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My co-worker told me that he broke up with his girl the other day. I met her a few weeks ago when she came by the workplace. Thought everything was cool :leon:. Turns out she turns batshyt crazy when she drinks . The last time was the last straw for him when she confronted him on some bullshyt while he was out on happy hour with some buddies after work last week and sprayed him in the face with a can of mace. He didn't cheat or do anything foul. She just tried to push his buttons because dude is a nice guy and she was trying to get the reaction from him that she wanted. What she got though was getting kicked out of the place they lived together :camby:

He told me that he didn't know how he still came into work Wednesday because she was expected to go to his place to get her stuff out, probably while he was at work :dahell: He has a good relationship with her family so he's thinking she'll be with them and they'll just come in, get her shyt , then leave. Not trash his place :lupe:

What's crazy is that another guy I work with broke up with his chick that same week also but that was expected. He's 20 but very mature for his age while she was in her mid thirties and pretty immature . Guess opposites attracted for a while.

Now some people in my dept have been playing "matchmaker" for two people we work with who have been feeling each other. Outside, I'm looking like :jawalrus: but on the inside I'm like
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I really don't want to deal with this middle school style dating game shyt while I'm work. Just let me be and make money over here. But I know what week this is :beli:
 
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What's kind of funny is there is a lesbian who turned straight and said she wants a man again. Upon being asked why, she said women are grimey. Lol modern women can be so bad, they turned a lesbian straight.
 

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What's kind of funny is there is a lesbian who turned straight and said she wants a man again. Upon being asked why, she said women are grimey. Lol modern women can be so bad, they turned a lesbian straight.

:heh:

even as friensd women are horrible and jealous. I remember when my sister was dating and got engaged and marriage, her best friend at the time, found any fault to hate on the guy, oh hes african, oh his job isn't all that, oh bla bla. All long this best friend came dating and sleeping around with tom dikk and harry. Now like 6 years later my sister is happily married with 2 kid and anothe ron the way. while she is still sleeping around can't even stay in a relationship long and are now just acquintances after being life long best friends
 

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More than likely they are not 10/10 in the looks department with the big ass big titties.

But as the Bible said beauty is fleeting.

You have to look at character. Women from strong two parent home families, women who are aunts and you can see the love they have for children. Women who are humble and carry themselves greatly.

You can find these women volunteering, on mission trips, church etc. Imo

Do you have any advice on finding a gem of a woman? The women I meet are good at first then eventually they reveal their true self and I have to end it :camby:. It just seems like there isn't a lot of women out there with high character.
 

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Alright...So I'm dealing with one of them chicks pretty enough to consistently get 100 likes on everything she posts....How I did it? I'm a fly nikka, I laid low while the thirst patrol annoyed the fukk out of her with all the attention...and when I talked to her it was brief...that continued, now all I do is roast her and make her laugh.......she is mad friendly...Responds to my text and calls me....hasn't really expressed interest beyond friends...yet she is so damn friendly to me...I bought her lunch one day...she insisted on buying me lunch this week...cool chick....

I have a feeling I'm venturing onto friend zone...

I'm trying to figure out how to get that info with out fukking it all up...I feel like I have to make the conversation sexual and see what she says....


Whats funny is...she claims she has never got anything for valentines day...EVER...I'm thinking that's bullshyt and she some new age player trying to hook me for the okie doke.....Then I was thinking, it's crazy how we write the story for beautiful women and think they have had it all already and any little gesture would be ignored since she's use to it...

I'm conflicted..
 

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Alright...So I'm dealing with one of them chicks pretty enough to consistently get 100 likes on everything she posts....How I did it? I'm a fly nikka, I laid low while the thirst patrol annoyed the fukk out of her with all the attention...and when I talked to her it was brief...that continued, now all I do is roast her and make her laugh.......she is mad friendly...Responds to my text and calls me....hasn't really expressed interest beyond friends...yet she is so damn friendly to me...I bought her lunch one day...she insisted on buying me lunch this week...cool chick....

I have a feeling I'm venturing onto friend zone...

I'm trying to figure out how to get that info with out fukking it all up...I feel like I have to make the conversation sexual and see what she says....


Whats funny is...she claims she has never got anything for valentines day...EVER...I'm thinking that's bullshyt and she some new age player trying to hook me for the okie doke.....Then I was thinking, it's crazy how we write the story for beautiful women and think they have had it all already and any little gesture would be ignored since she's use to it...

I'm conflicted..

yeah she's lying about that valentines day shyt. also don't believe her if she says she wants nothing for valentines day, same token don't change your style up if you are not the type to do all of that valentines day stuff (I don't, just Christmas and Bdays for me :manny:). If you feel that friend zone tag coming, take initiative and let her know what you want before you get too cool with her in that way (as a friend)
 

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On one hand she could be lying, I've dealt with women like that telling me they never got a birthday gift, I'm the only person who ever bought them a Christmas kid then I check their friends fb feed and there talking about buying her a gift.

On the other hand she could be telling the truth. A lot of broads out there have only dealt with horrible men who never bought em nothing. But too me that would be a red flag at this point in my life. So you never dealt with not even one dude who bought you at least flowers on valantiea day what kind of men were you dealing with in the past :patrice:.

Ask her out, make plans for the weekend. Considering valentines day is a Friday If shes busy and has plans well your in the friend zone, if she says yes take her out its valentines day, women don't spend Valentines day with friends.

Alright...So I'm dealing with one of them chicks pretty enough to consistently get 100 likes on everything she posts....How I did it? I'm a fly nikka, I laid low while the thirst patrol annoyed the fukk out of her with all the attention...and when I talked to her it was brief...that continued, now all I do is roast her and make her laugh.......she is mad friendly...Responds to my text and calls me....hasn't really expressed interest beyond friends...yet she is so damn friendly to me...I bought her lunch one day...she insisted on buying me lunch this week...cool chick....

I have a feeling I'm venturing onto friend zone...

I'm trying to figure out how to get that info with out fukking it all up...I feel like I have to make the conversation sexual and see what she says....


Whats funny is...she claims she has never got anything for valentines day...EVER...I'm thinking that's bullshyt and she some new age player trying to hook me for the okie doke.....Then I was thinking, it's crazy how we write the story for beautiful women and think they have had it all already and any little gesture would be ignored since she's use to it...

I'm conflicted..
 

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On one hand she could be lying, I've dealt with women like that telling me they never got a birthday gift, I'm the only person who ever bought them a Christmas kid then I check their friends fb feed and there talking about buying her a gift.

On the other hand she could be telling the truth. A lot of broads out there have only dealt with horrible men who never bought em nothing. But too me that would be a red flag at this point in my life. So you never dealt with not even one dude who bought you at least flowers on valantiea day what kind of men were you dealing with in the past :patrice:.

Ask her out, make plans for the weekend. Considering valentines day is a Friday If shes busy and has plans well your in the friend zone, if she says yes take her out its valentines day, women don't spend Valentines day with friends.


She said she's taking her Daughter and Niece to Midieval Times...It's a show with a Mideval theme... So I'm thinking is she curving me in advance so I don't ask cause I got that info in a round about way...

That shyt don't last all night so she should have some time unless she pulls the babysitter card...
 

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Oh she has a child :leon:

Yeah I know medieval times that's like 50 bucks and the show is a hour and a half.

I'd still ask if she gives that excuse say Saturday if she's still gives a excise you have your answer.

She said she's taking her Daughter and Niece to Midieval Times...It's a show with a Mideval theme... So I'm thinking is she curving me in advance so I don't ask cause I got that info in a round about way...

That shyt don't last all night so she should have some time unless she pulls the babysitter card...
 

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My co-worker told me that he broke up with his girl the other day. I met her a few weeks ago when she came by the workplace. Thought everything was cool :leon:. Turns out she turns batshyt crazy when she drinks . The last time was the last straw for him when she confronted him on some bullshyt while he was out on happy hour with some buddies after work last week and sprayed him in the face with a can of mace. He didn't cheat or do anything foul. She just tried to push his buttons because dude is a nice guy and she was trying to get the reaction from him that she wanted. What she got though was getting kicked out of the place they lived together :camby:

He told me that he didn't know how he still came into work Wednesday because she was expected to go to his place to get her stuff out, probably while he was at work :dahell: He has a good relationship with her family so he's thinking she'll be with them and they'll just come in, get her shyt , then leave. Not trash his place :lupe:

What's crazy is that another guy I work with broke up with his chick that same week also but that was expected. He's 20 but very mature for his age while she was in her mid thirties and pretty immature . Guess opposites attracted for a while.

Now some people in my dept have been playing "matchmaker" for two people we work with who have been feeling each other. Outside, I'm looking like :jawalrus: but on the inside I'm like
post-21716-Dave-Chappelle-pushes-woman-cl-vWqD.gif


I really don't want to deal with this middle school style dating game shyt while I'm work. Just let me be and make money over here. But I know what week this is :beli:

Yeah, work ain't the place to be dating anybody. I'm very anti dating when it comes to colleagues. I'm glad that dude kicked out that crazy chick. LOL @ the other dude who at the age of 20 is way more mature than a chick in her mid 30s. I've learned from dealing with these broads that age doesn't mean shyt when it comes to maturity, which is why I'd gladly date a woman 10 years my junior. It's like I said to my cousin the other day who has a friend who is 44 years old (although she doesn't look it) but is always on some bullshyt: Why would any man put up with her nonsense when he can get a a woman of childbearing age that is at least 15 years younger? Like I've always said, we as men aren't the ones who have to worry about dried up eggs as we get older, women do. It may sound harsh but that's just the truth. No matter how much b.s. a woman wants to be on, you can't outsmart or fool biology. So we should have no reason to be thirsty.

What's kind of funny is there is a lesbian who turned straight and said she wants a man again. Upon being asked why, she said women are grimey. Lol modern women can be so bad, they turned a lesbian straight.

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even as friensd women are horrible and jealous. I remember when my sister was dating and got engaged and marriage, her best friend at the time, found any fault to hate on the guy, oh hes african, oh his job isn't all that, oh bla bla. All long this best friend came dating and sleeping around with tom dikk and harry. Now like 6 years later my sister is happily married with 2 kid and anothe ron the way. while she is still sleeping around can't even stay in a relationship long and are now just acquintances after being life long best friends

Women are ALWAYS the first ones to hate on a good relationship and try to sow seeds of discontent. That's why I'm always weary of women's single friends.

Alright...So I'm dealing with one of them chicks pretty enough to consistently get 100 likes on everything she posts....How I did it? I'm a fly nikka, I laid low while the thirst patrol annoyed the fukk out of her with all the attention...and when I talked to her it was brief...that continued, now all I do is roast her and make her laugh.......she is mad friendly...Responds to my text and calls me....hasn't really expressed interest beyond friends...yet she is so damn friendly to me...I bought her lunch one day...she insisted on buying me lunch this week...cool chick....

I have a feeling I'm venturing onto friend zone...

I'm trying to figure out how to get that info with out fukking it all up...I feel like I have to make the conversation sexual and see what she says....


Whats funny is...she claims she has never got anything for valentines day...EVER...I'm thinking that's bullshyt and she some new age player trying to hook me for the okie doke.....Then I was thinking, it's crazy how we write the story for beautiful women and think they have had it all already and any little gesture would be ignored since she's use to it...

I'm conflicted..

Well that's just too bad, cos if it was me, come tomorrow she still wouldn't get shyt.
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She said she's taking her Daughter and Niece to Midieval Times...It's a show with a Mideval theme... So I'm thinking is she curving me in advance so I don't ask cause I got that info in a round about way...

That shyt don't last all night so she should have some time unless she pulls the babysitter card...

i don't get how she has a daughter, but has never gotten anything for valentine's day. the father of her daughter never got her anything for vtines day? sounds like she's trying to hint you to get her something, but don't get her anything.. ask her out.
 

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i don't get how she has a daughter, but has never gotten anything for valentine's day. the father of her daughter never got her anything for vtines day? sounds like she's trying to hint you to get her something, but don't get her anything.. ask her out.


She says she never cared about the day...not sure

I'm gonna just go in and tell her what it is...I'm not with that friendzone shyt...I could be a victim of getting the wrong idea from a woman that is just naturally nice...ha
 

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She says she never cared about the day...not sure

I'm gonna just go in and tell her what it is...I'm not with that friendzone shyt...I could be a victim of getting the wrong idea from a woman that is just naturally nice...ha

yeah man, might as well put it on the line bruh. if she ain't down with it, you'll save yourself time hollaring at a woman that ain't interesting
 
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what a sad pathetic man.

I’ll try to keep this short because I’m so stunned I think I’ve stopped being able to process things. I’ve [26M] been with my fiancé [25F] for 4 years. We’ve been engaged since last year and actively planning the wedding.

Last month, we moved to a new city across the country because my fiancé got an amazing job offer. I wasn’t happy about it since I had to quit my job and all our family and friends were in the city we left. I was kind of a jerk during the moving process, but I’ve come around since getting here.

My fiancé kept talking about this guy [late 20s maybe?] she worked with at her new job, and it made it me uneasy. I went to a few after-work events where he showed up, and he seemed like a total a$$hole. Very full of himself artistic type. I didn’t like the way he interacted with my fiancé and we would occasionally fight about it.

Tuesday night she got home really late, sat me down and broke up with me. She said she felt an immediate bond with this coworker that’s stronger than anything she’s ever felt before. This from the woman who just a few months ago I held in my arms while watching the stars as she told me she’s never felt more at peace than when she’s beside me. I laid awake on the couch all night feeling like I was continually being punched in the stomach.

I didn’t fall asleep until 3:00pm yesterday, and stayed asleep until this morning when she woke me up. Basically, she’s having this a$$hole over for valentines day and demanded she get the apartment to herself.

Between the move, all the deposits we had been putting for wedding stuff, and not having a job since we moved out here, I have literally no money for a hotel or anything else. We got into a big fight because I called her out and said she knew I had nowhere else to go. She said that’s not her problem, she’s done solving my problems for me (what???!) and that I needed to fix this one on my own.

I guess his roommate is having a date over so my fiancé offered our place for her date with the a$$hole. She says this is happening no matter what I say.

So yeah. What the hell am I supposed to do?

TL;DR: After uprooting me from my home town a month ago, my fiancé dumped me on Tuesday, and is now demanding the apartment to herself tomorrow for a date with this a$$hole artist from her new job. I have no money to do anything else.

Edit: I appreciate everyone telling me I should stand my ground. I told my fiance I wouldn't leave the apartment, but I don't think it's a threat I can carry through with. I will be emotionally devastated if I have to watch the woman I love and care for more than anyone else date someone right in front of me in my own home. Other suggestions would be appreciated.[/B]

He needs to kill himself for being so pu$$y whipped.
 
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