Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Random events from the past two weeks....

Went to meet a friend at a restaurant who was with his gf and her friends. One of the girls sitting next to me was engaged to a dude but was still extra flirty. You know when chicks have that extra giddy vibe to them. Anyway, I didn't realize until the next day that this chick was actually feeding me with the same fork she was using to eat her food. She kept begging me to try her food and I finally gave in :mjpls:.



Went to a few bar/lounges recently and had some interesting results. Since I have been working out harder, listening to Patrice O'neal, Tariq, etc(thanks to the Coli crew :leostare:), I have become much more carefree about what I say to these chicks. Was in this place that had a little karaoke section and I noticed this one girl kept going on stage even when it wasn't her turn. Basically she was jumping into other peoples songs looking for attention I assume. She happens to come by me, I could tell she has had a few drinks, and I say "Damn girl you going to let anyone else sing"? I said it in a playful manner, but she was "insulted" she said and walked away. About a minute later I noticed she left. :heh:



At another place, this chick started talking about how guys are a$$holes and she was trying to prove it with some guy she was texting with. Come to find out she only met this guy once in a club(he lives out of town) and she took a pic of him with some other girl :aicmon:. I told her she is fiending over him and he can smell it. I told her she prob took that picture of him with another girl to make herself want him more. She started going nuts sayings "its like you already know me". We exchange numbers and she texts me a few days later inviting me to her friends party that was with her that night. Her excuse was that her "friend" wants me to come even though I barely talked to the friend that night. :childplease:



I have also made out with a couple chicks and one might be worth keeping around for awhile. It's like either girls are instantly down or somehow I end up offending people. Either way, I'm starting to save alot of time not being in that guessing zone.
 

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i simped today and spent 42 dollars

just picked my girl up and went for a drive, went out to eat and then just chilled. I dropped her back home and shes like you want to come inside :manny:, so i went, her mom was there as well as her niece and nephew, it was :ehh:
 
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a lot of misinterpretations taken from my post.just to clear things up
1.i aint on facebook like that but i found out what hers is without her giving it to me.
2.we are dating

lemme tell u something real simple breh...forget this and forget her.

I've been out of a job since december and slowly seeing my savings account depreciate. Put that into perspective and then look at what you tripping about. You ain't gonne marry her, you ain't gonne introduce her to your famz, she ain't gonna be the mother of your kids...so why does it matter what she sayin on fb? Let her do whatever the fukk she pleases. Let her cheat, let her attention whore. Just eliminate that once and for all and detoxify your mind.
 

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one thing i wish is me having a thread like this when I was younger. I was so young and stupid engaged at 21, in serious relationships from like 19-25, stubborn thinking I knew it all. One thing as a young man 17-27 :ehh:, you have to realize is that more than likely the broad you are with righ tnow is not the chick you will be marrying more than likely it will just last at best like 1-3 years and then she will need space, cheat, want to have fun (sleep around), etc., so don't invest that young don't get tied down unless she's one of the few gems out there
 

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one thing i wish is me having a thread like this when I was younger. I was so young and stupid engaged at 21, in serious relationships from like 19-25, stubborn thinking I knew it all. One thing as a young man 17-27 :ehh:, you have to realize is that more than likely the broad you are with righ tnow is not the chick you will be marrying more than likely it will just last at best like 1-3 years and then she will need space, cheat, want to have fun (sleep around), etc., so don't invest that young don't get tied down unless she's one of the few gems out there
I still love my ex , should I tell her
 

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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/a...oposes-girlfriend-three-years-MailOnline.html

I kept thinking of how to ask you, I didn’t know how to make it special and this seemed the perfect way. I can’t wait to see your face when you see this.
‘You are the love of my life, I knew it from the moment I saw you and I know we are going to have a long and happy life together... I am asking you to marry me.'

'I was tempted to start Googling marriage proposals but this all has to come from me and I love you that much it is going to be easy.

'The past four years have been the best of my life and that's all down to you.

'You're beautiful, kind and the funniest person I know. You truly are my best friend and I love the fact that we have loads of fun together, can tell each other absolutely everything and laugh and joke about the same things.

Caroline I will always love you and worship the ground you walk on because you are a very special person - and I still can't believe I managed to to bag such a hottie.
'You've always dreamed of a proposal that would be seen by millions and I always dreamed of giving it to you so I hope this does the job.

'I promise to love, support and look after you forever like I know you will for me. I also promise you two holidays a year and you won't have to work past 30 (I'm guessing that will seal the deal?).

'So Caroline being the smart cookie that you are, I guess you know what's coming. Caroline Rhona Alexander, would you please do me the honour of being my wife? Will you marry me?'

while i would like to believe that this man found a gem that we all believe are out there, i feel like their marriage will be really short-lived or begin to have problems.

reasons being...the bolded.
 

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in the am get the girl some shyt from cvs for vday just to make her feel some type of way, bytch is all :gladbron:says shes gonna put on a show for me later, mind you i knew this the night b4

my car gets fukked by a pothole, i walk home (close by though). i tell her what happened after i read a text saying "come over when you get home from work" i call her back and the bytch isnt getting to the point "i tell her yo listen my car s fukked up, im quite irritated stop wasting my time and get to the point of what ur trying to say and ill call u back" she keeps blabbing 5 secs in click. i drink and smoke with my neighbor some and tell her "ill be there soon ok" she says "how", i dont respond. im there in about 15 from that last text she says she left to go to her friends...im like u srs, you told me to come, i told u ill be there soon, now you leave? she says you didnt say you were coming :why:...im done with this playing dumb manipulation shyt, tricks are for bytches
 

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lemme tell u something real simple breh...forget this and forget her.

I've been out of a job since december and slowly seeing my savings account depreciate. Put that into perspective and then look at what you tripping about. You ain't gonne marry her, you ain't gonne introduce her to your famz, she ain't gonna be the mother of your kids...so why does it matter what she sayin on fb? Let her do whatever the fukk she pleases. Let her cheat, let her attention whore. Just eliminate that once and for all and detoxify your mind.
she a decent girl breh trust me doesnt hit clubs,doesnt display her azz and titties on social media,speaks properly no slang etc. theres a reason im trying to pursue it.it justs fuks me up how these women can tell you they love you everyday,buy you shyt then claim single on facebook :sadcam:
 
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