our best interests to remain friends with your ex"

its bad enough that he said summin stupid like that...but to back it up by saying because they have dirt on us...

shut that shyt off right away.

what radio station is that??

most of radio listeners minus newstalk and sports is for women.


being friends with an ex is horrible and id advise no one to do it.

if you were dumped she gets her cake aand gets to eat it to. She gets to sleep with and ride some other dude, while cry on your shoulder and continue to use hyou and drag you along making you think you have a chance.


if you dumped her, she will try an destroy your new relationship, and hodld out hope to be your girl one day.

best thing to do is sever the ties

flow 93.5 rein.

JJ from the JJ and melanie mornin show said that. Round 7:40am omw to sku when they started talkin bout that crock of shyt.

@DaRealness @His_Excellence_Reincar i'm almost happy that this kinda shyt is common nowadays, cuz it makes it easier for me to stand out and be different.

I also had some of my OWN nikkaz look at me sideways when i said i wouldn't always pay for everything after a 2nd date. One of my dudes said he wud slap his girl if she ever paid for anything and another one of my nikkaz called me cheap

then i remembered ya'll and all this great wisdom that was at the back of my head and just and kept quiet.

I swear @kevm3 preaches straight gospel when he says nikkaz will slander you for looking at things differently then them. Like, we both men, so why you tryna put me down for?

Dis all from nikkaz i kick it with One of em even went on to say i'd buy a girl a drink in the club and not expect anything in return as its a gentlemanly thing to do ...yet he talmbout the dudes outchea gassin these girls up

 

[DaRealness]

Fam....he went...."lemme just say for all my dudes outthere....that...*pauses*...its in our best interests to remain friends with your ex"

its bad enough that he said summin stupid like that...but to back it up by saying because they have dirt on us...

shut that shyt off right away.



flow 93.5 rein.

JJ from the JJ and melanie mornin show said that. Round 7:40am omw to sku when they started talkin bout that crock of shyt.

@DaRealness @His_Excellence_Reincar i'm almost happy that this kinda shyt is common nowadays, cuz it makes it easier for me to stand out and be different.

I also had some of my OWN nikkaz look at me sideways when i said i wouldn't always pay for everything after a 2nd date. One of my dudes said he wud slap his girl if she ever paid for anything and another one of my nikkaz called me cheap

then i remembered ya'll and all this great wisdom that was at the back of my head and just and kept quiet.

I swear @kevm3 preaches straight gospel when he says nikkaz will slander you for looking at things differently then them. Like, we both men, so why you tryna put me down for?

Dis all from nikkaz i kick it with One of em even went on to say i'd buy a girl a drink in the club and not expect anything in return as its a gentlemanly thing to do ...yet he talmbout the dudes outchea gassin these girls up

I've mentioned it before and I'll say it again: A lot of dudes have to use shaming tactics because deep down they're envious of other men who actually have standards and principles they abide by. Every time you stand up for yourself and lay down some ground rules as a MAN, it makes them feel threatened and insecure because it reminds them of their own spinelessness since they're too weak to get out their comfort zone and assert themselves with women. A lot of people hate it when they see you're not the average cat who goes along with what everyone else does. LOL @ calling another dude "cheap" for not being willing to pay for everything all the time. That's the kind of b.s. remark I'd expect from a chick, but with the kind of males (I won't call them men) society has produced these days, I can't even tell the difference anymore.

Just let these dudes continue to be used by women like the suckers they are. They're the same fools who come home to find their woman getting sexed by another dude and then write to 'Jane' in the Daily Star talking about "I don't understand why my woman left me for another man because I gave her everything and did everything for her and never asked for a single thing in return". fukking lames.

 

[RealAssanova]

I've mentioned it before and I'll say it again: A lot of dudes have to use shaming tactics because deep down they're envious of other men who actually have standards and principles they abide by. Every time you stand up for yourself and lay down some ground rules as a MAN, it makes them feel threatened and insecure because it reminds them of their own spinelessness since they're too weak to get out their comfort zone and assert themselves with women. A lot of people hate it when they see you're not the average cat who goes along with what everyone else does. LOL @ calling another dude "cheap" for not being willing to pay for everything all the time. That's the kind of b.s. remark I'd expect from a chick, but with the kind of males (I won't call them men) society has produced these days, I can't even tell the difference anymore.

Just let these dudes continue to be used by women like the suckers they are. They're the same fools who come home to find their woman getting sexed by another dude and then write to 'Jane' in the Daily Star talking about "I don't understand why my woman left me for another man because I gave her everything and did everything for her and never asked for a single thing in return". fukking lames.

Sad to say but strong-willed and principled nikkaz are a rare commodity these days bruh. Me and my old man dis past summer were kickin it and talmbout women and he told me two things that stuck with me:

• The minute another dude fukks your wife/gf, straight bushes and fukk what anyone else tells you
• Don't ever marry a woman that doesn't love you for you

Now, if this same man ever heard me become a simp or a spineless man, he'd prolly disown me.

And this is my old man, who for pretty much 19 years, was away from me overseas working for our living. I can't let that man down

 

[DaRealness]

Sad to say but strong-willed and principled nikkaz are a rare commodity these days bruh. Me and my old man dis past summer were kickin it and talmbout women and he told me 'the minute another dude fukks your wife/gf, straight bushes and fukk what anyone else tells you'. Now, if this same man ever heard me simpin or become a spineless man, he'd prolly disown me.

And this is my old man, who for pretty much 19 years, was away from me overseas working for our living. I can't let that man down

Your father sounds like a smart man.

If my woman ever let another man slide and bust up in her, then there's no turning back. It's over, no matter what. Save all that forgiveness and second chance bullshyt for the birds.

 

[kevm3]

 

[kevm3]

The vast majority of problems are caused by simps in some form or capacity. You can only blame women so long before you have to look at the root of the problem, which is emasculating and pandering men. God has given us, as men, the role of leaders, meaning we have accountability FIRST. Too many men are quick to relinquish their authority at the first sniff of sex. When a woman comes with that modern feminist trash, the only reason they are able to run with it is because of the legion of male backers they have who cosign their philosophy and actions and reward these type of women with attention. I told cats a long time ago, don't mess with feminists. Don't give them attention. The average brotha will think with his Johnson and disregard that because of the promise of sex, but you are essentially empowering someone who wants to be able to destroy you through the court system and be able to file frivolous allegations on you at a whim to have power over you.

Look at how many brothas accept women putting a dash on their last name when it comes to being married. She's essentially telling you that she's only halfway committed to you and these dudes are rushing to accept that offer with a smile on their face. It's like me going to a car dealership knowing the price of a car is $20,000, but the car salesman tells me $40,000... I accept his offer and then have the audacity to get mad at him later for a deal I agreed upon. You got men cosigning women with screwed up ideologies or you have them still rewarding women with attention despite their disastrous beliefs and then they wonder why things are so messed up. It's like a woman complaining about how she hates cheaters and dogs and how she wants a nice guy, but she's constantly opening her legs up for the most notorious players in the city. If you don't back up your desires with actions, nobody is going to respect it. If the women you award with attention are the kind of women that are contrary to the women you proclaim you want, you can't be surprised if women feel no incentive to live up to the 'dream woman.'

 

[kevm3]

 

[Huellz Santana]

what do yall think about dudes who play games with their ex? i know this girl who broke up w/ her bf because he cheated on her multiple times, yet she still texts him, still is connected on social media, etc. she posts little subliminal relationship-oriented inspirational quotes on instagram like "one day i will wake up next to the love of my life" and "never give up on what you can't live without" and these sad-ass selfies like "frustrated today", "struggling", etc. And its almost like her ex is trolling her because ALL of the photos he "likes" are the struggle and relationship pics.

i'll be honest shyt's frustrated the hell out of me yet i know this is birdbrain behavior on her part. like dude said above there's that adolescent part of me that thinks "oh only if she gave herself a chance to be treated right by a stand up dude she'd snap out of it" yet i know shyt doesn't work that way.

and i know in 2 years when this chick hits 29 she'll probably snap out of it for other reasons, but i dont want anything to do with that or any bytches that come to jesus when they hear 30 knocking.

at this point I'm not sure what I despise more really, her stupidity, or the fakkit ass ex who keeps toying w/ her. they're not even the same state so i know it's not just about the p*ssy (though she does take trips out there and he probably smashes every few months).

and yeah im mad but this is my place to vent

whered all the non-retarded women go?

dudes are territorial. it has nothing to do with the p*ssy. she's dumb tho, because all she gotta do is move on and I guarantee you dude will try to get back with her with the swiftness. especially if she's genuinely happy. then dude will come with the waterworks and be all sad and shyt. what he's doing now is having his cake and eating it too.
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i know a chick just like that my godsons mom who i finally cut off,

damn. nikka cut off his godchild cuz of the mom.
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btw i dont even get women, ive just been with my girl for a few weeks, and she drops the queston to me today she notices im not family orientated and im like year, minus weddings or funeral i don't do family dinners, birthdays etc.

then she did the whole, i dunno where thats going to leave us, family is important to me

damn bruh. she aint really trippin tho. she's evaluating the future with you. no different than if you were to start asking her where she stands religiously (if you didn't know already), how she feels about a family, etc. might as well ask now rather than waste time. i dont fault her. i mean it IS a little strange to not be close with your fam and may be a red flag for some. im not judging, just saying.​

 

[Huellz Santana]

I've mentioned it before and I'll say it again: A lot of dudes have to use shaming tactics because deep down they're envious of other men who actually have standards and principles they abide by. Every time you stand up for yourself and lay down some ground rules as a MAN, it makes them feel threatened and insecure because it reminds them of their own spinelessness since they're too weak to get out their comfort zone and assert themselves with women. A lot of people hate it when they see you're not the average cat who goes along with what everyone else does. LOL @ calling another dude "cheap" for not being willing to pay for everything all the time. That's the kind of b.s. remark I'd expect from a chick, but with the kind of males (I won't call them men) society has produced these days, I can't even tell the difference anymore.

Just let these dudes continue to be used by women like the suckers they are. They're the same fools who come home to find their woman getting sexed by another dude and then write to 'Jane' in the Daily Star talking about "I don't understand why my woman left me for another man because I gave her everything and did everything for her and never asked for a single thing in return". fukking lames.

real talk. i wish I could have the same convos I have in here with my real life friends. but nikkas are so p*ssy whipped they can't even think straight.​

 

[mamba]

Reginald had a good woman in Loida. He would have never built that empire without her as his rock. She was also highly educated, but took a step back to support his entrepreneurial goals.

 

[kevm3]

Reginald had a good woman in Loida. He would have never built that empire without her as his rock. She was also highly educated, but took a step back to support his entrepreneurial goals.

You hear behind every man is a great woman, and that's the perfect example. This is the kind of woman that young ladies need to emulate instead of these love and hip hop booty models and 'video vixens'. She loves God, knows when the stop talking, knows to make home an oasis for her man, knew when to move out the way and let her man lead and handled her jealousy. In return she was well taken care of.

 

[Jone2three45]

How do you guys feel about your homies dating and marrying one of your exes?

Would you still keep in contact with your friend and ex?

 

[kevm3]

How do you guys feel about your homies dating and marrying one of your exes?

Would you still keep in contact with your friend and ex?

If he took her from me, that ain't a homie... but if I dumped her or whatever, it ain't no thing to me... especially if he asked me if it's cool to deal with her beforehand. An ex isn't mine. That's free property that hit the market. Now I may have whatever emotions pop up, but that's on me to resolve as a man. A woman I'm not with is free to do as she pleases, and if she ends up with my homeboy, I hope she works out with him better than she did me. Now if we ended up on real sour terms or she did me bad, then I would hope my boy would just refuse to deal with her... but if we left on decent terms and they hit it off, well I will wish them the best.

 

[Jone2three45]

If he took her from me, that ain't a homie... but if I dumped her or whatever, it ain't no thing to me... especially if he asked me if it's cool to deal with her beforehand. An ex isn't mine. That's free property that hit the market. Now I may have whatever emotions pop up, but that's on me to resolve as a man. A woman I'm not with is free to do as she pleases, and if she ends up with my homeboy, I hope she works out with him better than she did me. Now if we ended up on real sour terms or she did me bad, then I would hope my boy would just refuse to deal with her... but if we left on decent terms and they hit it off, well I will wish them the best.

thanks for the insight

 

[George Gooney]

@kevm3 How would you react to dudes who tried to holla at your lady in the past liking pics of y'all together on facebook and all that. I only know they tried to holla because I go through her phone while she sleeps sometimes.