Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Not sure but I have read a lot of advice in this thread and I think it may have helped. I just really don't take shyt from girls anymore, none of them stupid games.

I have a girlfriend now and it's first relationship in a long time, with her it just clicked. but she still knows though if she messes up with me i'm done, I don't give second chances at allI. With her I didn't have to play any games, no texting games, no shyt like that - we just like each other a lot and are crazy for each other plain and simple. When a girl is really into you it's hard to keep them off of you as someone else said in this thread, cause it's true. She is a pretty girl with a crazy ass body, and she doesn't flaunt it or show it off at all which is a turn on for me. she doesn't wear make up and she's a 4.0 student in a HARD medical program. She has to study SO much but still wants to make time to be with me, that's how you know a girl likes you brehs. A lot of girls will give you, oh I got to study and work ish but if they want to make it work with you they will at least try. But at the end of the day I know girls rely on emotion and she could just not be into me anymore.

This is her hardest semester of her program and she has her first round of exams coming up, we have been trying to focus on her doing good on these and I'm just worried what's going to happen if she doesn't do good on her exams because she realllly has to do good in this program she's in. she's worked for hard for it and has been through so much to get there. I don't know, we talked about this a lot tonight. A little scared brehs. I like this girl a lot
 

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Not sure but I have read a lot of advice in this thread and I think it may have helped. I just really don't take shyt from girls anymore, none of them stupid games.

I have a girlfriend now and it's first relationship in a long time, with her it just clicked. but she still knows though if she messes up with me i'm done, I don't give second chances at allI. With her I didn't have to play any games, no texting games, no shyt like that - we just like each other a lot and are crazy for each other plain and simple. When a girl is really into you it's hard to keep them off of you as someone else said in this thread, cause it's true. She is a pretty girl with a crazy ass body, and she doesn't flaunt it or show it off at all which is a turn on for me. she doesn't wear make up and she's a 4.0 student in a HARD medical program. She has to study SO much but still wants to make time to be with me, that's how you know a girl likes you brehs. A lot of girls will give you, oh I got to study and work ish but if they want to make it work with you they will at least try. But at the end of the day I know girls rely on emotion and she could just not be into me anymore.

This is her hardest semester of her program and she has her first round of exams coming up, we have been trying to focus on her doing good on these and I'm just worried what's going to happen if she doesn't do good on her exams because she realllly has to do good in this program she's in. she's worked for hard for it and has been through so much to get there. I don't know, we talked about this a lot tonight. A little scared brehs. I like this girl a lot


I think this thread is absolutely fantastic. I think there is fukking awesome advice in here. I salute every one of my brethren that has contributed. I've read just about every post in here and I have to say the number one gem that has sunk in with me is...

"if she's interested in you, she'll make time."

Its 100% true. No doubt in my mind. I'm glad to hear you have yourself a keeper. I wish you the best of luck breh.
 

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Don't know how to get girls brehs :to:

I've tried everything and still no luck :to:

I'm getting paper but these women don't care :to:
 

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Don't know how to get girls brehs :to:

I've tried everything and still no luck :to:

I'm getting paper but these women don't care :to:

Sounds like this dude I know. He has a great job, and he's always going on vacations all over the world and things. His life is great.

But on facebook he's always bytching about girls not liking nice guys, and shyt like that. all this type of stuff.

I don't know what to say but just don't give a fukk what these women think at all, remember that you are the prize. You're the one that has your shyt together, and now you just want someone to join the ride. you don't need it.
 

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Sounds like this dude I know. He has a great job, and he's always going on vacations all over the world and things. His life is great.

But on facebook he's always bytching about girls not liking nice guys, and shyt like that. all this type of stuff.

I don't know what to say but just don't give a fukk what these women think at all, remember that you are the prize. You're the one that has your shyt together, and now you just want someone to join the ride. you don't need it.

I have friend who does the same shyt. In fact dude is in the process of becoming a host on a show on MTV2. But anyway, we had went out for drinks and met these chiks at a happy hr spot. So we start talking and dancing with the chiks. The chiks were cool, they mentioned they were married and I have a chik, so I played it cool. Well must have not heard ALL of them were married cause he fell in love with one and they were getting it in on the dance floor but she was avoiding letting him kiss her on the mouth. So we all leave at the same time and he tries to get her...she hits him with the "we can be friends on facebook" then she mentioned again she was married. This dude starts going crazy talking about "I know you are feeling me, and If you're married why you let me get so close to you? (in a little rage). So her friends are looking at me like "what's up with ya boy?" ....I just changed the subject to calm him down. So the chiks went their separate ways and I had to tell dude to not get attached and shyt. Dude couldn't comprehend that chiks are just having fun out chea :pachaha:. Dude's always crying about how foul girls are. Told him its a cold cold world, he might wanna purchase some hat and gloves. My girl despises dude too.
 

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Don't be a bitter nikka.

A chick ain't feelin' ya style, just keep it pushin' breh.

No need 2 hate ALL females.
yep you will thank them in the long run for keeping it real and not pretending to like you in that way.
nothing worse than catching feelings for a misleading bytch who fakes a relationship (like the bytch i mentioned a few posts ago :to:) i just chalk up my rejection and go about my way,could of even dodged a bullet with that bytch
 
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Don't know how to get girls brehs :to:

I've tried everything and still no luck :to:

I'm getting paper but these women don't care :to:
you have to continue to talk to them or your gonna be waiting a very long time breh unfortunately we dont have the luxury of sitting on our azz and still getting pursued like them.
its all a numbers game there will be one you click with eventually
 
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Chick asked me a week before Valentines Day what was I doing.
I was like :ld: well i got my midterm on that day.
we kept on talking and she asks me again
but what are you doing for v day
Me::smugdraper:got my mid term



Was she tryna get something or Nah?
I mean shyt if I fukked up:noah:
 

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Chick asked me a week before Valentines Day what was I doing.
I was like :ld: well i got my midterm on that day.
we kept on talking and she asks me again
but what are you doing for v day
Me::smugdraper:got my mid term



Was she tryna get something or Nah?
I mean shyt if I fukked up:noah:

We all have a hard time dealing with chicks advances.

She through you hints because she didn't want to come off as thirsty or a square.

Since it was a holiday you prolly did good by not going and saving yourself money.

Now the real deal is if she's still interested in you even after valentines day. A lot women get glamorized by the appeals of that day and let anything that there comes their way have a fair play.

If she's still interested in you, go for it bud.
 

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We all have a hard time dealing with chicks advances.

She through you hints because she didn't want to come off as thirsty or a square.

Since it was a holiday you prolly did good by not going and saving yourself money.

Now the real deal is if she's still interested in you even after valentines day. A lot women get glamorized by the appeals of that day and let anything that there comes their way have a fair play.

If she's still interested in you, go for it bud.
:ohhh: so she was tryna get at me.
well damn :patrice:
oh well yeah if something can happen i'll try :myman:
 
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