Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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it will be a waste of time, and it all goes back to the book of reincar page 62 paragraph 4

"women will tell you whatever you want to hear to calm your fears"

let me guess the questions he always had

"did you really mean it when you said you loved me"
"why did we break up"
"do yu really not feel anything for me anymre"

and her answers

Yes at one point I did love you, I still do but not that way

we were different, i was goign through alot in my life at that time and things in my life happaned that made me just see things different.

You're a great guy and whoever gets you will be so lucky, you were one of the best people I ever met in my life and you deserve happiness.


there now tell him NOT to do it, and gt on with his life.

Got damn, this post is all truths.
 

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it will be a waste of time, and it all goes back to the book of reincar page 62 paragraph 4

"women will tell you whatever you want to hear to calm your fears"

let me guess the questions he always had

"did you really mean it when you said you loved me"
"why did we break up"
"do yu really not feel anything for me anymre"

and her answers

Yes at one point I did love you, I still do but not that way

we were different, i was goign through alot in my life at that time and things in my life happaned that made me just see things different.

You're a great guy and whoever gets you will be so lucky, you were one of the best people I ever met in my life and you deserve happiness.


there now tell him NOT to do it, and gt on with his life.

Also, men have to realize that women operate primarily on emotions, and emotions shift like the wind and often times for no apparent reason. So there could have been a point where she had deep feelings for him, but due to the precarious nature of emotions, those feelings just vanished because her becoming accustomed to him and his actions stopped producing those emotions that she craved. Why never letting a woman get to know you too deeply or to become overly predictable to her is so powerful is because it's that sense of unknowing that produces emotions. What movie gets you hyped up more, the movie you've seen 100 times or the one you've never seen but has a sizzling trailer? The one you seen 100 times could be infinitely better as a movie, but the one you haven't seen will draw your attention much more quickly.
 

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i got a question you'll how do you feel about strippers? @kevm3

im not dealin with any but i think i got nothin to lose :dead:

a girl i met at school threw me her number. a couple days later she told me she dance part time.

thinkin bout takin a break from square bytches and college hoes. :patrice:
 

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i got a question you'll how do you feel about strippers? @kevm3

im not dealin with any but i think i got nothin to lose :dead:

a girl i met at school threw me her number. a couple days later she told me she dance part time.

thinkin bout takin a break from square bytches and college hoes. :patrice:
the thought of being in even a semi-committed relationship with one shouldnt even cross your mind. feel free to fukk but strap up and try to understand her background a lil bit to make sure she doesnt have some ex-con baby daddy/ex-bf in the background.

also realize the more and longer you fukk w/ trash women, the worse your prospects will be in terms of vibing w/ a good one. think the universe just works that way.
 

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i got a question you'll how do you feel about strippers? @kevm3

im not dealin with any but i think i got nothin to lose :dead:

a girl i met at school threw me her number. a couple days later she told me she dance part time.

thinkin bout takin a break from square bytches and college hoes. :patrice:


Don't do it to yourself. When she's not around, there won't be any other thoughts except for her being consumed by dikks. You wanna deal with that?
 

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i got a question you'll how do you feel about strippers? @kevm3

im not dealin with any but i think i got nothin to lose :dead:

a girl i met at school threw me her number. a couple days later she told me she dance part time.

thinkin bout takin a break from square bytches and college hoes. :patrice:

For me personally, not really my type at all. From what I've heard of men who've dealt with strippers, it's usually some kind of problem that comes along with them.
 

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the thought of being in even a semi-committed relationship with one shouldnt even cross your mind. feel free to fukk but strap up and try to understand her background a lil bit to make sure she doesnt have some ex-con baby daddy/ex-bf in the background.

also realize the more and longer you fukk w/ trash women, the worse your prospects will be in terms of vibing w/ a good one. think the universe just works that way.
:wow: word great advice friend...

most women i dealt with were trash prior to college. come from hittin hoodrats and baby mommas to sophisticated college bytches with NO TIME for a nikka. the transition was rough for adolescent such as myself with no role models.

a nikka was finna fall back from some of these colleague women of mine. but i guess it would still be backwards to go that route. the women in my life past few months in general just got me annoyed lately even the non trashy ones :smh: . terrible text communication. tired of bein treated like a side nikka or a second option i guess. bytches actin brand new yada yada just stopped communication.

dancer in school also but i can tell she's not as uppity as the usual. she been hittin the boy up. neever did no background on her but she not from round here (the school campus etc) which was the only benefit of the doubt i gave her for dancin. she actually bagged me randomly one day. i woulda never known. and she wouldnt even send me no pic lol of her outfits. a nikka thought he found somethin new (short term only breh :dead: ) and was about to skedaddle on these square ass campus bytches and their delusional ethics. and see wat this stripper was hittin for. but yea my prospects been flawed in past which is prob reason why ithese bytches dont fukk wit me too long. so i guess i better just slo up and be patient with women regardless. man i done came a long way from trash bytches no need to even take a step back.

to the bushes they all go. but like you said breh i need to try to vibe elsewhere. :patrice:
 

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For me personally, not really my type at all. From what I've heard of men who've dealt with strippers, it's usually some kind of problem that comes along with them.
definately. lol i should check the bytch and ask bout her criminal record. ima dj so by default a lot of bytches think ima hoe or vice versa. only reason i considered. a nikka just be losin patience with these college fake grown square bytches :smh:
Don't do it to yourself. When she's not around, there won't be any other thoughts except for her being consumed by dikks. You wanna deal with that?
yea man she just givin me the most attention right now as far as my phone go hardly know the bytch. def was tryin just knock it down. she just been tryin get to know me text phone wise but like the OG @Reality said these trash hoes aint gon do shyt but fukk up my prospects in the long run.

BUSHES they go. all of em
 

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Another element of dealing with women

If you're constantly having to fight over other dudes contacting 'your woman' or always making these inappropriate comments, she's sending out open signals. For example, you go on your girl's facebook and there's all these dudes saying disrespectful type stuff like, "Ohh girl I wanna hit you off so bad." If she responds to that with anything other than a delete or harsh rebuke, you need to get away from her. if she responds with an 'lol', that's bad news.

why is that? A woman who is firmly committed in a relationship and checks the dudes coming at her and doesn't send out open signals won't leave these disrespectful dudes buzzing around, nor will she give them a lane to run their game. If you look at a woman who is firmly 'in pocket' with her man, you will notice that how dudes generally react to them is different than women who look like they are in pocket, but are always sending signals and leaving lanes open.
 

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I'm meeting up with this chick I met at the gym for drinks tomorrow night.

Been out of the game for a while.

What would you guys order for a first drink? Is a Vodka Cranberry cool? Need somethin that's not too strong but not a bytch drink either.
 

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I'm meeting up with this chick I met at the gym for drinks tomorrow night.

Been out of the game for a while.

What would you guys order for a first drink? Is a Vodka Cranberry cool? Need somethin that's not too strong but not a bytch drink either.


just keep it simple you are already over thinking things
 

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I'm meeting up with this chick I met at the gym for drinks tomorrow night.

Been out of the game for a while.

What would you guys order for a first drink? Is a Vodka Cranberry cool? Need somethin that's not too strong but not a bytch drink either.
 
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