Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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Is it mandatory to hurt your girl's feelings every once in a while?
*might be too deep for some to understand*
@Emperor_ReinScarf
@Geoffrey_Chaucer @kevm3
Stop making moves 'in reaction' to women and their emotions or whether they will leave or stay. This is why you have to be principled. You need to be focused on what YOU are doing and stick to that and uphold your principles. If it will cost you some women, oh well... they weren't women that were fit to be with you.
The point of this is to say, stop doing things based upon some reaction you think it will get from a female... don't sit around talking about, "I'll disagree with her because women like men that disagree wit them. I'll talk mean to her because women like mean men." That's why guys end up so confused. They aren't doing their own thing and letting the woman fit in. They are accommodating the woman by morphing in to the man they think she'd like. Ultimately, a woman will be a lot more likely to stick around with a guy who isn't catering or accommodating her, but with a dude that is doing his own thing and she likes how he moves.
The point of this is to say, stop doing things based upon some reaction you think it will get from a female... don't sit around talking about, "I'll disagree with her because women like men that disagree wit them. I'll talk mean to her because women like mean men." That's why guys end up so confused. They aren't doing their own thing and letting the woman fit in. They are accommodating the woman by morphing in to the man they think she'd like. Ultimately, a woman will be a lot more likely to stick around with a guy who isn't catering or accommodating her, but with a dude that is doing his own thing and she likes how he moves.
Rocket Scientist
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When a woman says "she is a piece of work" etc RUN
Rocket Scientist
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Alot of cats confuse a woman who has a great job with being her a great woman,good gf.Not necessarily true.Its comparable to when these athletes/celebrities who seem squeaky clean get arrested people get shock Basically people put people on pedestals because they come off squeaky clean,has a great job,look clean cut. That same woman you put on a pedestal can do a 360.Of course if you wanna eat,pay bills you gotta work and put on a work personality.However once your day is over the real you will come out. A woman's job shouldnt matter,if we as MEN are gonna be the ones providing,leading,being the breadwinner.What we would need is a woman who will respect our role as that.Im not sayin a woman who has a great job is an automatic bad gf,im sayin cats crack me up when they say "She is smart and has a good job" but to go deeper we gotta realize majority of women have degrees,book smarts but when it comes to common sense SOME may be lacking.
Reality
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you are in need of radical intervention, lol. let us respond to her texts for you.
you are in need of radical intervention, lol. let us respond to her texts for you.
what would you guys say
its 10:30. just left happy hour. got one number.
whatever. why u nikka be scared idk. these hoes are more scared to be social
whatever. why u nikka be scared idk. these hoes are more scared to be social
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You was drunk nikka
Reality
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What'd she last text you and when?
Great time at happy hour in the A.
Too many newbies. I love how many Black folks can get together but theres always the pretty young girl with the wack personality. If I've learned anything about myself its that I NEED PERSONALITY. I was sittin next to this chick in our booth and she was too shy. I'm new to Atlanta too but I'm outgoing.
Tonight was a success. Nobody above a 7/10 so its was chill. Couldve got a number but she was too square for me and she had some lint in her hair that I couldnt pull out the entire night.
Too many newbies. I love how many Black folks can get together but theres always the pretty young girl with the wack personality. If I've learned anything about myself its that I NEED PERSONALITY. I was sittin next to this chick in our booth and she was too shy. I'm new to Atlanta too but I'm outgoing.
Tonight was a success. Nobody above a 7/10 so its was chill. Couldve got a number but she was too square for me and she had some lint in her hair that I couldnt pull out the entire night.
she invited me to come to the club with her and friends tomorrow when i get off since i wasn't able to do anything for my bday tuesdayWhat'd she last text you and when?
Reality
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i would never go w/ a bird ass chick to the club, especially w/ her flock. ignore the text. i havent read through all your posts...does she come kick it w/ you solo?
we've only kicked it one time i told her to come through to my job tomorrow to chill with me on my break but tbh i'm not a club nikka not my scene