Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mr Hate Coffee]

I really needed this thread today brehs.

It be like that sometimes breh.

But honestly brehs DONT waste your time on a chick that isn't into you hard, and by hard I mean hard, i mean really really really into you.

Church. When girls are really into you they convince themselves that they need to do whatever to keep you and make you happy. Things go so much easier that way. Some brehs may have never experienced it before, but I hope they do someday because it is a clear difference from the games that get played when a chick is just using you to occupy time.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Explain to me how she laid it out for me?

and I'm lmfao at the I wish you would catch the hint part bruh, honestly. All she wants to do is hang out with me - she's so into me like crazy. Do you not understand how hard and competitive her program is? only accepts 100 students a year out of thousands of applicants. People live or die to get into this program. She has exams up the ass the next month and she STILL manages to find time to kick it with me. I'm telling you b, all she does is study study. She lives and dies in the library along with al the other students in her program. If she slips up she gets kicked out of her program.

As I said before, not EVERYbody who is friends with their ex is having sex with them or likes them. You really gonna tell me that's the situation in every case, come on son.

Maybe I am being naive, I wouldn't doubt that her ex still likes her, since she's the one who broke up with him - that's understandable and expected. But as of now I don't really see how she could she could be doing something.

I'm going to take a different approach. First, I understand that your situation is your situation so you should know it better than everyone in here. There's a chance that your girl may be fine and you have nothing to worry about. So I'm not here to tell you that it won't work.

Here's what alarms me:

I'd be more worried about the program. Trust me, I been thru this before... Keep an eye out for that shyt breh because if that program starts to take even more of her time you'll get thrown in the bushes. Her being friends with the ex is not the worst thing in the world, although it IS a red flag. Most girls understand that when they get a new man the old one has to go. If anything just to keep the peace and move on. So the way I see it...

Worst case scenario: School becomes too much, she dumps you, and gets back with the ex when it's over.
Best case scenario: Nothing happens, you guys stay together throughout her schooling, and you ride off into the sunset.

I got a real question for you tho. If you married her, how would you react when she wants to invite the ex to the wedding?

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

It's interesting to see the reaction to a chick's face when you tell them that you don't listen to R&B

Yall cats kill me. Aint nothing wrong with R&B, especially if you don't get carried away with the message. It's just like I can listen to Chief Keef and be perfectly fine. It's not like I'm bout to go murder someone. Good music is good music. I love classic soul and 90% of those records were about simpin.

Roster looking right now.

Can't get anything going out. Can't get anything on tinder or on pof or any of those other meetup sites.

Most of my time is spent gym and smoking weed.

I know the feeling breh. My roster looking the same way. And this weather is not making it easier. All I do is go to work and the gym. Tryna start getting ripped for when the shirts come off. Women come in waves tho. shyt is like a drought or a flood for me. I just been using this time to stay disciplined because when the summer comes I'mma have the shirt off like when all the thirsty chicks come around.

 

[Jone2three45]

She never did deserve me, not as a partner nor ever a friend.

 

[Mike Ock]

She never did deserve me, not as a partner nor ever a friend.

Back story bruh....

 

[Jone2three45]

Back story bruh....

In short,
Her girlfriends who by the way are bitter, bytchy and lonely dictated whatever relationship we were trying to build with each other. Now she must suffer the consequences because I'm gone.

 

[Mike Ock]

In short,
Her girlfriends who by the way are bitter, bytchy and lonely dictated whatever relationship we were trying to build with each other. Now she must suffer the consequences because I'm gone.

Gotcha. Years back I started dating a girl, met her best friend. Evrything was cool till the friend ask how close am I with god? Had me like . I told her I didn't pay any mind to religion. Like 2 days later I get a text basically telling me to from this chik, talking about she spoke to her friend about my religious beliefs and she's looking for someone who likes to go to church and have the same beliefs as her and those that she's close to. I sat there and read the text like . Her friend who was single talked her into giving me the boot. We had mutual friends, later I heard the friend was taking religion too far and pretty much had brainwashed the chik I was dating.

 

[A.V.]

Gotcha. Years back I started dating a girl, met her best friend. Evrything was cool till the friend ask how close am I with god? Had me like . I told her I didn't pay any mind to religion. Like 2 days later I get a text basically telling me to from this chik, talking about she spoke to her friend about my religious beliefs and she's looking for someone who likes to go to church and have the same beliefs as her and those that she's close to. I sat there and read the text like . Her friend who was single talked her into giving me the boot. We had mutual friends, later I heard the friend was taking religion too far and pretty much had brainwashed the chik I was dating.

Her friend saved you


Any bytch wit that weak of a mind (don't even ask me how) don't deserve a nikka

 

[Jone2three45]

Gotcha. Years back I started dating a girl, met her best friend. Evrything was cool till the friend ask how close am I with god? Had me like . I told her I didn't pay any mind to religion. Like 2 days later I get a text basically telling me to from this chik, talking about she spoke to her friend about my religious beliefs and she's looking for someone who likes to go to church and have the same beliefs as her and those that she's close to. I sat there and read the text like . Her friend who was single talked her into giving me the boot. We had mutual friends, later I heard the friend was taking religion too far and pretty much had brainwashed the chik I was dating.

shyt is sad.
I could never build with a woman who does not follow her own mind and live through the perceptions that her girlfriends paint for her.

 

[Mike Ock]

Crazy thing is that her friend was getting ran thru all throughout college then all of a sudden found god and became extra with it. Me and the chik dating didn't get to the point where it was a serious relationship so I got over it pretty fast. I just laugh remembering it.

 

[Atlrocafella]

So chick I told y'all about a while back that just straight went cold on me hit me out the blue saying she just needed some time to herself and had a lot on her mind. I've already dealt with these "I just needed some time to myself" bishes in the past, add to the fact that she didn't have the courtesy to just tell me that instead of going ice cold on a nicca. I'm still tossing this chick to the bushes. If I let her getaway with this one, she will think she can do this every time

 

[MikelArteta]

@Mr Hate Coffee



Speaks the truth, women do come in waves. You just never know when. Its like gambling your losing money on everything you say screw it and quit then your like let me just throw 10 on this 5 team parlay you hit it and suddenly every bet you do your hitting it.

I've been there no girls no numbers , may have to resort to online nothing interesting you say f it. Delete your account live your life then boom a chick at the bus stop, chick smiling at you at the grocery store. A old flame hits you up and its all happening at once.

Patience is key , I learned to just sit back and enjoy life if its going to happen it'll happen.

Just think of every girl you have dated or been with think of how you met them, many times when you least expected it.

 

[Huellz Santana]

So chick I told y'all about a while back that just straight went cold on me hit me out the blue saying she just needed some time to herself and had a lot on her mind. I've already dealt with these "I just needed some time to myself" bishes in the past, add to the fact that she didn't have the courtesy to just tell me that instead of going ice cold on a nicca. I'm still tossing this chick to the bushes. If I let her getaway with this one, she will think she can do this every time

dealing with that right now bruh. chick that got upset with me about splitting the date hasn't hit me up in 48 hrs. i tried my best to smooth things over but keeping up this faux long distance relationship was dumb anyway. i don't plan on contacting her. but its crazy how she went from sweating me to no contact alluva sudden.

at the end of the day, i just take it to mean that they really didn't like you that much. ​

 

[Jone2three45]

dealing with that right now bruh. chick that got upset with me about splitting the date hasn't hit me up in 48 hrs. i tried my best to smooth things over but keeping up this faux long distance relationship was dumb anyway. i don't plan on contacting her. but its crazy how she went from sweating me to no contact alluva sudden.

at the end of the day, i just take it to mean that they really didn't like you that much. ​

She has other options that she is trying out.

 

[Huellz Santana]

She has other options that she is trying out.

right. i know the game and more power to her. it's why I keep a roster myself.​