Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[T-K-G]

nvm breh.
Somebody else might answer my question better.
Cuz it ain't about "doing what she wants". If my woman thinks Im doing something wrong ima actually try to understand cause I actually might be tripping. If Im trippin and did something that wasnt right, then yea I need to not do that. If she bytching over nttn then I don't care.
See I actually want my woman to have a voice.


My woman:

"hun maybe you should add some more bell pepper to it"

Coli member's wife:

....me and my hoe look so good together brehs

"Now bytch don't you EVER suggest we make the relationship more exciting by not going out to the same places every week!!! "

@BonitaChelz

that's why i had to fall back from this thread, nikkas make the biggest blanket statement about females like none of them have the ability to be rational at all

i'd rather have a girl who can actually think for herself instead of just catering to everything i want, that's basically a yes man

as far and your situation, check yourself first and make sure you aren't actually being too controlling/being an a$$hole, if that's not the case then give her the and talk it out

 

[Soundbwoy]

7 Must-Do’s While You’re Single…

1. Live alone. As hard as it is to live alone, you get to know yourself in an extreme, intense, and deeply satisfying way. It teaches us to live happily in solitude. It provides quiet to think. It allows us to become self reliant. I lived alone for 6 years before we got married and I believe, if nothing else, that time provided me a great deal of confidence in my ability to survive.

2. Quit your job. It feels so good to take a job and shove it (and not be affecting anyone else’s livelihood). It doesn’t seem as irresponsible to up and quit when it’s just your mouth you’re feeding. So if the job isn’t right for you, get out of there. Don’t waste another minute – this is your life we’re talking about.

3. Fly to a foreign country by yourself. I was nervous on my first solo trip to Mexico, even though now I almost always have to travel alone. You learn so much about who you are in how you handle foreign currency, foreign accents, and foreign chaos. It’s a cultural adventure and doing it alone, without worrying of checking in, when to call, and when to be back, is quite exhilarating.

4. Spend a weekend with a married couple your age. Listen to how they speak to one another. Notice their non-verbals. Ask about the rhythms of their daily life. Make a mental note: marriage is not perfect, nor is it the solution to what ails you. Be happy for your married friends and satisfied in where you’re at today. Know that many of us stay single forever, and that’s great. Life is about community, food, faith , travel, relationships, and love. Not just marriage.

5. Take a long trip with your best friend. Plan a trip you won’t be able to take once you are married because your spouse will either: a) want to join or b) not be able to survive the time without you. You can backpack through Southeast Asia, staying at random hostels, or couch surf your way through Western Europe. I have a friend Jeddidiah Jenkins who over 18 months (right now) is riding his bike from Oregon to Patagonia with a few of his close friends. Get out there and go.

6. Be completely, utterly, wholly single for at least three months. Stop trying to date someone constantly. Fast from the hunt, from the hope, of another person coming into your life. Sit fully into your singleness and see what you find. Hopping wildly from one relationship to the next can do you a disservice. You’re never more ripe for self-reflection than when you’re on your own — and the more you know yourself, the more likely you are to find someone who’s right for the real you.

7. Be a good wingwoman or wingman (and watch Top Gun).It’s not always about you. Sometimes your best friends need your full-on support in their pursuit of risk and romance. Finding someone to love and putting yourself out there is not easy, but with a good friend at your side who eloquently drops the high points of your resume during a conversation with an exciting suitor, it can become much less complicated.

7 Must Do's While You're Single - The Daily Positive

 

[Beerus]

I'm a fukking idiot.
fukkING IDIOT

there i thought this chick wasn't the dating type(she muslim) i aint really try to ask her out or get her digits.
now she talmin bout she was on like 4 dates using tinder this month...
I've been talking to this chick since last october when I see her on the train since we live in the same area.
I ain't try to ask for her number back then cuz i was tryna get at some other chick and when I ask for the number I try to get shyt popping asap.
but the thing is this chick been on my mind since i used to see her before and shyt but we never talked
now im pissed and fukking b. I really fukked up right like im prob in the friendzone or some shyt right?
fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukkfukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukkfukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukkfukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk fukk
fukk


ANOTHER L to the book of L's from purp.

Now Idk what the fukk should I do keep talking wit her(i mean we talk but sometimes we just dont say shyt like there's pause so iono if thats a bad thing) or nah.
like now I want her now even badder I can't keep this shyt platonic nikka fukk that
I gotta go in full game playing mode right now and just ask her out after my finals or try to set somethin up.
She either gon say Yes and its or no and well it becomes weird between us and prob not going to talk again and I her.

fukk im a fukking idiot IDIOOOOOOOOOOTTTTTT

I got her number now..
but shyt i don't even know if I should ask her out.
To what do? I mean movies? shyt i mean. we talk on the bus, but there's times where we don't say shyt like iono if thats an issue i mean ask her out to what i aint tryna have those same type of silent moments we having on the bus b

 

[Two Stacks]

I got her number now..
but shyt i don't even know if I should ask her out.
To what do? I mean movies? shyt i mean. we talk on the bus, but there's times where we don't say shyt like iono if thats an issue i mean ask her out to what i aint tryna have those same type of silent moments we having on the bus b

ask her out, stop being scared breh all she can say is no

 

[Beerus]

hell my tinder is in norway now, ive just been playing around with locations past week, i think im up to like 576 matches, funny thing i think i got like 3 when i was using my real city

western women

How long do you leave it in a country tho?
I'm doing Los angeles right now.
I tried norway oslo and paris but that was in one day and I just went somewhere else

 

[Beerus]

ask her out, stop being scared breh all she can say is no

but we got finals now man I would have to be like I was wondering do you want to go to ___ wit me after finals though?
I mean I can get a no which im ok, or a yes and then I get flaked on?
Should I just do that b?

 

[Two Stacks]

but we got finals now man I would have to be like I was wondering do you want to go to ___ wit me after finals though?
I mean I can get a no which im ok, or a yes and then I get flaked on?
Should I just do that b?

 

[Beerus]

ok ok ima do it next time i see her lol

 

[Rich Spirit]

Just ask her out gotdamnit, sooner the better

 

[MikelArteta]

How long do you leave it in a country tho?

usually just a day

to many countries in the world ain tlike ima meet these women . every time they message me i ignore it as well

 

[Brock Landers]

Man these younger broads have SO many damn daddy issues, any hint of attention or a kind word and they'll do anything for you. I had a broad re-enact this classic from National Lampoons Christmas Vacation just for the hell of it, broad does anything I tell her to do

I feel for the next generations brehs, I really do, there are going to be SO many problems but I'm still eatin off that vicious cycle brehs

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Man these younger broads have SO many damn daddy issues, any hint of attention or a kind word and they'll do anything for you. I had a broad re-enact this classic from National Lampoons Christmas Vacation just for the hell of it, broad does anything I tell her to do

I feel for the next generations brehs, I really do, there are going to be SO many problems but I'm still eatin off that vicious cycle brehs

Example of said word/attention

 

[Brock Landers]

Example of said word/attention

Broads like this, typically 18-20, are looking to win some type of approval or respect from a MAN who they look up to almost like a father figure. Coming at them with the regular corny shyt like the dudes in their age group will get you nothing, as they receive that all of the time. Making a young broad chase your approval, but never giving her your complete attention or approval will have her do just that - chase. She will try and please you and do things for you to instil that self respect that she never had from a male figure in her own life for whatever reason. Dropping praise when she does something 'grown' means the world to her, so playing up to that side of her ego/emotions will yield the best results. I'll leave it for you to go from there.

And just to show I'm not kiddin...

Spoiler

http://i.imgur.com/fMTQQ5W.jpg

 

[MikelArteta]

Broads like this, typically 18-20, are looking to win some type of approval or respect from a MAN who they look up to almost like a father figure. Coming at them with the regular corny shyt like the dudes in their age group will get you nothing, as they receive that all of the time. Making a young broad chase your approval, but never giving her your complete attention or approval will have her do just that - chase. She will try and please you and do things for you to instil that self respect that she never had from a male figure in her own life for whatever reason. Dropping praise when she does something 'grown' means the world to her, so playing up to that side of her ego/emotions will yield the best results. I'll leave it for you to go from there.

And just to show I'm not kiddin...

Spoiler

http://i.imgur.com/fMTQQ5W.jpg

breh this is the truth, ill even go like 18-26, hell maybe 18- to whatever, women who never had a loving dad in their life, a dad who told them hey hun your beautiful, oh wow thats my girl all grown up beautiful etc., seek validation and love in the wrong places, any man who spits a few sweet words in thier section they drop them draws

 

[Grams]

This girl is tryna friendzone me and she thinks I'm not peeping game