Brehs need some feedback. A while back I posted on moving on from my ex who cheated on me with multiple guys. Long story short, she's 21 i'm 26. I let her looks get away cloud the truth about her. She was was saying she loved me etc. and low and behold a week or so after we break up she has someone else. Mentally that fukked with me. She's been hitting me up like once a day and i've ignored her but temptation got me and I had to check her IG one time. Huge mistake, she's seeing someone else and when she called me she told as much but she still wants us to talk and keep in contact (I view this as i'm the fallback option when she gets dogged out bc she knows I'm a catch). Like
@Emperor_ReinScarf It's crazy how logically a no good, conniving, self serving broad can treat us like shyt but those looks will make us rationalize anything.
I'm not trying to sound like i'm emotionally weak. Since the break up i've been about my $, gym and just upgrading myself. I'm a good-looking guy and I know I could be a dog who has 3-5 women at a time. Deep down I don't feel like that's me but the more I just sit back at things it feels like it's the only way.
i've been there breh trust me i've been there, and strung along for years.
Honestly the longer you go without any contact, and checking any social media the better you feel, I had to change my number, deactivated my fb, blocked my instagram to stop checking.
Yes I checked, constantly, id tell myself im strong enough i can do that, then id check and its a club pic, then id ceck and its her with a guy, but she still warms your heart evne though shes a demonic offspring of jezebel.
The best thing and the only thing to cure how you feel is to cut all contact, dont even allow her the opportunity to contact you, download a site blocker add on and block her instagram.
Trust me i went from someone checking all day, every day , to not even caring, to at the point i saw her at church a few months ago and i felt absolutely nothing.
And yes you are the fallback person, when treyvathian beats and leaves, uses her just for sex, her fake friends desert her thats when the "i was thinking of you, hey are you"
the sad thing is that you were with her for so long she knows how to push your buttons, ive gotten the "but you say you would always be there for me" type crap.
the things i recommend is cutting all contact, even if you have to change your number, stop checking twitter, instagram, facebook, googling, as the days turn to weeks and then to months you will get so much better and stop thinking.
trust me i went from thinking o the scallywag as soon as i woke up, all day at work, before i went to bed
to her just being a fleeting memory