Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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if ida known her for say some months i woulda asked.

but i only met her a week and a half ago. damn tho, she was a good fukking prospect.

It was cheap ass date too, that she suggested, so i aint even lose no money so i can't be mad.

next another chick closer to your goal, remember you still didn't know everything about her, all women are "great" in the beginning, offer alot bla bla, even my worst relationships i ever had the women were amazing in the beginning and gave me warm fuzzy feelings :mjlol:
 

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The one thing a lot of dudes need to realize is when a bytch nagging u all day; then that girl fukking damn near loves you.

when a woman has real interest, she won't leave you alone. she'll send all kinds of cute messages (GM/GN) and always want to know what u up to

if that continues after a few months then maybe, again in the beginning women can't stop thinking of you, msgn you , good morning good night, will that last?
 

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next another chick closer to your goal, remember you still didn't know everything about her, all women are "great" in the beginning, offer alot bla bla, even my worst relationships i ever had the women were amazing in the beginning and gave me warm fuzzy feelings :mjlol:

i am happy this happened soon instead of say months later; then i woulda been pissed.
 

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that's the best way to end it. move on with your respect and wish her well. man I never been rejected right away by females. you get the number and flirting everything's all good then nothing. dirty game but good lessons. good that you moved on already though

females are good like that, i remember one time i went on a date, chick was smiling, giggling , date went for like 5 hours, got a hug and a kiss and all that, the text me when you get home safe bla bla.

Never heard from her ever again :sadcam:, rarely a female will flat out tell you your face she's rejecting you, but the signs are there.

if sh ebrely knows you ala after a date, or she gave you her number she will just not reply to your text messages till you get the point

if she knows you, ala dating you for awhile etc.
she gets distant, sex stops, she's busy, cancelling dates, she needs space trying to let you down easy
 

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Man, when things go well, it seems like you have everything in common, and things flow smoothly, you probably aren't too far from friend zone. It's weird, but it's like that. The vibe I get from when women like me is that they are annoying... as in they always want to spend time and all of that. The vibe I get when it's headed towards her going distant soon is when we have those general conversations, everything is agreeable and pleasant, but she is never really overly emotionally affected.

All you can do is chalk it up. NEVER get into the mindset of what should I have done or what could I do to keep her around. If mami doesn't want to stick around, let her keep it pushing and get to mashing at another woman. You never want to put yourself in a position mentally where you are changing your behavior around to appease a woman and keep her around. You'll end up in sucker territory then.
 

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Man, when things go well, it seems like you have everything in common, and things flow smoothly, you probably aren't too far from friend zone. It's weird, but it's like that. The vibe I get from when women like me is that they are annoying... as in they always want to spend time and all of that. The vibe I get when it's headed towards her going distant soon is when we have those general conversations, everything is agreeable and pleasant, but she is never really overly emotionally affected.

All you can do is chalk it up. NEVER get into the mindset of what should I have done or what could I do to keep her around. If mami doesn't want to stick around, let her keep it pushing and get to mashing at another woman. You never want to put yourself in a position mentally where you are changing your behavior around to appease a woman and keep her around. You'll end up in sucker territory then.

which is something i didnt know how to do even 2-3 short years ago. im already talking to like 4 other women anyways.
 

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i look at women these days like im drafting on a sports team. the one that just curved me was a 4 outta 5 prospect. very solid. best i'd come across in a while.
 

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i look at women these days like im drafting on a sports team. the one that just curved me was a 4 outta 5 prospect. very solid. best i'd come across in a while.

to me the key as a man is to realize quite simply there is so much single women out there, don't even worry 1 turns you down there are 10 others with less drama who look better.
 

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Man, when things go well, it seems like you have everything in common, and things flow smoothly, you probably aren't too far from friend zone. It's weird, but it's like that. The vibe I get from when women like me is that they are annoying... as in they always want to spend time and all of that. The vibe I get when it's headed towards her going distant soon is when we have those general conversations, everything is agreeable and pleasant, but she is never really overly emotionally affected.

All you can do is chalk it up. NEVER get into the mindset of what should I have done or what could I do to keep her around. If mami doesn't want to stick around, let her keep it pushing and get to mashing at another woman. You never want to put yourself in a position mentally where you are changing your behavior around to appease a woman and keep her around. You'll end up in sucker territory then.


this past weekend i was watching 10 commandments and one scene stood out for me, basically when moses reaches where jethro had his sheep, all 7 daughters were excited as hell look its a man, they all wanted him, danced for him and jethro told moses he could choose one of them for his wife. Btw moses had nothing at that point, was just a poor slave traveller.

thats the way as a man you should carry yourself, you being the prize, regardless if your filthy rich or poor, sadly nowadays the roles are reversed where it would be the woman and 7 men simping hard after like lapdogs and this si why the game is distorted
 

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this past weekend i was watching 10 commandments and one scene stood out for me, basically when moses reaches where jethro had his sheep, all 7 daughters were excited as hell look its a man, they all wanted him, danced for him and jethro told moses he could choose one of them for his wife. Btw moses had nothing at that point, was just a poor slave traveller.

thats the way as a man you should carry yourself, you being the prize, regardless if your filthy rich or poor, sadly nowadays the roles are reversed where it would be the woman and 7 men simping hard after like lapdogs and this si why the game is distorted

The key problem with women in this day and age is men. Western men are so weak and subservient to women, it's no wonder they act how they do. You take the average western man anywhere else in the world and he will start to spoil the women with his behavior. I really don't know where this worshiping women behavior came from. It's not even in the Bible anywhere. In fact, the Bible tells you a woman shouldn't have authority over a man, and we see what happens when a woman feels she can run a man.
 

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The key problem with women in this day and age is men. Western men are so weak and subservient to women, it's no wonder they act how they do. You take the average western man anywhere else in the world and he will start to spoil the women with his behavior. I really don't know where this worshiping women behavior came from. It's not even in the Bible anywhere. In fact, the Bible tells you a woman shouldn't have authority over a man, and we see what happens when a woman feels she can run a man.

the funny thing is i've been using this app called tinder spoofing ym location and putting myself in different countries and just talking to women from say brazil, australia, phillipines is so vastly different
 

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the funny thing is i've been using this app called tinder spoofing ym location and putting myself in different countries and just talking to women from say brazil, australia, phillipines is so vastly different

When you actually sit and deal with a feminine woman, you are reminded what is so intoxicating about women. A lot of western women were taught nothing about femininity. That's taking cooking and cleaning out of the equation and speaking purely on feminine charm. When you are able to interact with a woman who lives in a culture that doesn't try to masculinize women and feminize men, you sit back and think, "Oh, so THAT was what I've been missing."
 

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Today I spent a good few hours trying to explain to my friend that he should cut off a girl that he had a fling with. It was the usual story, friends with benefits and he tried to make it into a relationship and then realised that he was making all the effort. She hit him with the "let's just be friends" routine but steadily kept him wrapped around her finger and played the usual manipulative games that girls like to play. Now she says she's got a boyfriend and my friend still hasn't used this opportunity to officially cut her off. He keeps saying he'll do it when the time's right :snoop:.

I know what's going to happen and I even tried to spell it out for him but he thinks he's different compared to the rest of us guys who have been played before.
 
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