Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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the reason why it's not working for some might be that even though you understand how women "work" on an intellectual level, you still haven't bought into the mindset. your mind understands but your heart doesn't believe. you still doubt yourself. you still don't love you. you still need that woman to like you, to give you play. it's like the coyote vs road runner running passed the cliff. you understand the cartoon laws of physics and intellectually, you know that you'll be ok. but when you're running over it, you still doubt and look down so you fall.
i said it before and i'll say it again. there's two types of dudes in this shyt. There's dudes trying to keep a chick and then there's dudes trying to lose a chick. the difference is the chick with the second dude is trying to find a way to be kept, while the chick with the first dude is also trying to get with the second dude. most guys understand this but when they try to apply it, they do it as a "trick" or tactic to get the chick. so deep down they're still the first dude from my scenario...
i said it before and i'll say it again. there's two types of dudes in this shyt. There's dudes trying to keep a chick and then there's dudes trying to lose a chick. the difference is the chick with the second dude is trying to find a way to be kept, while the chick with the first dude is also trying to get with the second dude. most guys understand this but when they try to apply it, they do it as a "trick" or tactic to get the chick. so deep down they're still the first dude from my scenario...
Count your blessings name them one by one.
I've been infected with treatable stds, cheated on, lied to, a joint cc maxed. Credit in ruins, mocked, name tarnished.
Been left for a abusive ex boyfriend
, received wedding photos from a ex just to rub it in my face that she "won". Dropped out of law school to start working and saving and supporting only for my fiance at the time to have a abortion behind my back and lie to me.
So just because you may be invisible and struggling at the moment doesn't mean anything trust me.
I've been infected with treatable stds, cheated on, lied to, a joint cc maxed. Credit in ruins, mocked, name tarnished.
Been left for a abusive ex boyfriend
, received wedding photos from a ex just to rub it in my face that she "won". Dropped out of law school to start working and saving and supporting only for my fiance at the time to have a abortion behind my back and lie to me. So just because you may be invisible and struggling at the moment doesn't mean anything trust me.
Your just putting to much stock into women.
Yes many women will have that one guy no matter what he does, cheats, abuses, disappears he can pop up any time and her emotions take over .
My question is why would you concern yourself with women like these?
I used to be frustrated being the nice guy, the faithful guy listening to sob stories and seeing these women go back to the same men over and over again.
And then when I started not caring about the outcome, the sob stories just a
mentality life opened up to me.
I realized I was surrounding myself, cavorting, being around the wrong women.
Yes many women will have that one guy no matter what he does, cheats, abuses, disappears he can pop up any time and her emotions take over .
My question is why would you concern yourself with women like these?
I used to be frustrated being the nice guy, the faithful guy listening to sob stories and seeing these women go back to the same men over and over again.
And then when I started not caring about the outcome, the sob stories just a
mentality life opened up to me.I realized I was surrounding myself, cavorting, being around the wrong women.
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me and my boy were talking this morning about mutual friend of ours. he was dealing with a chick who had a kid by another dude and dude kind of went the absentee dad route. so my our boy is hanging out with her and treating her out and all what not up until a few days ago i think he was with her at her apartment and her bd came through he got the 
and bounced she texted him telling him she didn't want to lead him on or anything. my question is do yall think she abused his time?
and bounced she texted him telling him she didn't want to lead him on or anything. my question is do yall think she abused his time?
Bout to stop doing bank runs so it might be time to spit to that fine black/latina teller.
Got close and she had real bad acne. Like cystic cant cover with makeup. I passed.
Got close and she had real bad acne. Like cystic cant cover with makeup. I passed.
chief_keef_stan
lil' haitian nikka
makeup can be a bytch nikka these girls man
Yes
There is a Patrice O'Neal segment on not to be a time ho
There is a Patrice O'Neal segment on not to be a time ho
me and my boy were talking this morning about mutual friend of ours. he was dealing with a chick who had a kid by another dude and dude kind of went the absentee dad route. so my our boy is hanging out with her and treating her out and all what not up until a few days ago i think he was with her at her apartment and her bd came through he got the
The funny thing in life when you give up and no longer care Thats when they pop up.
Someone help my breh @Grams out
Best thing I can tell you is continue to go at it because the amount of women out there is still higher than the amount of rejection you will get.
I've heard it before
Grams
Grams Grands Gucci G'd Up
College. I should be FEASTING but nope. Off with my kufi
No how you look like?
No homo
First off- sems like you have ego.
Accept the fact that some femAles find you ugly and that's okay
Your job is too find out which ones like you
And if you worry about rejection
Then you will never get cooch