Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[edzyy]

One thing I learned yrs ago was to just let women talk about themselves
Eventually, there will be a fraudulent slip up..and some women just talk themselves into a grave after the first few convo's

Story from yrs ago

I use to date someone & we ended it on odd terms. She was with someone prior for a couple yrs & she wasn't fully over it.

I personally was not comfortable with it, so I decided to end things.

We chopped it up from time to time and would bullshyt via email

One week we chatted for about 4 days straight and I was applaud at the shyt she's was telling me

Before I continue, I will say we're both living on opposite sides of the country since we broke up

I relocated due to a better job opportunity

Anywho, she's in my inbox telling me about how she hasn't had dikk since we were together(I obviously didn't believe it) and keep trying to bait me into raunchy convo

Firstly, If I ain't fukkin, I ain't wit the sex talk. I keep curving it in subtle ways and she continues on..

I told her if she wanted dikk that bad to go get some..she rambled on about how she isn't that type of girl, but she's currently talking to someone & apparently they aint fukk(right...)

Next day, same story about how she wants dikk..so I flirt with her a little & she sends me naked pics out the blue. Like 10 of these joints.


She then slips up and is like "yeah, so much nice dikk in my inbox and I cant do anything about it" Also "I only send nudes during lusty convo"

This goes back to me saying that girls eventually talk themselves into a grave. Want to know about them? Just let them talk & I guarantee they will slip up eventually.

It kind of irked me because I use to date this broad and now it seems like she turned into a full bird.

 

[Jone2three45]

One thing I learned yrs ago was to just let women talk about themselves
Eventually, there will be a fraudulent slip up..and some women just talk themselves into a grave after the first few convo's

Story from yrs ago

I use to date someone & we ended it on odd terms. She was with someone prior for a couple yrs & she wasn't fully over it.

I personally was not comfortable with it, so I decided to end things.

We chopped it up from time to time and would bullshyt via email

One week we chatted for about 4 days straight and I was applaud at the shyt she's was telling me

Before I continue, I will say we're both living on opposite sides of the country since we broke up

I relocated due to a better job opportunity

Anywho, she's in my inbox telling me about how she hasn't had dikk since we were together(I obviously didn't believe it) and keep trying to bait me into raunchy convo

Firstly, If I ain't fukkin, I ain't wit the sex talk. I keep curving it in subtle ways and she continues on..

I told her if she wanted dikk that bad to go get some..she rambled on about how she isn't that type of girl, but she's currently talking to someone & apparently they aint fukk(right...)

Next day, same story about how she wants dikk..so I flirt with her a little & she sends me naked pics out the blue. Like 10 of these joints.


She then slips up and is like "yeah, so much nice dikk in my inbox and I cant do anything about it" Also "I only send nudes during lusty convo"

This goes back to me saying that girls eventually talk themselves into a grave. Want to know about them? Just let them talk & I guarantee they will slip up eventually.

It kind of irked me because I use to date this broad and now it seems like she turned into a full bird.

I've been through the same exact situation word for word. They don't even realize how deep or a grae their digging themselves.

 

[kevm3]

@kevm3 How would you react to dudes who tried to holla at your lady in the past liking pics of y'all together on facebook and all that. I only know they tried to holla because I go through her phone while she sleeps sometimes.

I wouldn't react to those dudes at all. There ain't no problems with other dudes unless she wants there to be. When I dealt with women, I made sure there wasn't anything for them to worry about from other women, so I know that if she knows how to carry herself, it won't ever be a problem from another dude. A woman that really values a relationship will shut other dudes down. If you're reacting to what the dudes do, then you'll be fighting 10,000 dudes. A lot of times, these dudes are buzzing around because a woman is leaving open signals. The only time the dude should be reacted to is if she told him no and he keeps pressing the issue.

If those dudes are just liking the pictures and she isn't responding to them, then I ain't going to trip, but if she's going back and forth holding convos and giggling with them, then that's a problem.

 

[kevm3]

One thing I learned yrs ago was to just let women talk about themselves
Eventually, there will be a fraudulent slip up..and some women just talk themselves into a grave after the first few convo's

Story from yrs ago

I use to date someone & we ended it on odd terms. She was with someone prior for a couple yrs & she wasn't fully over it.

I personally was not comfortable with it, so I decided to end things.

We chopped it up from time to time and would bullshyt via email

One week we chatted for about 4 days straight and I was applaud at the shyt she's was telling me

Before I continue, I will say we're both living on opposite sides of the country since we broke up

I relocated due to a better job opportunity

Anywho, she's in my inbox telling me about how she hasn't had dikk since we were together(I obviously didn't believe it) and keep trying to bait me into raunchy convo

Firstly, If I ain't fukkin, I ain't wit the sex talk. I keep curving it in subtle ways and she continues on..

I told her if she wanted dikk that bad to go get some..she rambled on about how she isn't that type of girl, but she's currently talking to someone & apparently they aint fukk(right...)

Next day, same story about how she wants dikk..so I flirt with her a little & she sends me naked pics out the blue. Like 10 of these joints.


She then slips up and is like "yeah, so much nice dikk in my inbox and I cant do anything about it" Also "I only send nudes during lusty convo"

This goes back to me saying that girls eventually talk themselves into a grave. Want to know about them? Just let them talk & I guarantee they will slip up eventually.

It kind of irked me because I use to date this broad and now it seems like she turned into a full bird.

A lot of women just tell lies like nothing. lol@her sending you 10 naked pics out the blue like that... she already had them on her phone for her to send them out like that and you aren't the first to get them. I bet if you could look into the image data, they would have been taken a long time ago... you right if you just listen and shut up and don't push her, these women start to reveal themselves. Any woman with penises in her inbox opens herself up to that. She's giving off signs that that's cool behavior. she's been celibate for all that time and I just walked on the moon yesterday. Come on now.

 

[George Gooney]

@kevm3 definitely no back and forth convos. She even deleted her ex man and all his fam from facebook because i implied it. no misbehavior on her part but I check her messages just to make sure every now and then.

 

[edzyy]

@kevm3 @Juan2three45

One of my boys told me that the signs were always there but I chose to not look deep into it since I was feeling her too much at the time.

It could be true

Out of all the broads I fukked or dealt with, me and her vibed the best.

When we broke up, I remember telling her if she got her shyt together I would reconsider our relationship

And now I'm disgusted wit her behaviour.

 

[kevm3]

a lot of these women have multiple personalties. Their personalities shift with the crowd they are in. If they like you and think you are relationship material, they play sweet, almost a virgin. They get around some rowdy dudes and they turn into miss freaky. It's a lot of shape-shifting going on with them. That's why I always say verify, verify, verify. You go investing years into a relationship and never check to verify she is who she said she is because you feel so confident and you feel you got that monster swag... and you come to find out she has been cheating on you the whole time and maybe that kid isn't even yours.

A hard lesson to learn is that just because the vibe and convo is real cool doesn't mean she is a moral woman. Some of the coolest women I've met were the ones that kind of got around. Now, I realize a cool conversation and a cool vibe is just a cool moment and doesn't reflect on her moral character. We could be having the greatest conversation and memories today and she could be kissing on the next man tomorrow. Character/moral analysis is critical in this day and age and one has to train one's self to look past things like looks and even a great conversation and see how she reacts when she thinks no one is looking.

 

[kevm3]

@kevm3 definitely no back and forth convos. She even deleted her ex man and all his fam from facebook because i implied it. no misbehavior on her part but I check her messages just to make sure every now and then.

I don't blame you man. you got to verify verify verify

 

[kevm3]

If you got a gem of a woman, you better keep doing what you supposed to as a man..
you get one of them club rats and get to being one of those 'I'm confident cuz my baby coming home to me at the end of the night' type of dudes and your woman will be at the club acting up

while you at home on the PS4... she come home at 4 in the morning and greets you with a kiss on the cheek while telling you baby me and the girls just had a few drinks lol

it's all about quality and finding a woman with high character

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Man... I just got into a silly debate with a female friend. She's got two kids by two different dudes and has a rep as a freak. Now she's talking about she's not having sex with another dude until marriage and any guy she dates just has to accept that. She's deep in the church, yadda yadda. Cool. I'm happy for her but she was being so indignant so I was like. "Look, I'mma be real with you. Aint no dude out here that you meet gonna wait until marriage to have sex with you. nikkas know you got two kids, you're a flirt, and you're a freak. Cmon now. Sorry but I'm just being honest."

She was like "It's cool. It's their loss then."

I'm like

She asked me how I would I feel if a girl said that to me and I told her I wouldn't respect it unless she was a virgin. Because who am I to challenge your beliefs if you've been consistent up to this point. But I'm not gonna listen to a girl that's been having her fun up until she meets me and then make me pay the consequences. Especially when I know your recent history and how you get down.

 

[edzyy]

Broads with multiple kids and all different fathers brings up every red flag in the book

Now only does she come off as a hoe, she comes off as someone with lack of common sense and decision making.

When does a broad realize that maybe that 2nd or 3rd kid isn't a good idea?

As a man, I'm running far away from that.

You gotta deal wit her
Those 3 kids
and possibly the 3 nikkas that seeded her up

 

[turbochef]

I just broke up with my girl, she told me she could have anyone but she chose me. I was like

 

[mamba]

You hear behind every man is a great woman, and that's the perfect example. This is the kind of woman that young ladies need to emulate instead of these love and hip hop booty models and 'video vixens'. She loves God, knows when the stop talking, knows to make home an oasis for her man, knew when to move out the way and let her man lead and handled her jealousy. In return she was well taken care of.

I agree, man. She laid it all out in that video. Good woman.

 

[Redguard]

If you got a gem of a woman, you better keep doing what you supposed to as a man..
you get one of them club rats and get to being one of those 'I'm confident cuz my baby coming home to me at the end of the night' type of dudes and your woman will be at the club acting up

while you at home on the PS4... she come home at 4 in the morning and greets you with a kiss on the cheek while telling you baby me and the girls just had a few drinks lol

it's all about quality and finding a woman with high character

Do you have any advice on finding a gem of a woman? The women I meet are good at first then eventually they reveal their true self and I have to end it . It just seems like there isn't a lot of women out there with high character.

 

[Shameonyou]

Do you have any advice on finding a gem of a woman? The women I meet are good at first then eventually they reveal their true self and I have to end it . It just seems like there isn't a lot of women out there with high character.

they're taken

and/or homebodies so you wont meet em outside