Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Westernized plus the 7 year itch. People change and evolve all the time. I think shes just testing you like many women do. Its been 7 years, will he still check me if I'm wrong or out of place, or is he a spineless doormat now.




Shes not a bird. Shes the typical nerdy type.She was a virgin when I met her shes v quiet n reserved and shes African Shes reads and writes a lot that type . It's been 7 years and I've never heard her say such :lupe:

I wonder whose been teaching her this :lupe:
 

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And could also be a friend was going through stuff, and her dude couldn't handle it and he jetted. Years ago I was dating this broad and she hit me with the what if I became really depressed and suicidal would you stay and I'm like :wtf:, only to find out one of her friends was battling depression and suicidal thoughts and her bf at the time jetted.
 

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Only thing you can really do is let ma know you don't go for that nonsense she is pushing.
 

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Its so wonderful when a woman is interested in you. That you don't have to do anything.

I just sit back and soak up the compliments, yes I'm sweet yes I'm handsome. Yes I'm a catch, and then they can't contain themselves just have to make the convo turn sexual.
 

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Its so wonderful when a woman is interested in you. That you don't have to do anything.

I just sit back and soak up the compliments, yes I'm sweet yes I'm handsome. Yes I'm a catch, and then they can't contain themselves just have to make the convo turn sexual.

bytch told me last night...

"You have some big lips....I wonder if you know how to use them :scheme:"
 

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I've already got the, do you think its weird I think about kissing you.

Like we say breh why waste a second or a iota on a chick you gotta fight through hoops and barricades for, when the next chick is fantacizing about you.

bytch told me last night...

"You have some big lips....I wonder if you know how to use them :scheme:"
 

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Its so funny though brehs now that I'm talking to a new girl , its like my ex knows. Every day I wake up there's a text waiting. A few days ago she was outside my hOuse rang the door bell I didn't even answer.

Its crazy its like these women know when your talking to someone else.

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Yeah thats right reincars dont grow on trees.
 

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I think something a lot of cats end up looking for are some secret, mysterious techniques and rules that will all of a sudden make you super attractive to women. They are looking for mental 'ahas', as if they just learned some earth-shattering secret knowledge that now puts them ahead of other men... but when it's said and done, all of that is an illusion. It's just like working out. There are certain things you have to know, but more than anything, it's putting in the work and dieting right. There's nothing fancy or mysterious about it, but people would prefer 'secret knowledge' or some 'shortcut' because they don't want to put in work. You continue to work on yourself as a man, avoid making simp or sucka moves and keep getting out there, and the results will come... but just like working out, it's not some magical knowledge that will attract them. It's putting in the work. It's getting up and going out of the house when you usually lay down and watch television. It's getting out and going somewhere new when you would be staying at home on the weekend. It's just up and deciding to talk to the woman who you normally would have passed by. When it's said and done you got to put in the work.
 

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Brehs need some feedback. A while back I posted on moving on from my ex who cheated on me with multiple guys. Long story short, she's 21 i'm 26. I let her looks cloud the truth about her. She was saying she loved me etc. and low and behold a week or so after we break up she has someone else. Mentally that fukked with me. She's been hitting me up like once a day and i've ignored her but temptation got me and I had to check her IG one time. Huge mistake, she's seeing someone else and when she called me she told as much but she still wants us to talk and keep in contact (I view this as i'm the fallback option when she gets dogged out bc she knows I'm a catch). In a way i'm glad this happened bc the idea of us getting back together would linger in my mind. Now I have no choice but to accept that's dead. Also, it just revealed how many thirsty guys are after her. That's a headache I am glad I don't have to contend with. Like @Emperor_ReinScarf said It's crazy how logically a no good, conniving, self serving broad can treat us like shyt but those looks mixed with some fun and a good time will make us rationalize anything.

I'm not trying to sound like i'm emotionally weak. Since the break up i've been about my $, gym, upgrading myself and i've slept with multiple women. I'm a good-looking guy and I know I could be a dog who has 3-5 women at a time. Deep down I don't feel like that's me but the more I just sit back at things it feels like it's the only way.:upsetfavre:
 
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Brehs need some feedback. A while back I posted on moving on from my ex who cheated on me with multiple guys. Long story short, she's 21 i'm 26. I let her looks get away cloud the truth about her. She was was saying she loved me etc. and low and behold a week or so after we break up she has someone else. Mentally that fukked with me. She's been hitting me up like once a day and i've ignored her but temptation got me and I had to check her IG one time. Huge mistake, she's seeing someone else and when she called me she told as much but she still wants us to talk and keep in contact (I view this as i'm the fallback option when she gets dogged out bc she knows I'm a catch). Like @Emperor_ReinScarf It's crazy how logically a no good, conniving, self serving broad can treat us like shyt but those looks will make us rationalize anything.

I'm not trying to sound like i'm emotionally weak. Since the break up i've been about my $, gym and just upgrading myself. I'm a good-looking guy and I know I could be a dog who has 3-5 women at a time. Deep down I don't feel like that's me but the more I just sit back at things it feels like it's the only way.:upsetfavre:


i've been there breh trust me i've been there, and strung along for years.

Honestly the longer you go without any contact, and checking any social media the better you feel, I had to change my number, deactivated my fb, blocked my instagram to stop checking.

Yes I checked, constantly, id tell myself im strong enough i can do that, then id check and its a club pic, then id ceck and its her with a guy, but she still warms your heart evne though shes a demonic offspring of jezebel.

The best thing and the only thing to cure how you feel is to cut all contact, dont even allow her the opportunity to contact you, download a site blocker add on and block her instagram.

Trust me i went from someone checking all day, every day , to not even caring, to at the point i saw her at church a few months ago and i felt absolutely nothing.

And yes you are the fallback person, when treyvathian beats and leaves, uses her just for sex, her fake friends desert her thats when the "i was thinking of you, hey are you"

the sad thing is that you were with her for so long she knows how to push your buttons, ive gotten the "but you say you would always be there for me" type crap.

the things i recommend is cutting all contact, even if you have to change your number, stop checking twitter, instagram, facebook, googling, as the days turn to weeks and then to months you will get so much better and stop thinking.

trust me i went from thinking o the scallywag as soon as i woke up, all day at work, before i went to bed

to her just being a fleeting memory
 

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i've been there breh trust me i've been there, and strung along for years.

Honestly the longer you go without any contact, and checking any social media the better you feel, I had to change my number, deactivated my fb, blocked my instagram to stop checking.

Yes I checked, constantly, id tell myself im strong enough i can do that, then id check and its a club pic, then id ceck and its her with a guy, but she still warms your heart evne though shes a demonic offspring of jezebel.

The best thing and the only thing to cure how you feel is to cut all contact, dont even allow her the opportunity to contact you, download a site blocker add on and block her instagram.

Trust me i went from someone checking all day, every day , to not even caring, to at the point i saw her at church a few months ago and i felt absolutely nothing.

And yes you are the fallback person, when treyvathian beats and leaves, uses her just for sex, her fake friends desert her thats when the "i was thinking of you, hey are you"

the sad thing is that you were with her for so long she knows how to push your buttons, ive gotten the "but you say you would always be there for me" type crap.

the things i recommend is cutting all contact, even if you have to change your number, stop checking twitter, instagram, facebook, googling, as the days turn to weeks and then to months you will get so much better and stop thinking.

trust me i went from thinking o the scallywag as soon as i woke up, all day at work, before i went to bed

to her just being a fleeting memory

Thanks breh, Another thing is the sex was on point and that feeling you have when you know you have the baddest bytch in the room. It's shallow but mentally i'm actively judging the women I talk to now bc of the level the ex was on. Right now it feels like an 8 doesn't feel that craving I feel
 

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Thanks breh, Another thing is the sex was on point and that feeling you have when you know you have the baddest bytch in the room. It's shallow but mentally i'm actively judging the women I talk to now bc of the level the ex was on. Right now it feels like an 8 doesn't feel that craving I feel

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I went to the movies yesterday and me and the chick I went with was the only ones in there and she ain't wanna give me no head :camby:Had me pissed off chick just wanted to kiss and her p was on:to:
 
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