Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

I'm glad there are more people starting to get it right... Instead of moping around over some women and trying to figure out how to become the woman's circus monkey, they are going out and enjoying life and broadening their horizons, and with that, they are noticing that women are paying more attention to them while they are paying less attention to the woman. A man is getting where he needs to be mentally when he allows no disrespect or drama from women, doesn't let her call the shots and doesn't compromise. Enjoy your life and let whatever woman find a way to fit within that. YOU are the captain who chose the destination. You don't let a crew member tell you where to go or how to run the ship. Stop worrying about what lines you need to use, what secret cologne or shoes you need to wear, etc. Worry about how you're going to get your ship right in all aspects and how you're going to enjoy life.

 

[MikelArteta]

I swear a chick just did this to me..Me and this chick used to be in a relationship. Long story short, we broke up but used to fukk around still. We were really close until she moved across the country to go to grad school. We still talked heavily until she hooked up with the lame insecure ass nikka. So I get a message one day saying she can no longer talk to me anymore because of her relationship. She deleted me from Facebook, instagram, etc.. Hadn't heard a peep from this chick in 2 years, no happy bday, no congrats when I received my degree, no call when family members passed. Then out of the blue I get a Facebook message saying "oh how is everything. I just saw this and it reminded me of you" I thought of a couple of replies, but in the end I ignored and blocked her.

Spoiler

she had some good p*ssy though

probably just got dumped, or found out her man cheated, then she remembers the guy who treated her right, so let me fish if he will still talk or be interested in me

 

[kevm3]

probably just got dumped, or found out her man cheated, then she remembers the guy who treated her right, so let me fish if he will still talk or be interested in me

Yep, just got dumped and she's fishing for an emotional boost. Mami's be disappearing for weeks to years and then just pop up outta nowhere on some, "Heyyyy what's up?" You give them attention for a couple of weeks, and then she disappears again because she got her emotional rejuvenation.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yep, just got dumped and she's fishing for an emotional boost. Mami's be disappearing for weeks to years and then just pop up outta nowhere on some, "Heyyyy what's up?" You give them attention for a couple of weeks, and then she disappears again because she got her emotional rejuvenation.

yup
I remember one time a ex did this to me, she dumped me pretty sure she went back to her ex. 3 months later she sent me a message on facebook how she just had a dream about me, and wondering how's life is going. I just read it and deleted.

If there is one thing any chick i ever dated or messed it can't say about me is that I didn't treat em good. May be months, years, but when that new guy is treating you like crap a thought of me will float in your mind

 

[karim]

pretty much if you ignore a chick, she'll try and make contact, whether its a forward email, a text just seeing how you are, or a text that has really nothing to do with you, or the I just saw something on tv and thought of you.

I just saw on the news a 5'10 black male was shot near where you work was just checking if you were ok.

every chick i ever turned my back on did this
emails telling me how we had something special , texts informing me they found a new guy and thought i deserved to know , random messages trying to hang out as if nothing ever happened , forwarding me something with an added "i came across this and thought of you. how have you been?" party invites , birthday gifts , getting mutual friends to bring them along, concerned phone calls because they heard i was sick, you name it. chicks really can't deal with the fact you no longer give a fukk

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

So I know this chick that says I gotta wait 30 days to hit but I can eat her out.
How should I handle this brehs?
Is she just bullshytting and I can really smash?



@Emperor_ReinScarf

 

[Grams]

Who's moving to these Patel 7-11 bytches anyway?

 

[KinksandCoils]

i've been there breh trust me i've been there, and strung along for years.

Honestly the longer you go without any contact, and checking any social media the better you feel, I had to change my number, deactivated my fb, blocked my instagram to stop checking.

Yes I checked, constantly, id tell myself im strong enough i can do that, then id check and its a club pic, then id ceck and its her with a guy, but she still warms your heart evne though shes a demonic offspring of jezebel.

The best thing and the only thing to cure how you feel is to cut all contact, dont even allow her the opportunity to contact you, download a site blocker add on and block her instagram.

Trust me i went from someone checking all day, every day , to not even caring, to at the point i saw her at church a few months ago and i felt absolutely nothing.

And yes you are the fallback person, when treyvathian beats and leaves, uses her just for sex, her fake friends desert her thats when the "i was thinking of you, hey are you"

the sad thing is that you were with her for so long she knows how to push your buttons, ive gotten the "but you say you would always be there for me" type crap.

the things i recommend is cutting all contact, even if you have to change your number, stop checking twitter, instagram, facebook, googling, as the days turn to weeks and then to months you will get so much better and stop thinking.

trust me i went from thinking o the scallywag as soon as i woke up, all day at work, before i went to bed

to her just being a fleeting memory

Great advice. This could go for a man or a woman.

 

[MikelArteta]

So I know this chick that says I gotta wait 30 days to hit but I can eat her out.
How should I handle this brehs?
Is she just bullshytting and I can really smash?



@Emperor_ReinScarf

so she gets what she wants but you dont get what you want.

, any woman who tells you to wait and is not a virgin and the waiting is not for marriage and has a day range on it . the dude she met off pof and gave it up to on teh first night didnt have to wait

 

[TheArchitect]

So I know this chick that says I gotta wait 30 days to hit but I can eat her out.
How should I handle this brehs?
Is she just bullshytting and I can really smash?



@Emperor_ReinScarf

Don't give her another thought.

 

[Danny Up]

Eat that shyt and when she bout to cum. get up and say your jaw hurts and cut on the ball game.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Eat that shyt and when she bout to cum. get up and say your jaw hurts and cut on the ball game.

I think she bullshytting.
If she getting some oral and I up and slide my dikk in ain't no way she gone be like " take it out. we got X days left"

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

so she gets what she wants but you dont get what you want.

, any woman who tells you to wait and is not a virgin and the waiting is not for marriage and has a day range on it . the dude she met off pof and gave it up to on teh first night didnt have to wait

She already messed up and told me how she let somebody hit before 30 days cuz she was desperate and ain't had none in a while

 

[MikelArteta]

She already messed up and told me how she let somebody hit before 30 days cuz she was desperate and ain't had none in a while

Probably is more than one.

Whenever a chick tells you to wait or bla bla, it means another dude didn't have to wait and because of him not waiting and probably smashing and dashing you have to pay for his sins.