Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Yep all about status to them.

It's all about can he provide for me?

I could care less what a woman does unless its legal and not selling her body. Or asking me for money.

Another thing my brothas I notice more and more these days women asking the ? "what do you do" .Now more then ever Status is becoming too important to women.Whenever a woman ask me that I use to them and give them an answer which they wouldnt expect.The looks on their face are priceless. Then I would give them my card and all of a sudden they would go (not sayin im a big time baller or anything) lol Im basically saying this.Alot of women will like you for you and alot will like you because of your bragging potential. We all know women talk,but women love to brag about men who have big time jobs and status (frats,social clubs,military etc) you guys can dispute this but this is truth.Be on lookout for one of the first things out of a womans mouth "what do you do"

 

[DaRealness]

Another thing my brothas I notice more and more these days women asking the ? "what do you do" .Now more then ever Status is becoming too important to women.Whenever a woman ask me that I use to them and give them an answer which they wouldnt expect.The looks on their face are priceless. Then I would give them my card and all of a sudden they would go (not sayin im a big time baller or anything) lol Im basically saying this.Alot of women will like you for you and alot will like you because of your bragging potential. We all know women talk,but women love to brag about men who have big time jobs and status (frats,social clubs,military etc) you guys can dispute this but this is truth.Be on lookout for one of the first things out of a womans mouth "what do you do"

Say you're a street cleaner or you work in McDonalds lol and see how they react.

 

[kevm3]

The rule I'm finding is if women don't like you for WHO you are, then you will lose, because they will like you for what you can DO for them. The same girl you have to take out to dinner or make promises to get some of her time is eager to rush out and deal with another man without him having to run elaborate routines or drop a time. If you are dealing with a woman and you're on that 'provider' side of the coin, you better snap out of it and keep it pushing. If she's not willing to deal with you just to be with your company, keep it pushing.

That simp crime thread is a perfect example of that. Some guys did some crazy things for these females and got left. If you got to come out of pocket, you are on the losing end of the equation.

 

[hood b. goode]

 

[Beerus]

Im on a mean losing dry spell streak
Got denied again today
Im on some 0-16 lions shyt b
fukk

 

[Grams]

Im on a mean losing dry spell streak
Got denied again today
Im on some 0-16 lions shyt b
fukk

Same fam.


Bu bu bu confidence

 

[360dagod]

Im on a mean losing dry spell streak
Got denied again today
Im on some 0-16 lions shyt b
fukk

How you Approach them?

 

[MikelArteta]

Im on a mean losing dry spell streak
Got denied again today
Im on some 0-16 lions shyt b
fukk

keep swinging one will bite

 

[Shadow King]

Brehs I feel like at my age my inexperience is biting me in the ass. It's always been a hindrance but now I feel it more than ever.

 

[TheArchitect]

Brehs I feel like at my age my inexperience is biting me in the ass. It's always been a hindrance but now I feel it more than ever.

Same thing with me....I'm 30 going on 31, and I've only fukked with 4 females and been in one relationship that can be considered "serious"...I've honestly never even fukked or dated anyone I really was interested in. I always winded up getting rejected, or shyt just didn't work out. The few females I did wind up fukking with weren't ever anything to write home about. I've always walked away disappointed like "Is that what I jumped through all these hoops for? Wtf...." It's kind of a weird feeling, like I've been missing out on a whole lot......

 

[Shadow King]

Same thing with me....I'm 30 going on 31, and I've only fukked with 4 females and been in one relationship that can be considered "serious"...I've honestly never even fukked or dated anyone I really was interested in. I always winded up getting rejected, or shyt just didn't work out. The few females I did wind up fukking with weren't ever anything to write home about. I've always walked away disappointed like "Is that what I jumped through all these hoops for? Wtf...." It's kind of a weird feeling, like I've been missing out on a whole lot......

Word I was always too shy to go after girls randomly, and even ones in proximity/association with others I knew throughout high school.

Now that I truly understands females' bullshyt is why I never really had one (I take some responsibility for being scared but I used to try and figure out what was wrong with me in order to never get p*ssy/a steady girl), I got some balls to maybe approach a girl but I'm so cynical now I don't even bother. And girls I could try to talk to through whose friends of a friend, I don't think I can really relate/converse with them cause I haven't been in any real situations.

I'm going on 21 this summer so I got time and I'm trying to make myself a solid man first as suggested always in and outside this thread but I just feel like at damn near 21 I'm too far behind the curb to not be fukked up the day I can actually pull women on some level.

 

[Beerus]

How you Approach them?

Well this chick got her number last wednesday texted like twice(not on the same day) to make jokes and build attention, in the meanwhile spoke with her on saturday and today.
So today I'm like so what u doing this weekend? she' like im working, so i'm like what bout sat night?
her: got a fam dinner
so im like iight cool
then I hit her with well wednesday dont make no plans
she's all like well im working im only working here on wednesday but im working all week at my aunt's work cuz she's going to spain or some shyt like that

Then I was like damn yo I can't even take you out
Then she hits me with the but I got a boyfriend

So i'm like (in my head i ain't show none of this on the outside)..... iight then cool its all good then
and then she goes back to and im working all week man


so yeah with that she should've told me she had a nikka the minute I told her about dont make no plans for wednesday. prob wont even try to talk to her again she in the bushes

Messed up thing is she was all touchy touchy with a nikka last wednesday and as soon as I sat next to her at work she turns next to me and tells me Hi when I ain't really pay her no mind at all, man this some bullshyt b. could be the fact that she 18 but man

Brehs I feel like at my age my inexperience is biting me in the ass. It's always been a hindrance but now I feel it more than ever.

shyt i really started to get at girls when I was 18, before that I was shy or just didn't really care and to think all the p*ssy I missed in my 2 years at that new highschool because I was still pissed about changing school.
Im 23 and man I gotta fukking work hard for this shyt and I still don't get it sometimes.
If I don't fall in my lap like some times then I fukk it up completely.
my losing Streak is mean

 

[kevm3]

It's never too late. Whatever your weakness is, you have to work on it. If you don't feel you have the social skills, go out and mingle more. In order to change losses to wins, you have to understand exactly why you are losing and then attack those elements that are making you lose vigorously.

 

[Grams]

The most demoralizing this is trying your hardest to get at a girl and she won't give you a look in but then she's wrapped around the next manz finger like it's nothing.


I remember a girl was telling me how she cried for two months after her boyfriend had to move to the other side of the country and I thought to myself how it was crazy how a guy could get a girl to love him to that point and I'd never be able to do that.

There's always that one guy a girl is always texting first, or waiting to get that text from and I've never been that guy.

Never been the "oh he's coming? let me make sure I look my best" guy or the "how come he isn't showing me any attention?" guy

Never had a girl send me texts about how she was dying to let me get up in it

KNOWN SLUTS WHO GIVE UP THE BOX TO ANY nikka I still gotta work for

I really be invisible to these bytches. This not no self-esteem shyt cuz I look in the mirror and I personally think I'm a good looking guy but if nuff gyal think I'm ugly then I just have to accept it. I don't think there's one girl who would want to date me and I'm fine with that.

@J-purp @Shadow King @TheArchitect relax yourselves, take a deep breath, and be happy you not me

 

[EnzoG]

The most demoralizing this is trying your hardest to get at a girl and she won't give you a look in but then she's wrapped around the next manz finger like it's nothing.


I remember a girl was telling me how she cried for two months after her boyfriend had to move to the other side of the country and I thought to myself how it was crazy how a guy could get a girl to love him to that point and I'd never be able to do that.

There's always that one guy a girl is always texting first, or waiting to get that text from and I've never been that guy.

Never been the "oh he's coming? let me make sure I look my best" guy or the "how come he isn't showing me any attention?" guy

Never had a girl send me texts about how she was dying to let me get up in it

KNOWN SLUTS WHO GIVE UP THE BOX TO ANY nikka I still gotta work for

I really be invisible to these bytches. This not no self-esteem shyt cuz I look in the mirror and I personally think I'm a good looking guy but if nuff gyal think I'm ugly then I just have to accept it. I don't think there's one girl who would want to date me and I'm fine with that.

@J-purp @Shadow King @TheArchitect relax yourselves, take a deep breath, and be happy you not me

I feel your pain breh