Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Medio]

Brehs how can I get my woman to act right?
My only problem is that I want her to sweat me. Basically want her to be thirsty.

Spoiler

yes I might be a beta male and need a neg but if my woman was on my jock heavy I'd be

She's just not into you man

I'm going to take a different approach. First, I understand that your situation is your situation so you should know it better than everyone in here. There's a chance that your girl may be fine and you have nothing to worry about. So I'm not here to tell you that it won't work.

Here's what alarms me:

I'd be more worried about the program. Trust me, I been thru this before... Keep an eye out for that shyt breh because if that program starts to take even more of her time you'll get thrown in the bushes. Her being friends with the ex is not the worst thing in the world, although it IS a red flag. Most girls understand that when they get a new man the old one has to go. If anything just to keep the peace and move on. So the way I see it...

Worst case scenario: School becomes too much, she dumps you, and gets back with the ex when it's over.
Best case scenario: Nothing happens, you guys stay together throughout her schooling, and you ride off into the sunset.

I got a real question for you tho. If you married her, how would you react when she wants to invite the ex to the wedding?

I'm not even thinking that far at all, but I guess it would depend on the vibes I get from him before that.

 

[re'up]

All caught up with someone right now…….it's a long story but Ive posted a lot before about her….I may type it all out. I'm not used to the vulnerability that comes when you really like someone, I've made some moves, well really just one that I'm sure would catch a lot of laughs on here….but I've carried myself with respect, and in part to shyt I've learned on here. Though, collectively we can be much too harsh at times, I think more often it's warranted, but the times it's not, can cost you. Someone was looking at me insane the other day, I said I wouldn't text her back again, ever, until I heard from her….and he was like 'You said you're in LOVE with this women, and you're being so cutthroat over a fukking text…You'll regret it'…I didn't tell them where I got that mindset from lol….Not simping or devaluing myself at all, but I'm definitely feeling like I haven't maybe ever….

and there is a strong change I'll be in here (hopefully) in a few months bytching and crying, of course..

 

[PaperEnterprise]

All caught up with someone right now…….it's a long story but Ive posted a lot before about her….I may type it all out. I'm not used to the vulnerability that comes when you really like someone, I've made some moves, well really just one that I'm sure would catch a lot of laughs on here….but I've carried myself with respect, and in part to shyt I've learned on here. Though, collectively we can be much too harsh at times, I think more often it's warranted, but the times it's not, can cost you. Someone was looking at me insane the other day, I said I wouldn't text her back again, ever, until I heard from her….and he was like 'You said you're in LOVE with this women, and you're being so cutthroat over a fukking text…You'll regret it'…I didn't tell them where I got that mindset from lol….Not simping or devaluing myself at all, but I'm definitely feeling like I haven't maybe ever….

and there is a strong change I'll be in here (hopefully) in a few months bytching and crying, of course..

You need to throw this girl in the bushes and remind yourself, there are many women who will appreciate the little things you will do for them...a lot of these women are broken at a young age, they become baggage. just move on and find yourself someone with goals and who is inspired by life. that is key. bytches will leech off your energy and the moment they find a guy similar to the ones that broke them down, they will go to them. lol.

 

[Jesus]

All caught up with someone right now…….it's a long story but Ive posted a lot before about her….I may type it all out. I'm not used to the vulnerability that comes when you really like someone, I've made some moves, well really just one that I'm sure would catch a lot of laughs on here….but I've carried myself with respect, and in part to shyt I've learned on here. Though, collectively we can be much too harsh at times, I think more often it's warranted, but the times it's not, can cost you. Someone was looking at me insane the other day, I said I wouldn't text her back again, ever, until I heard from her….and he was like 'You said you're in LOVE with this women, and you're being so cutthroat over a fukking text…You'll regret it'…I didn't tell them where I got that mindset from lol….Not simping or devaluing myself at all, but I'm definitely feeling like I haven't maybe ever….

and there is a strong change I'll be in here (hopefully) in a few months bytching and crying, of course..

 

[The ADD]

What's the thought on Robin Thicke trying to publicly get his marriage back?

 

[JackM]

What's the thought on Robin Thicke trying to publicly get his marriage back?

He lost his pimp card breh.

Real pimps never beg/plead for a chick who dumped you to come back.

A chick dump ya, you supposed 2 be like "Aight, cool. You do you and I do me." and go have fun out there.

 

[Panther]

Been talking to this new chick, we talked about linking up this week and she was like "tell me what kinda food you like ill pick a place using this discount app on my phone."

Not that im gonna let her choose where we eat or what we do, but she gained a few points in my book with that

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

So chick I told y'all about a while back that just straight went cold on me hit me out the blue saying she just needed some time to herself and had a lot on her mind. I've already dealt with these "I just needed some time to myself" bishes in the past, add to the fact that she didn't have the courtesy to just tell me that instead of going ice cold on a nicca. I'm still tossing this chick to the bushes. If I let her getaway with this one, she will think she can do this every time

I got black iced by two females within a week that I've known for years.
Hoes ain't tell me nttn but sitting on Facebook making posts.
fukk them hoes
After some months when they get shytted on they gone be hitting me up giving me bullshyt excuses.

"I tried calling you"
"my contacts got deleted"
"I just been stressing and had things on my mind"

 

[Raw Lyrics]

Dated a girl on and off for almost 3 and a half years...just last month, got tired of all the bullshyt and just stopped caring. got tired of her excuses...got tired of the ratchet friends she had in her life...got tired of her male friends hating on me (i'm sure bytch was getting pounded by other guys)...got tired of her indirectly hating on my friends and goals...i learned she was a miserable person who expected the worst from people and kept her guards up...she was in abusive relationships before and thought all men are like her ex's...i got tired of proving that i'm different...now i'm dating a white woman and i tell ya life is Good (nas) I saw all the red flags but kept telling myself man she will change for the better...she was a beautiful colombian woman...funny thing is I met two girls from colombia and I threw them in the bushes as soon as i found out where they were from

being in a relationship and waiting for someone to mature mentally or overcome family issues is the worst position to be in...now if i was with her and she starts having family problems, i'd stick around but man this bytch complained about her mom feeding her niece a plate of food because they don't got it like that...fukking bird

there are many great woman out there...thank you POF

Where in Colombia was she from? I went through some rollercoaster with a Colombian years back, she was from Cali. She was just as deceitful and she was beautiful....and boy was she deceitful!!!!

My friend is going through it right now with his Colombian gf, same issues - cant get straight answers smh

 

[PaperEnterprise]

Where in Colombia was she from? I went through some rollercoaster with a Colombian years back, she was from Cali. She was just as deceitful and she was beautiful....and boy was she deceitful!!!!

My friend is going through it right now with his Colombian gf, same issues - cant get straight answers smh

She was born here...I kid you not I spoke with 2 colombian girls, both had the same tendencies. They say things they think men want to hear. I don't want to single out Colombian women. I'm certain there are many respectable colombian ladies out there. To be truthful, I believe the issue is the environment some women are in...like I said before, many women are jaded/broken from past relationships but never end up learning. they go back to the same type of guys that gave them heart ache.

My biggest mistake in the situation was I saw the potential in her if she applied herself in some things a human being needs to evolve. She would talk about wanting to find peace in her heart, not get angry and be calm the way I was. I'd tell her that the people she was surrounded by and her mouthing off to others would not get her to the mind state a successful person needs to be in.

I'ma happy person, being surrounded by drama is not my thing. I would on purpose gossip to her about shyt I'd make up, she would be all attentive lol, but the moment I spoke about things that were going good in my life, she paid little mind to my words. bottom line, her exterior beauty captivated my mind, but inside she was an ugly ass person.

I feel good and the thought of being someone elses life coach was mentally draining.

 

[Mr210]

man my homeboy wants to hit up an ex who he hasnt seen or been with in over a year to see if she will be real with him about some questions he always had. I told him that it was a waste of time and that regardless of the answer she gives he will never know if thats the truth

 

[Mr210]

Been talking to this new chick, we talked about linking up this week and she was like "tell me what kinda food you like ill pick a place using this discount app on my phone."

Not that im gonna let her choose where we eat or what we do, but she gained a few points in my book with that

thats one of the things I like about my current girl she stay using group on to get us either free or very low prices on activities for us to do

 

[Mike Ock]

man my homeboy wants to hit up an ex who he hasnt seen or been with in over a year to see if she will be real with him about some questions he always had. I told him that it was a waste of time and that regardless of the answer she gives he will never know if thats the truth

Sounds like he needs that closure to move on. He just needs to know if he can handle the answers he might not want to hear.

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

Has anybody ever experienced when a girl self sabotages? Like you guys are really vibing, having a good time, getting closer, might have even smashed. However, then she just says some stupid shyt and breaks it off or disappears. The fickleness I swear.

 

[MikelArteta]

man my homeboy wants to hit up an ex who he hasnt seen or been with in over a year to see if she will be real with him about some questions he always had. I told him that it was a waste of time and that regardless of the answer she gives he will never know if thats the truth

it will be a waste of time, and it all goes back to the book of reincar page 62 paragraph 4

"women will tell you whatever you want to hear to calm your fears"

let me guess the questions he always had

"did you really mean it when you said you loved me"
"why did we break up"
"do yu really not feel anything for me anymre"

and her answers

Yes at one point I did love you, I still do but not that way

we were different, i was goign through alot in my life at that time and things in my life happaned that made me just see things different.

You're a great guy and whoever gets you will be so lucky, you were one of the best people I ever met in my life and you deserve happiness.


there now tell him NOT to do it, and gt on with his life.