Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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if your decision to take control is based on her wanting you to take control, then who's really controlling? why do you even care if she says you're too controlling?

Because those are terms for yall not talking anymore.
She gone not want you nomore and say "you're possessive".

I know most of yall hate women and don't want them to be around
but I actually want my woman and I to be something. :youngsabo:


PS - This is not something I was just told. But it has happened in the past
 

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Because those are terms for yall not talking anymore.
She gone not want you nomore and say "you're possessive".

I know most of yall hate women and don't want them to be around
but I actually want my woman and I to be something.
:youngsabo:


PS - This is not something I was just told. But it has happened in the past
so then it's easy. keep doing what she wants you to do. problem solved.
 
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so then it's easy. keep doing what she wants you to do. problem solved.

nvm breh.
Somebody else might answer my question better.
Cuz it ain't about "doing what she wants". If my woman thinks Im doing something wrong ima actually try to understand cause I actually might be tripping. If Im trippin and did something that wasnt right, then yea I need to not do that. If she bytching over nttn then I don't care.
See I actually want my woman to have a voice.


My woman:

"hun maybe you should add some more bell pepper to it"

black-man-cooking-husband.jpg


Coli member's wife:

:demonic:....me and my hoe look so good together brehs :blessed:

Man-Wiped-Out-Wife-for-Seeking-Job-in-Afghan-.jpg


"Now bytch don't you EVER suggest we make the relationship more exciting by not going out to the same places every week!!! :damn: "

timthumb.php


@BonitaChelz
 
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nvm breh.
Somebody else might answer my question better.
Cuz it ain't about "doing what she wants". If my woman thinks Im doing something wrong ima actually try to understand cause I actually might be tripping. If Im trippin and did something that wasnt right, then yea I need to not do that. If she bytching over nttn then I don't care.
See I actually want my woman to have a voice.


My woman:

black-man-cooking-husband.jpg


Coli member's wife:

:demonic:....me and my hoe look so good together brehs :blessed:

Man-Wiped-Out-Wife-for-Seeking-Job-in-Afghan-.jpg





@BonitaChelz
i honestly don't care how you choose to run your relationship. i gave my point of view and either it makes sense to you or it doesn't. fukk it, i could be wrong too. i try to speak my truth the best that i can. you can either ask us to elaborate or discard our comments completely. that's your right too.

but i'm gonna ask you respectfully to quit trying to accuse people of hating women because they disagree with your philosophy (which doesn't seem to be working for you either by the way). plenty of people have had different view points in this thread and yet for the most part the discussion has been smooth because the common denominator was respect and a quest for wisdom. saying we hate women because "wanting to be with her" is not the ultimate goal is corny.
 

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nvm breh.
Somebody else might answer my question better.
Cuz it ain't about "doing what she wants". If my woman thinks Im doing something wrong ima actually try to understand cause I actually might be tripping. If Im trippin and did something that wasnt right, then yea I need to not do that. If she bytching over nttn then I don't care.
See I actually want my woman to have a voice.


My woman:

"hun maybe you should add some more bell pepper to it"

black-man-cooking-husband.jpg


Coli member's wife:

:demonic:....me and my hoe look so good together brehs :blessed:

Man-Wiped-Out-Wife-for-Seeking-Job-in-Afghan-.jpg


"Now bytch don't you EVER suggest we make the relationship more exciting by not going out to the same places every week!!! :damn: "

timthumb.php


@BonitaChelz

:russ: Your a trip. Shyt will always be an extreme on the coli breh :wow:
 

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the thing is some women don't know what they want

they want you to be hard to get but they also want you to show you care

they don't want drama, but they don't want repetiveness either

they want you to be the man and be in control, but they want it their way to

:mindblown:
exactly! so why even base your decisions on what she wants when they change that on a whim? why not instead just be you and let her choose if she wants to be with you or not and then be at peace with her choice. but i guess that's too extreme. i guess that's hating women...
 

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exactly! so why even base your decisions on what she wants when they change that on a whim? why not instead just be you and let her choose if she wants to be with you or not and then be at peace with her choice. but i guess that's too extreme...

yup i used to be that guy who tailored himself to the broad he was messing with, she likes thugs ima act like a thug, she likes nice sweet guys ima be that guy, she likes mysterious dudes etc., in the end i'd rather be denzel and just play myself in every movie :youngsabo: than to be daniel day lewis
 

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yup i used to be that guy who tailored himself to the broad he was messing with, she likes thugs ima act like a thug, she likes nice sweet guys ima be that guy, she likes mysterious dudes etc., in the end i'd rather be denzel and just play myself in every movie :youngsabo: than to be daniel day lewis
method actors suffer for their performance and might get the trophies posthumously, Heath Ledger...
 
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