Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I really think as a male one of the hardest things low key is to cut ties with a beautiful woman. She can be poisonous, a cheater you know it wont work out, but a text, sweet words and she can have you under that spell in a second. Its also hard going from a 9 or a ten to a six or a 7, the constant compares. But as you get older the wisdom the experience will help you greatly that not everything that glitters is gold.

I really think that's why it took me so long to get over my ex, and why I kept on getting caught up in her web
She was gorgeous and I was addicted like a crack addict. in the end I didn't even want her, just the thought of another dude hitting it, or me not getting another girl that gorgeous would eat up my thoughts :heh:

Thank God for wisdom and strength :blessed:
 

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I really think as a male one of the hardest things low key is to cut ties with a beautiful woman. She can be poisonous, a cheater you know it wont work out, but a text, sweet words and she can have you under that spell in a second. Its also hard going from a 9 or a ten to a six or a 7, the constant compares. But as you get older the wisdom the experience will help you greatly that not everything that glitters is gold.

I really think that's why it took me so long to get over my ex, and why I kept on getting caught up in her web
She was gorgeous and I was addicted like a crack addict. in the end I didn't even want her, just the thought of another dude hitting it, or me not getting another girl that gorgeous would eat up my thoughts :heh:

Thank God for wisdom and strength :blessed:
:leon:
 

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Her girlfriends who by the way are bitter, bytchy and lonely dictated whatever relationship we were trying to build with each other. Now she must suffer the consequences because I'm gone.



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I'm always wary of chicks in tight groups because all it takes is for some jealous, resentful, hating, cock blocking parasite to whisper in their ear and it's all over.
 

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I'm always wary of chicks in tight groups because all it takes is for some jealous, resentful, hating, cock blocking parasite to whisper in their ear and it's all over.

It's like they try their hardest to live through her because they know that no man would ever want to wake up to them for the rest of his life because they are bitter and rotten. Yeah they might get pregnant but no man will ever marry and build with them and that's as far as it goes. So in return they play devils advocate on her shoulder and whisper corruption in her ear so that she can be miserable just like they are. shyts fukked up.
 

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This chick wants to talk in person and not over phone or text and she is not pregnant...what should I expect? :leostare:
 

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Women definitely come in bunches. This is why you got to have your life 'going on' in the meantime, so that the 'dry times' when you aren't getting attention like that doesn't even phase you. It'll be times when it seems like none of these women are checking, and then all of a sudden it's 7 or 8 all popping up in different places. It's very strange how that works, but it's almost like women have some sort of herd antenna and they follow each other, so when you're on, you're on.

Still, with that said, women in this day and age come and go, so never let your emotions get too dependent on the amount of attention you are getting from women. You need to fill your life with other things you enjoy. Women should never be the main dish in your life. They are sort of a snack that adds a bit of flavor. You go on and make them too important and you'll be on an emotional rollercoaster.
 

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Women definitely come in bunches. This is why you got to have your life 'going on' in the meantime, so that the 'dry times' when you aren't getting attention like that doesn't even phase you. It'll be times when it seems like none of these women are checking, and then all of a sudden it's 7 or 8 all popping up in different places. It's very strange how that works, but it's almost like women have some sort of herd antenna and they follow each other, so when you're on, you're on.

Still, with that said, women in this day and age come and go, so never let your emotions get too dependent on the amount of attention you are getting from women. You need to fill your life with other things you enjoy. Women should never be the main dish in your life. They are sort of a snack that adds a bit of flavor. You go on and make them too important and you'll be on an emotional rollercoaster.

yup its just like say when your in a relationship suddenly women left and right, when you were single you couldn't even get a smile, women can sense when you don't care and not focused on them, its why no homo, homosexuals are always around women because they dont care their not trying to impress, show off etc.
 

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So chick I told y'all about a while back that just straight went cold on me hit me out the blue saying she just needed some time to herself and had a lot on her mind. I've already dealt with these "I just needed some time to myself" bishes in the past, add to the fact that she didn't have the courtesy to just tell me that instead of going ice cold on a nicca. I'm still tossing this chick to the bushes. If I let her getaway with this one, she will think she can do this every time :camby:


the good ol need time to myself, aka another dude now has my attention
 

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i think alot of chicks are living in a fantasy world, no lie im 28 and it seems more than ever the amount of single non married people my age and older in both gender is wow. Men finally aint taking crap and saying No mas, chicks who were :noah: in hs thought they were to good for a skinny breh, now saddled with a kid, or a dead end retail job, going through relationships like rich people go through cars. And in the end men win, once you reach this old and "to old for club and bar scene", have to resort to "online dating just giving it a try to find someone" , and your "sick of the a$$holes" itll be to late, Many of the women of today live in the moment not thinking down the line, thinking the party or the ride will never stop.
 

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I really think as a male one of the hardest things low key is to cut ties with a beautiful woman. She can be poisonous, a cheater you know it wont work out, but a text, sweet words and she can have you under that spell in a second. Its also hard going from a 9 or a ten to a six or a 7, the constant compares. But as you get older the wisdom the experience will help you greatly that not everything that glitters is gold.

I really think that's why it took me so long to get over my ex, and why I kept on getting caught up in her web
She was gorgeous and I was addicted like a crack addict. in the end I didn't even want her, just the thought of another dude hitting it, or me not getting another girl that gorgeous would eat up my thoughts :heh:

Thank God for wisdom and strength :blessed:
i aint gonna lie i just got over this girl i kinda hate myself how long i was thinking about her
i swear i didnt want nobody else but her,
i got jealous at the thought of somebody else with her
and then suddenly i didnt even care i dont know what it was but i just aint een care nomore :(
life is crazy
 

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i aint gonna lie i just got over this girl i kinda hate myself how long i was thinking about her
i swear i didnt want nobody else but her,
i got jealous at the thought of somebody else with her
and then suddenly i didnt even care i dont know what it was but i just aint een care nomore :(
life is crazy

time is the great equalizer breh, the great equalizer
 

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i aint gonna lie i just got over this girl i kinda hate myself how long i was thinking about her
i swear i didnt want nobody else but her,
i got jealous at the thought of somebody else with her
and then suddenly i didnt even care i dont know what it was but i just aint een care nomore :(
life is crazy

Dated a girl on and off for almost 3 and a half years...just last month, got tired of all the bullshyt and just stopped caring. got tired of her excuses...got tired of the ratchet friends she had in her life...got tired of her male friends hating on me (i'm sure bytch was getting pounded by other guys)...got tired of her indirectly hating on my friends and goals...i learned she was a miserable person who expected the worst from people and kept her guards up...she was in abusive relationships before and thought all men are like her ex's...i got tired of proving that i'm different...now i'm dating a white woman and i tell ya life is Good (nas) I saw all the red flags but kept telling myself man she will change for the better...she was a beautiful colombian woman...funny thing is I met two girls from colombia and I threw them in the bushes as soon as i found out where they were from :smile:

being in a relationship and waiting for someone to mature mentally or overcome family issues is the worst position to be in...now if i was with her and she starts having family problems, i'd stick around but man this bytch complained about her mom feeding her niece a plate of food because they don't got it like that...fukking bird

there are many great woman out there...thank you POF :smile:
 

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Dated a girl on and off for almost 3 and a half years...just last month, got tired of all the bullshyt and just stopped caring. got tired of her excuses...got tired of the ratchet friends she had in her life...got tired of her male friends hating on me (i'm sure bytch was getting pounded by other guys)...got tired of her indirectly hating on my friends and goals...i learned she was a miserable person who expected the worst from people and kept her guards up...she was in abusive relationships before and thought all men are like her ex's...i got tired of proving that i'm different...now i'm dating a white woman and i tell ya life is Good (nas) I saw all the red flags but kept telling myself man she will change for the better...she was a beautiful colombian woman...funny thing is I met two girls from colombia and I threw them in the bushes as soon as i found out where they were from :smile:

being in a relationship and waiting for someone to mature mentally or overcome family issues is the worst position to be in...now if i was with her and she starts having family problems, i'd stick around but man this bytch complained about her mom feeding her niece a plate of food because they don't got it like that...fukking bird

there are many great woman out there...thank you POF :smile:
u met a ww on pof?
well damn good fr you breh
 
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