Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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:damn: dude sold out his manhood for a nice apartment and luxurious lifestyle...he's literally bytch made!


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Dude should be happy as fukk and go throw some money on young hoes .. Once his girl sees that, she wouldn't do that shyt anymore ..

What an idiot
 

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Let's discuss the stupidity of dating a chick you work with :snoop:


There's a couple in my department that started dating a month ago and it's working so far because both of them have different part time schedules meaning they almost NEVER work together. That's the exception though.

Guess its where you work at and the level of maturity that comes with it too. I couldn't even think about seeing someone I work with at my last two jobs because of the environments there but I can at least consider it @ my current job :patrice: Still I don't think I would go through with doing so.
 

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Let's discuss the stupidity of dating a chick you work with :snoop:



My answer has always been no...but I'm currently with a chick I work with. Because of our schedules its only 2 days a week. So far things are good, I like the fact she is a private person
 

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i feel ya breh you just really have to be careful with how much you let them effect your emotions from day to day,
chick i wanted to cuff down something serious just went cold with her efforts and i found myself being the one having to initiate contact every time so last monday i said fukk it and its been a week and not a peep outta her :sadcam:

tempted to text something slick like seven days without you makes one weak lol but nah ive laid out the foundation on what i have to offer now its on her to choose me,only so much chasing you can do until you end up in 'ego booster' catergory.not to mention the bytch was claiming single on fb (she doesnt know i know it) while we were meant to be dating :to:

Damn breh I knoe the feeling.
Its too late for me though breh.
We had too many memorable moments so not giving a fukk is damn near impossible.
I just gotta hope she acts right.
 
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Cut the apology and do the rest
what's wrong with the apology?

Thats your opportunity right there breh, she waiting on you to ask her to do something. Just ask her out
wish me luck breh.. i'll give it a few days.

Something similar like this happened to me only that I asked to go out she agreed and when it was time to go she said oh I thought u was joking. That had me in my feelings and haven't spoke to her since
explain more so i can avoid this shyt.
 

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explain more so i can avoid this shyt.[/QUOTE]
Basically she was just using me for convo to make time go by or just never had any intention of going out. I never looked into it just kept it moving I don't like feeling vulnerable when I do I move on
 

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My breh was talking to this chick for like a couple of months...she went out of state for job training. She didn't contact him for like 3 weeks. Her phone was allegedly disconnected. He called like recently and he said that a girl answered who sounded similar picked up the phone and said wrong number. He got a call from her today and she's back in town. He's supposed to be meeting up with her tonight at a hotel she's temporarily staying. I hope this nikka doesn't give in too easily. :beli:

Our homegirl told him to cut the bytch for leaving him hanging like that...I told him to smash and then leave. We know he has hard feelings for her though. :lupe:
 

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man she's lying. probably went out of town to chill with some dude... if she did go out for job training, she probably was chilling with some dudes... either a coworker or hitting the clubs down there.
This is the technology age. She could have sent an email, used a hotel phone, used a coworker's phone, etc. Man these broads play games because dudes got such tender hearts they don't want to believe when a woman is playing with them. They end up liking this woman too much before even knowing her and start cutting her all of these exceptions.
 

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My breh was talking to this chick for like a couple of months...she went out of state for job training. She didn't contact him for like 3 weeks. Her phone was allegedly disconnected. He called like recently and he said that a girl answered who sounded similar picked up the phone and said wrong number. He got a call from her today and she's back in town. He's supposed to be meeting up with her tonight at a hotel she's temporarily staying. I hope this nikka doesn't give in too easily. :beli:

Our homegirl told him to cut the bytch for leaving him hanging like that...I told him to smash and then leave. We know he has hard feelings for her though. :lupe:


that "smash and leave", "one last smash", "just smash her one more time then cut her off" is risky.

I remember the last time i smashed my ex e weren't together and she ended up being pregnant. I could have been tied down for her for life, but she ended up having a miscarriage, just tell him to cut her off and not look back. RIght now he's looking at a man with no options. What more than likely happened she was with a guy and uttered that lie, or she wasn't interested, now that she's back in town hey what's up

aka the girl who goes off to college and is "single" sleeps with tom dikk and harry, then comes home for spring break and is canoodling and cavorting with her bf of 4 years tim whose attending the local community college

have hard feelings after a few months of talking to a girl? :snoop:
 

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man she's lying. probably went out of town to chill with some dude... if she did go out for job training, she probably was chilling with some dudes... either a coworker or hitting the clubs down there.
This is the technology age. She could have sent an email, used a hotel phone, used a coworker's phone, etc. Man these broads play games because dudes got such tender hearts they don't want to believe when a woman is playing with them. They end up liking this woman too much before even knowing her and start cutting her all of these exceptions.


cosign this, in todays age there is no excuse to someone losing touch with someone, unless of course they dont want to be in touch, if I was him I wouldnt even smash, just throw her to the bushes
 

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So, I worked tonight. Previous customer who i helped before came in.

I got her number. :scheme:

This is the dope shyt about it. She is a fukkING DOCTOR. She says she spends her time at work and church and seems to have a great head on her shoulders. she works as an anesthesiologist at the biggest hospital in the area, which just so happens to be 2 mins from my crib.

:wow: Looks wise is a 7. I'm going into this situation with 2 mindsets.

1. Definitely interested, not gonna smother her. Gonna text tomorrow at some point. Being that she's into church I don't expect to fukk...preparing to hear her say she's celibate.

2. Prepped to get curved, but she seems to be very mature and we always chop it up when she comes in (came in about 4-5 times previously in the last year).

She looks to be about 22-25, and is about 5'9, 5'10. Them mint green scrubs.....imma scrub that p*ssy. :shaq:

Hope this goes well. Had to take that risk.

EDIT: She's 30. What this tells me is she should know what she wants and if im not it then she would tell me. AVG Salary for her job here: $277k. :ohlawd:

I don't want her money but damn that's a lot of money breh. Someone like her would definitely keep me motivated to stay on the path im on.

How does my potential career match up? Auditor/CPA/Controller: From $52K to $140K.
 
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