My ex's birthday is next week and since she dumped me, she's made it her business to bother me weekly because "She cares about me deeply and wants to be my friend"
I haven't initiated contact with her at all since we broke up 'cause she dumped me over some bullshyt but I feel like I should message her "Happy Birthday" to avoid any potential drama. She knows exactly what to say to put me in a bad space and then she plays innocent afterwards which messes me up even more.
What do you guys reckon I should do?
Just tell her straight you don't want to be contacted any more. You don't owe her any explanations (she already knows anyway, she's either playing games or she's a few pennies short of a pound) and you don't need to be sending any happy birthday messages either. You're not "obligated" to do shyt. You don't have kids with her. Stop letting your ex who dumped YOU have such a hold on you, man. If she continues the phone calls then you probably need to get the date and times of these calls and visit the local police station and report her for criminal harassment - I'm serious too. That's not a bytch move either. She's making you feel uncomfortable and knows you don't want to be contacted.
Potential drama? With who? Wtf is she gonna do send some goons to your house or something?
I wouldn't have gotten her a present. I was just gonna text her and that's it.
So recently I met this woman through my cousin (female). She is very intelligent, very attractive, and so far has a lot of the qualities I'm looking for in a woman. I don't know her that well yet but I have some concerns. She told me that she has a son. Now normally I don't date single moms because I dated one before and it didn't work out. She also told me she is a law student. I got to thinking about that Raymond Felton stuff and I'm still.
Am I being too cautious about this woman?
a wise fisherman would never ask fish for advice on how to catch fish. Even if the fish has good intentions it'll tell you "Us fish, we like to eat worms. but don't use a hook, it hurts us. No fish likes hooks. If you take a can of worms and sprinkle it around the area where you're fishing, you'll attract a lot of fish. you'll see all the fish swim around your boat." The fish will tell you what it likes and figures that by doing what fish likes, you will get more fish. The problem is that while fish will swim around your boat, they won't jump on it. they'll just eat the worms, get fat and dip.http://www.tariqradio.com/1/post/2014/03/ep-19-should-men-get-dating-advice-from-women.html
From 25:00 onwards Tariq pretty much said what we've been saying in here already......just don't take dating advice from women because it's basically simp shyt they'll impart to you. He did mention if you have a sister or female cousin it might be different, but to be honest I wouldn't even do that because 9 times out of 10 they'll always come from a place of bias and emotion rather than logic. In the past, all the advice I took from women pretty much backfired.As a man, you should either stand on your own feet or get advice from other (more experienced) men. That's what leaders do.
, she says she is sorry and wants another chance to make things right what would you do
, if i really loved a guy i would ask for another chance
, i'm still battling sometimes knowing in terms of looks i can do so much better but beauty fades, hasn't messed up yet but she knows if she does 
I appreciate your honesty homieits going
