Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

it's not even like she's a bad mother or a bad person, just broken.

in many ways i feel like a failure for not being able to fix her, but at the end of the day you can't really do much for anybody unless they see they need help. latest thing happened when we went to therapy and she just walked out. mind you i'm taking a long lunch and paying a lot of of pocket to be there so it's double .

It's hard but one thing i've learned in life, you can guide someone to a waterhole but you can't make them drink. Especially women who are such emotional creatures and don't realize the things you are doing for them no one else will. I remember everything I wsent through with my 2nd love, even though she tried and destroyed me she was just a depressed individual who never got over being molested, i did my best but shrugs. That was the chick who kept stringing me along for nearly 5 years till i said no mas, my life is so smooth and clean now.

 

[RealAssanova]

just watching a movie that awkward moment, michael b jordan character is a dr, whose married. A faithful husband making mad coin, only his wife is cheating on him.

dude does everything he can to win her back, then he finds out she still is sleeping with the other dude and she drops she doesnt love him anymore

get married brehs

saw that movie...all i kept thinkin of was this thread

but man, jordan....

 

[Jahmal]

Deleted this one chick's number after became crazy and immature...now she texting me again. "What are you doing tonight? I want to talk to you."
This is like chick #3 that has become desperate....attractive girl too.

dont just delete...block the number as well!

 

[MikelArteta]

saw that movie...all i kept thinkin of was this thread

but man, jordan....

dude was like many simps out there, just cant cut the cord, dude even did the whole I did everything, i loved you, went to school go ta good job still wasnt good enough.

everytime i see stuff like this just reminds me of crazy marriage can be, you can do it all, be a dr, lawyer, handsome no homo, in shape, be a provider and it still aint good enough if som emorris chesnut looking dude is in her grill

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

took a little break from here to take care of myself and was doing great until just the other day. child's mother just wild disrespectful at this point and i needed a tariq lesson and some meditation just to keep calm. so demonic out here brehs

I know that feel

I keep my bm interaction to a minimum

 

[TrapHouse Rock]

Man, when things go well, it seems like you have everything in common, and things flow smoothly, you probably aren't too far from friend zone. It's weird, but it's like that. The vibe I get from when women like me is that they are annoying... as in they always want to spend time and all of that. The vibe I get when it's headed towards her going distant soon is when we have those general conversations, everything is agreeable and pleasant, but she is never really overly emotionally affected.

All you can do is chalk it up. NEVER get into the mindset of what should I have done or what could I do to keep her around. If mami doesn't want to stick around, let her keep it pushing and get to mashing at another woman. You never want to put yourself in a position mentally where you are changing your behavior around to appease a woman and keep her around. You'll end up in sucker territory then.

 

[Malikthegod]

How come you're weak if you don't put up with a woman's bad attitude?

 

[FukyourFort]

shaming tactic

 

[karim]

One of my boys had his head all messed up last night because a girl he's been getting close was going out with her girlfriends and said that she needed to look good for any potential guys they might meet right in front of him. I had to tell him to keep his head up and let it slide because if the feeling was really mutual between them, then other guys would have been the last thing on her mind. He seemed to cheer up a bit after he saw my POV but I could tell it was still bugging him.

I found it funny how a girl could have an in-depth, intimate conversation with a guy in one instance, then talk about looking good for other guys right in front of him in another when it's clear that the guy has feelings for them.

i hate this type of broad. he needs to give her theand just disappear from her life completely. nine times out of ten she will go into mode once she realizes he withdrew his attention.

 

[The ADD]

One of my boys had his head all messed up last night because a girl he's been getting close was going out with her girlfriends and said that she needed to look good for any potential guys they might meet right in front of him. I had to tell him to keep his head up and let it slide because if the feeling was really mutual between them, then other guys would have been the last thing on her mind. He seemed to cheer up a bit after he saw my POV but I could tell it was still bugging him.

I found it funny how a girl could have an in-depth, intimate conversation with a guy in one instance, then talk about looking good for other guys right in front of him in another when it's clear that the guy has feelings for them.

Sounds like he never made it clear he was trying to be with her in some form. That's on him

Passive aggressive doesn't work in man-woman relationships

 

[EA]

i hate this type of broad. he needs to give her theand just disappear from her life completely. nine times out of ten she will go into mode once she realizes he withdrew his attention.

This is exactly what I was saying to him. She's seems like the kind of girl that gets off on male attention so if he decides to take a step back, I wouldn't be surprised if she began being the pursuer. I'm gonna see him and the chick tomorrow night so it'll be interesting to see how things have developed since Saturday.

On an unrelated note, I love being single and focusing on doing things I want to do. It's fun watching the people around you lose their heads whilst you're just chilling . This time last year, I was in a serious but demanding relationship and I'm so glad I don't have those stresses anymore.

 

[karim]

This is exactly what I was saying to him. She's seems like the kind of girl that gets off on male attention so if he decides to take a step back, I wouldn't be surprised if she began being the pursuer. I'm gonna see him and the chick tomorrow night so it'll be interesting to see how things have developed since Saturday.

On an unrelated note, I love being single and focusing on doing things I want to do. It's fun watching the people around you lose their heads whilst you're just chilling . This time last year, I was in a serious but demanding relationship and I'm so glad I don't have those stresses anymore.

we've all been there, but you should really tell him to stop messing with her.

 

[Shameonyou]

it should be at a point where a womans company should mean absolutely nothing to you because you have so much shyt to think about in your daily life than connecting emotionally with some random THOT

 

[kevm3]

Yep. When you're handling your own business and you're doing what you're supposed to do, women come as a benefit. You will also have confidence and you'll have plenty to talk about. Why? Because you are DOING plenty of things with your life. If one woman doesn't act right? No big deal because your life is so fulfilling you have so much other stuff going on and you know there are a lot of other women who want to experience what you are doing.

 

[Jesus]

Went 0/2 on talking to chicks this weekend, but I'm proud that I still got it...no fear.