Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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http://www.tariqradio.com/1/post/2014/03/ep-19-should-men-get-dating-advice-from-women.html

From 25:00 onwards Tariq pretty much said what we've been saying in here already......just don't take dating advice from women because it's basically simp shyt they'll impart to you. He did mention if you have a sister or female cousin it might be different, but to be honest I wouldn't even do that because 9 times out of 10 they'll always come from a place of bias and emotion rather than logic. In the past, all the advice I took from women pretty much backfired. :snoop: As a man, you should either stand on your own feet or get advice from other (more experienced) men. That's what leaders do.
 

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Ma gem dropping brehs, I need some advice...

Any tips on how to stop texting females right away?

I assume it comes off as thirsty, but I text right away on some courtesy shyt (if we're talking, you'd want me to answer back ASAP, right? :manny:)...

Or am I overthinking this too much? :patrice:

if a chick is into you it doesnt matter when you text, o rho wmuch you text, she'll be happy to hear from you.

its when a chick isnt feelign you and you still sending constant texts, or google when to text pua forums and stuff
 

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So recently I met this woman through my cousin (female). She is very intelligent, very attractive, and so far has a lot of the qualities I'm looking for in a woman. I don't know her that well yet but I have some concerns. She told me that she has a son. Now normally I don't date single moms because I dated one before and it didn't work out. She also told me she is a law student. I got to thinking about that Raymond Felton stuff and I'm still :patrice:.

Am I being too cautious about this woman?
 

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So recently I met this woman through my cousin (female). She is very intelligent, very attractive, and so far has a lot of the qualities I'm looking for in a woman. I don't know her that well yet but I have some concerns. She told me that she has a son. Now normally I don't date single moms because I dated one before and it didn't work out. She also told me she is a law student. I got to thinking about that Raymond Felton stuff and I'm still :patrice:.

Am I being too cautious about this woman?

If you have to ask you already know. Unless you have a kid of your own or are ready to be someone else's child father then go for it, if not then throw the idea of a relationship with her in the bushes. Dealing with single mothers can be tricky breh, me personally I wouldn't look forward to a relationship with her. Keep her around but not enough that it can grow into something.
 

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I'm tired of old bytches calling me a baby breh. I had this Jamaican bitty with big ass titties lined up until she found out my age then it kinda sizzled out. Tired of this horse shyt.
 

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I'm tired of old bytches calling me a baby breh. I had this Jamaican bitty with big ass titties lined up until she found out my age then it kinda sizzled out. Tired of this horse shyt.
Man U better learn to lie but only lie if u think u can fukk right away if not Keep it moving if they ain't with
 

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So recently I met this woman through my cousin (female). She is very intelligent, very attractive, and so far has a lot of the qualities I'm looking for in a woman. I don't know her that well yet but I have some concerns. She told me that she has a son. Now normally I don't date single moms because I dated one before and it didn't work out. She also told me she is a law student. I got to thinking about that Raymond Felton stuff and I'm still :patrice:.

Am I being too cautious about this woman?
It depends. Are you looking for a relationship or nah? That will probably dictate how you will go about this situation.
 

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A lot of them got the feeling that younger guys are immature and have no intentions of settling down with them, so they avoid.
 

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http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/368558/Just-Jane-My-sponging-greedy-folks-run-me-ragged

MY family only ring when they want money.

I don’t hear from my mum, dad or sister for weeks. Then suddenly I get a call.

Help! There’s been a disaster – a big bill has come in, the electricity is about to be cut off, or some such nonsense.

The women are particularly good at turning on the waterworks and plunging into near-hysteria. The emotional pressure is enormous.

The message is always the same – if I don’t step in and take care of everything immediately, they will be ruined.

If I really loved them I wouldn’t hesitate. It’s family, it’s duty and all that. The trouble is I just don’t respect them.

My sisters seem to lose their purses and phones constantly. They get ripped off by mates and boyfriends a dozen times a year.

My mum constantly pleads poverty, yet no-one ever mentions her acute fruit machine addiction or her chain smoking.

Then there’s my dad’s drinking and complete inability to hold down a proper job.

The only decent member of my family is my elder brother. He talks to my folks, but absolutely refuses to give them a penny.
He tells me that I’m a mug for falling for their sob stories, but their Oscar-winning performances get me every time.

I am unable to turn them down the way he does, but my girlfriend has started saying that I can’t allow my greedy, needy family to keep sponging. She says that she loses respect for me every time I go running to them.


So now I’m torn between my love for her and my loyalty to my family.

I keep telling her that it’s very hard for a son to turn a weeping mother down, but she says I must. I feel so confused.

Let people take advantage of you rather than stand up as a man, brehs.
 

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My ex's birthday is next week and since she dumped me, she's made it her business to bother me weekly because "She cares about me deeply and wants to be my friend" :beli:

I haven't initiated contact with her at all since we broke up 'cause she dumped me over some bullshyt but I feel like I should message her "Happy Birthday" to avoid any potential drama. She knows exactly what to say to put me in a bad space and then she plays innocent afterwards which messes me up even more.

What do you guys reckon I should do?
 

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My ex's birthday is next week and since she dumped me, she's made it her business to bother me weekly because "She cares about me deeply and wants to be my friend" :beli:

I haven't initiated contact with her at all since we broke up 'cause she dumped me over some bullshyt but I feel like I should message her "Happy Birthday" to avoid any potential drama. She knows exactly what to say to put me in a bad space and then she plays innocent afterwards which messes me up even more.

What do you guys reckon I should do?
cut er off for good and be done with it. easy to say i know but its going nowhere and she dumped you. just stop talking to er
 

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cut er off for good and be done with it. easy to say i know but its going nowhere and she dumped you. just stop talking to er

I've been trying. She knows I've deleted her number and I haven't initiated contact with her since November but whenever she calls, I feel obligated to pick up the phone. I'm frustrated at myself because I usually find cutting ties with people so easy.
 
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