Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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bytch texted me Monday talking about she missed her period and is having morning sickness this week. Been over 3/4 months since I smash and I wore protection. They'll do anything for attention. :what:

pretty much if you ignore a chick, she'll try and make contact, whether its a forward email, a text just seeing how you are, or a text that has really nothing to do with you, or the I just saw something on tv and thought of you.

I just saw on the news a 5'10 black male was shot near where you work was just checking if you were ok.
 

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Homeboy was literally crying about his girl disrespecting him and saying he isn't shyt b/c he refused to pay her rent and bills. He told me he was through fukking with her. 2 days later he is back with her...:what:

Dude wanted to hit up a bar tonight and I told him I can't fukk with him no more...spineless nikkas make me sick. :beli:
 

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with experience comes wisdom :obama:
Not saying it was easy, I was a big big simp and was blindsided many times, did all the wrong things, clinged to women I shouldn't have, sacrificed over and over again and got nothing in return but pain and suffering.........but I'm so much wiser and stronger now. Out of every bad situation/ relationship just chalk it up as a learnign experience, now i know when not to waste time with a woman, if she messes up i make my exit.

I'm not totally hard on hoes, i just hold myself to a higher standard. Regardless of how hot she is, her body, income etc. she disrespects me, does something I don't like that's it. I don't fight or argue, i don't tell them they mess up, where they can apologize or what women want to do drama etc. i just withdrawal and get on with my life.

example my ex , who went clubbing and to some ex male coworker birthday party i just withdrawled and got on with my life no "closure", not allowing her to try and play the sympathy sobbing role.

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and a few days after that she messaged me that shes "done and not trying anymore" :sas2:

I didn't even reply.

fukk her.."you used to talk to me".."your not interested in speaking to me"...why it gotta be about her? :childplease:

handled like a real G bruh. :salute:

and i bet you she still hit u up after. :skip:
 

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Don't let yourself get played:



Check one of the youtube comments:


I remember a girl I was trying to smash, seen a guy that I feel she liked or was fukking introduce me and say "I call him my brother." As soon as I heard that shyt, I told dude nice to meet you, low key pressed the phone button to set off like someone was calling me, talked to that phone like some other bytch was on the line ready to give up them draws, smiled, told the girl "Yo, I gotta go." When she asked "Where you going?" I went straight into "brother/friend" mode said "You ain't going to let your brother pass up on some p*ssy, right?." The broad was surprised and the dude gave me a pound was like "That's what's up!" I bounced...

She text me 2 hours later non stop for an 1 hour saying "Call me" or "Are you home yet?" Making sure in each text she dropped her name and trying to cock block an imaginary bytch I made up. Needless to say, 3 weeks after that, I end up getting the p*ssy from this broad when I knew she wasn't trying to give it up at first. I had to play the "Options" game show that bytch she's coming off the bench.



:pachaha:

Now I personally would have taken it a step further and simply :camby: the chick altogether, but props to this dude for beating her at her own game.
 

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Don't let yourself get played:



Check one of the youtube comments:

I remember a girl I was trying to smash, seen a guy that I feel she liked or was fukking introduce me and say "I call him my brother." As soon as I heard that shyt, I told dude nice to meet you, low key pressed the phone button to set off like someone was calling me, talked to that phone like some other bytch was on the line ready to give up them draws, smiled, told the girl "Yo, I gotta go." When she asked "Where you going?" I went straight into "brother/friend" mode said "You ain't going to let your brother pass up on some p*ssy, right?." The broad was surprised and the dude gave me a pound was like "That's what's up!" I bounced...

She text me 2 hours later non stop for an 1 hour saying "Call me" or "Are you home yet?" Making sure in each text she dropped her name and trying to cock block an imaginary bytch I made up. Needless to say, 3 weeks after that, I end up getting the p*ssy from this broad when I knew she wasn't trying to give it up at first. I had to play the "Options" game show that bytch she's coming off the bench.



:pachaha:

Now I personally would have taken it a step further and simply :camby: the chick altogether, but props to this dude for beating her at her own game.

Oooooo, I SO wanna try some shyt like that one day.....
 

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Don't let yourself get played:



Check one of the youtube comments:

I remember a girl I was trying to smash, seen a guy that I feel she liked or was fukking introduce me and say "I call him my brother." As soon as I heard that shyt, I told dude nice to meet you, low key pressed the phone button to set off like someone was calling me, talked to that phone like some other bytch was on the line ready to give up them draws, smiled, told the girl "Yo, I gotta go." When she asked "Where you going?" I went straight into "brother/friend" mode said "You ain't going to let your brother pass up on some p*ssy, right?." The broad was surprised and the dude gave me a pound was like "That's what's up!" I bounced...

She text me 2 hours later non stop for an 1 hour saying "Call me" or "Are you home yet?" Making sure in each text she dropped her name and trying to cock block an imaginary bytch I made up. Needless to say, 3 weeks after that, I end up getting the p*ssy from this broad when I knew she wasn't trying to give it up at first. I had to play the "Options" game show that bytch she's coming off the bench.



:pachaha:

Now I personally would have taken it a step further and simply :camby: the chick altogether, but props to this dude for beating her at her own game.


:heh:

i said in this thread earlier forget where to fake it if you have to.

let me find that post
 

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cant find it but it was basically sort of the same thing that guy did, chicks may find you unattractive and wack, but suddenly they see you at the mall with a hot girl and your suddenly your validated.

chicks think your a loser who cant get any play they add you to facebook see hot girls liking your photos messaging you suddenly you got the juice now.
 

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edit found it

His_Excellence_Reincar said:
or do the **** if you don't have hot harlot friends, i recommended this to my boy with no game and it worked for him

create a fake fb page using a hot girls pic, use it to write on your wall

get the "whose that" are you really going to spend the day with rebecca from a chick you are talking to, she will feel special that you are spending the day with her

deep down she knows she knows shes not as hot as rebecca so she will give a blow job or intercourse to try and draw you in

lol from some other poster

Son Of God said:
One tip I could give you guys is:

When you guys go out on a date with a chick, set your phone to alarm with your ringtone at certain times.So for example,you got a date with a chick tonight from 9:00pm-12:00am.

You can set your alarm/reminder to go off at 10:05,10:45,11:12...ect.

Now when the alarm goes off pick up your phone like your expecting an important call,and pretend like your talking to someone.

So for example:

*Alarms goes of with your regular ringtone*

*You pick up phone*

You:Hello

You:Hey what's up man long time no talk.

You:Ay you,I'm pretty busy right now can I call you back

*Hang up*

By doing this, it does two things.

1.Makes it seem like your a naturally busy guy that people like

and

2.Makes her think that she's actually important enough to focus on because you told every one that called you that you're doing something important(i.e. spending time with her)

If you guys are thinking you'll get caught.YOU WON'T...unless you put your phone on speaker.lol
If you're still nervous just pick up the phone and walk a little distance away from her like you don't want her to hear what you're saying,but still close enough so that she can hear you.It and continue with the steps mentioned above.
 

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pretty much if you ignore a chick, she'll try and make contact, whether its a forward email, a text just seeing how you are, or a text that has really nothing to do with you, or the I just saw something on tv and thought of you.

I just saw on the news a 5'10 black male was shot near where you work was just checking if you were ok.

Breadcrumbs..
 

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Like I said earlier in this thread. Focusing on me was the best thing ive done in a long time. I got my money up, got my muscles back, doing things I've wanted to do like go skydiving, parasailing, etc. and im out here with the swagger of Attitude Era Dwayne Johnson. I absolutely have a less than 10% care about these broads and I must admit, I've never been happier. Now all the women who were acting funny are all up on me.

But I just got a demeanor like I wouldnt piss on them if they were on fire.
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I dont actually feel that way, Its just they come after my money and my personal happiness.

They see that and want to be apart of it. But I cant allow it. I dont have time for them and their bullshyt.


Im just enyoing life right now.


"You are who you pretend to be, so be careful who you pretend to be" - Kurt Vonnegut

In regards of belief and behavior, the cart comes before the horse. You dont feel professional until AFTER you put on that tailored suit.

Just stop thinking and start doing. If you act like you want to do better for yourself, you actually start doing better for yourself.

Its worked for me.

This :banderas:

Does not get any more correct than this.

Focus on you. Everything will fall in place! Happened to me.:smugbiden:
 

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women don't know what they in a man.
They are fickle as shyt.

Set the rules, be firm and she will follow. Deep inside women still like men to be men, they just don't want to show it because they feel you might exploit it.
 

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Another gem:

"Urban Meyer- “If it feels like you have to put in a lot of effort for her affection, it’s time to back off or move on.”

Exactly, making an effort is not rewarded thus not worth it. If she’s into you then you don’t have to make an effort. Making an effort is failure. Working is failure. Fighting for the relationship is failure. Trying is failure.

Since what she’s giving is only good in the moment then there’s no point in anything that can be called investment. Her “love” cannot be saved for a rainy day, cannot be banked for the future. There is no future with a women there is only the now. Which is why I say not worth the effort, not worth the investment. If the payoff isn’t right now then won’t be one.

A woman’s opportunistic love is not of any value to me. It is at best for entertainment purposes only. It’s ornamentation, it’s not a durable good. It is too fleeting, too fragile, and too fickle to be of any real lasting benefit. It is temporary validation and nothing more."
 

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Another gem:

"Urban Meyer- “If it feels like you have to put in a lot of effort for her affection, it’s time to back off or move on.”

Exactly, making an effort is not rewarded thus not worth it. If she’s into you then you don’t have to make an effort. Making an effort is failure. Working is failure. Fighting for the relationship is failure. Trying is failure.

Since what she’s giving is only good in the moment then there’s no point in anything that can be called investment. Her “love” cannot be saved for a rainy day, cannot be banked for the future. There is no future with a women there is only the now. Which is why I say not worth the effort, not worth the investment. If the payoff isn’t right now then won’t be one.

A woman’s opportunistic love is not of any value to me. It is at best for entertainment purposes only. It’s ornamentation, it’s not a durable good. It is too fleeting, too fragile, and too fickle to be of any real lasting benefit. It is temporary validation and nothing more."
Thats my bookie :to:
 

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pretty much if you ignore a chick, she'll try and make contact, whether its a forward email, a text just seeing how you are, or a text that has really nothing to do with you, or the I just saw something on tv and thought of you.

I just saw on the news a 5'10 black male was shot near where you work was just checking if you were ok.

I swear a chick just did this to me..Me and this chick used to be in a relationship. Long story short, we broke up but used to fukk around still. We were really close until she moved across the country to go to grad school. We still talked heavily until she hooked up with the lame insecure ass nikka. So I get a message one day saying she can no longer talk to me anymore because of her relationship. She deleted me from Facebook, instagram, etc.. Hadn't heard a peep from this chick in 2 years, no happy bday, no congrats when I received my degree, no call when family members passed. Then out of the blue I get a Facebook message saying "oh how is everything. I just saw this and it reminded me of you" I thought of a couple of replies, but in the end I ignored and blocked her.

:noah:she had some good p*ssy though
 
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