Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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So i'm actually hanging with this chick soon and were fukking my only :sadcam: part about it if i'm making the right decision about it because she's doing this behind some dude who she claims she wants to get pregnant by, by the end of the year who could kill her if he found out about it :beli:
 

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So i'm actually hanging with this chick soon and were fukking my only :sadcam: part about it if i'm making the right decision about it because she's doing this behind some dude who she claims she wants to get pregnant by, by the end of the year who could kill her if he found out about it :beli:

Hopes he kills you too...:scusthov:2 for 1 deal.....stupid and desperate ass nikka. :camby:
 

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Have to kill it, you have her on a pedestal at the moment.

Im telling you every time you stay in contact, see her it will revert you back to step one.

I remember going a month no contact thinking I'm fine and all that checking her fb and then feeling like crap after. It takes time there will be good days and bad but you can do it.

And when you finally do it and you're finally healed its the best feeling in the world. You'll never be afraid to walk away from anyone again or any situation when you are mistreated regardless of how she looks or how great the sex was.

Thanks breh, Another thing is the sex was on point and that feeling you have when you know you have the baddest bytch in the room. It's shallow but mentally i'm actively judging the women I talk to now bc of the level the ex was on. Right now it feels like an 8 doesn't feel that craving I feel
 

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Why do you like drama so much breh?



So i'm actually hanging with this chick soon and were fukking my only :sadcam: part about it if i'm making the right decision about it because she's doing this behind some dude who she claims she wants to get pregnant by, by the end of the year who could kill her if he found out about it :beli:
 

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I think something a lot of cats end up looking for are some secret, mysterious techniques and rules that will all of a sudden make you super attractive to women. They are looking for mental 'ahas', as if they just learned some earth-shattering secret knowledge that now puts them ahead of other men... but when it's said and done, all of that is an illusion. It's just like working out. There are certain things you have to know, but more than anything, it's putting in the work and dieting right. There's nothing fancy or mysterious about it, but people would prefer 'secret knowledge' or some 'shortcut' because they don't want to put in work. You continue to work on yourself as a man, avoid making simp or sucka moves and keep getting out there, and the results will come... but just like working out, it's not some magical knowledge that will attract them. It's putting in the work. It's getting up and going out of the house when you usually lay down and watch television. It's getting out and going somewhere new when you would be staying at home on the weekend. It's just up and deciding to talk to the woman who you normally would have passed by. When it's said and done you got to put in the work.

Thats the key, most cats are not confident/bold enough to approach these women. Sometimes we men have to take personal responsibility and work on our weaknesses. Its not in a woman's nature to approach a dude, its our nature as man.
 

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Why do you like drama so much breh?
I honestly just want to hang with the chick by no means am i looking to fukk the chick...that whole aspect of her even entertaining the fact of us fukking was unfortunately a horny convo. between us :beli:so what can you do when you're in "the moment" during text messages i will admit(and i told her this too) i've been 2nd guessing if want to do that or not unfortunately this chick's mind is so flawed(mind you she's in college) she doesn't see it that way she just see's it as another hoe deed to carry out
 

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I just don't have time for drama and games. If you want to smash let your intentions known, if you want to date and get to know her let her know. If you just want to be friends well then be friends. Once you realize early on what you want let your intentions be known if that's not what she wants then save yourself the trouble and get out early.

I'm almost 29, I'm not wasting another day or thought on a female that adds drama or insecurity to my life

I honestly just want to hang with the chick by no means am i looking to fukk the chick...that whole aspect of her even entertaining the fact of us fukking was unfortunately a horny convo. between us :beli:so what can you do when you're in "the moment" during text messages i will admit(and i told her this too) i've been 2nd guessing if want to do that or not unfortunately this chick's mind is so flawed(mind you she's in college) she doesn't see it that way she just see's it as another hoe deed to carry out
 

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I just don't have time for drama and games. If you want to smash let your intentions known, if you want to date and get to know her let her know. If you just want to be friends well then be friends. Once you realize early on what you want let your intentions be known if that's not what she wants then save yourself the trouble and get out early.

I'm almost 29, I'm not wasting another day or thought on a female that adds drama or insecurity to my life
breh if i do end up fukking her(which lowkey i probably will) i'll just keep my distance and still talk to her on a friend basis(she told me not to get attached) I think we can all agree in this thread that no dude wants to fool with a chick who's in college and says "i'm going to try and get pregnant by the end of the year and i've found the perfect person to do it" and that person ain't me sooo i'm getting out of dodge quick when/if I do what i need to do
 

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:russ: gotta just whip it out breh and be like... "you aint gonna suck dis dikk?"
That prolly would of helped but I was kissing her like can I get a lil head? She was like nope it's been awkward since. She gave me the nerve of this nikka attitude. It's a wrap for us tho I hit it once and she been tripping since cause I don't wanna be her man
She one of those hoes with pride I know she a hoe she know she a hoe but be fighting her hoeness
 
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