Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

RealAssanova

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ya i'm trying to avoid all that crap. I haven't simped her in anyway. I've had just regular conversation. Either face to face at work, or here and there through text/fb.

i just wanna hang out with her so she can get to know me.

com'on now Z...da fukk is da matter with you breh? :why:

get a hold of yourself nikka and forget this hoe. :camby:You ain't gonne fukk her not now, not later..and prolly not ever. If you were going to, she would not be acting this way and would do anything in her power to kick it with you. Re-direct your energy into other things and let this thing die out on its own.
 
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The most liberating points in my day are when I leave my ego out of the equation. It's difficult for me and I'm sure a lot of people, but the results are :banderas:

RE: Women - Most of the signs that they aren't into you crazy are out there most of the time:

Can't text/call back, or takes forever to do so.
Short replies
Constant flaking out on dates/meet-ups
Little slick/disrespectful comments
Little to no initiative


The ego in you allows yourself to create excuses for that kind of behavior. "Her job is crazy" "She's in school" "Her family is talking down on me"

if these women get that "feeling", they will drop out of school to spend time, take out a second mortgage to bail him outta jail, fight their mother then live with him.

Remove your ego from your interaction and see the situation for what it is. A good baseball player fails about 60-65% of the time. MJ missed more than half his shots, why are you acting like you're above taking an L brehs?


Very powerful and prolific post right here
 

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The most liberating points in my day are when I leave my ego out of the equation. It's difficult for me and I'm sure a lot of people, but the results are :banderas:

RE: Women - Most of the signs that they aren't into you crazy are out there most of the time:

Can't text/call back, or takes forever to do so.
Short replies
Constant flaking out on dates/meet-ups
Little slick/disrespectful comments
Little to no initiative


The ego in you allows yourself to create excuses for that kind of behavior. "Her job is crazy" "She's in school" "Her family is talking down on me"

if these women get that "feeling", they will drop out of school to spend time, take out a second mortgage to bail him outta jail, fight their mother then live with him.

Remove your ego from your interaction and see the situation for what it is. A good baseball player fails about 60-65% of the time. MJ missed more than half his shots, why are you acting like you're above taking an L brehs?

I totally agree, but the word EGO is a tricky thing. IMO, the ego needs to be cultivated because at the end of the day, it's your ego that is going to save you from being stepped on by other peoples egos.

What you're talking about is a perfect example of a females ego stepping on a fragile guys ego. The guy with a strong ego will throw this type of girl in the bushes. A guy with a big ego gets the response from ladies "he only thinks about himself", "hes an a$$hole", etc. Now I'm not promoting the the ego to just become a self absorbed prick. However, there shouldn't be any other person on this planet that breathes the same air as you that you feel inferior to.

The only entity a person should feel subordinate to is that infinite energy we as humans can never truly understand otherwise known as God.
 

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The most liberating points in my day are when I leave my ego out of the equation. It's difficult for me and I'm sure a lot of people, but the results are :banderas:

RE: Women - Most of the signs that they aren't into you crazy are out there most of the time:

Can't text/call back, or takes forever to do so.
Short replies
Constant flaking out on dates/meet-ups
Little slick/disrespectful comments
Little to no initiative


The ego in you allows yourself to create excuses for that kind of behavior. "Her job is crazy" "She's in school" "Her family is talking down on me"

if these women get that "feeling", they will drop out of school to spend time, take out a second mortgage to bail him outta jail, fight their mother then live with him.

Remove your ego from your interaction and see the situation for what it is. A good baseball player fails about 60-65% of the time. MJ missed more than half his shots, why are you acting like you're above taking an L brehs?
exactly. but too many of us get a little success and then start thinking we're above the game. thinking our game is so tight.that's the best way to play yourself.
 
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com'on now Z...da fukk is da matter with you breh? :why:

get a hold of yourself nikka and forget this hoe. :camby:You ain't gonne fukk her not now, not later..and prolly not ever. If you were going to, she would not be acting this way and would do anything in her power to kick it with you. Re-direct your energy into other things and let this thing die out on its own.

Lol breh desperation leads to strange things.

It's getting lonelier as days go by. No female interaction in the last month. :damn:
 

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Lol breh desperation leads to strange things.

It's getting lonelier as days go by. No female interaction in the last month. :damn:

i haven't got puzzy since august breh. You see me scressin out? :usure:

But i shud prolly get that sorted out real soon....:sadcam:

anyways...forget that hoe. She gonne fukk with you and sure enough you gonne get pissed and toss her..so why not save yourself all that drama and shyt and do it now.
 
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i haven't got puzzy since august breh. You see me scressin out? :usure:

But i shud prolly get that sorted out real soon....:sadcam:

anyways...forget that hoe. She gonne fukk with you and sure enough you gonne get pissed and toss her..so why not save yourself all that drama and shyt and do it now.

ya it's rough .. she was already tossed to the bushes. then she randomly messages me cause she hasn't seen me at work and wondering where i've been. asked me if i quit my job.

i just kept it simple.

whatever, at least i didn't sound desperate. :manny:
 

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Is it smart to talk to this girl I lowkey made it awkward w/???

I as head over heels for a lil while, and I ended up anonymously messaging if she was into any nikka. She hit me with the, "no, buti think I know who you are, why don't you ask me off ask?" (ask.fm). I know she know.
why da fukk did i simp so hard? and not even irl...

Lay low?
:snoop: take that L and move on.
 

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Is it smart to talk to this girl I lowkey made it awkward w/???

I as head over heels for a lil while, and I ended up anonymously messaging if she was into any nikka. She hit me with the, "no, buti think I know who you are, why don't you ask me off ask?" (ask.fm). I know she know.
why da fukk did i simp so hard? and not even irl...

Lay low?
:damn: its over for you breh. on to the next one.
 

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the time you waste spending on a woman who doesn't care about you, or feeling you that way, when there is another broad out there who would invite you home after work to a home cooked meal and give you massage and watch the game with you.

Even with my girl at the moment, she's just a little above averae in the looks department but i've never met a woman with a heart like hers. Even on valentines day she told me she got me something I don't even do gifts and all that, ut it was just something small, were going shopping in the states next month and she got me a passport holder nothing pricey or expensive but it was from the heart and i liked that :banderas:. I've come to the point in my life when I'm done, i don't care if your a 10/10built like a tank, i've had that. I've been with gorgeous women and in my mind I knew they were no good, but i was liek :manny: when i went out and dudes would stare, women would stare and you knew you were that nygga, well i wasn't that nygga the stress the drama.



:myman::salute:

Hope this chik brings you long term joy… I know I'm rolling with one. I've def grown out of the stage of putting up with chiks with attitudes, mind games and uncertainty. There used to be a stage in my life when I was head over heels for hood rats :snoop:…one even had "Only God Can Judge Me" tatted on her arm :snoop: It really took me leaving the city for a few years to see what was really out there and start experiencing dif types of chiks. Some days I just sit back and :heh: to myself about that hoodrat stage and :whew: that no babies were given birth to.
 

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Let's count the mistakes here brehs:stopitslime:
http://nypost.com/2014/02/18/judge-blasts-assemblyman-over-text-to-witness/
http://nypost.com/2014/02/18/judge-blasts-assemblyman-over-text-to-witness/

Judge blasts assemblyman over text to witness

He just doesn’t get it.

A seething federal judge blasted Assemblyman William Boyland Jr. Tuesday for sending a creepy text message to a witness who testified against him at his corruption trial in Brooklyn federal court.

“Love ya sis,” Boyland wrote to his estranged former campaign treasurer last Thursday after she told jurors that his shady bookeeping prompted her resignation, prosecutors said Tuesday.

Unaware who sent the bizarre note, Maria DeLongoria immediately alerted FBI agents who tracked the number to Boyland.

“Obviously, our witness was disturbed,” assistant US Attorney Christina Dugger said Tuesday, noting that DeLongoria interpreted the message as a “veiled threat.”

Boyland’s attorneys argued that he simply wanted to let his former pal know there were no hard feelings over her cooperation.

But Judge Sandra Townes was not amused and sternly warned Boyland to keep his distance from witnesses for the duration of the trial.

“You are not to have contact with anyone who has an interest in this trial,” Townes said.

“Do you understand, Mr. Boyland?” she demanded.

“Yes, your honor,” he replied sheepishly as Townes let out an exasperated sigh.

DeLongoria — now a senior administrator at Suffolk County Community College — first met Boyland and his former wife on a beach in Sag Harbor. He eventually asked her to become his treasurer.

But the relationship soured after DeLongoria noticed improper withdrawals on accounts that were registered in her name and abruptly quit her position, she told the court last week.

The Brownsville politician is charged with offering up political favors to undercover agents posing as businessmen in exchange for payoffs. He faces 30 years in prison if convicted.

When the trial got back underway, Boyland was again rocked by testimony from his former lover and chief of staff Ry-Ann Hermon Tuesday.


She told the court that Boyland lied about graduating from Virginia State University despite claims that he received his diploma on his official Web site.


Hermon also dished that Boyland constantly ran out of money and could not even manage mortgage payments on his own home.


Hermon — who was also charged in the bribery scheme before copping a plea and agreeing to testify against Boyland — said she one-day hoped to become a state senator under Boyland’s skillful mentorship.
 
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