Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Rocket Scientist]

I tell you bruhs....if you have an attitude of you will accomplish more when it comes to women,dating. If you walk around like talking to every pretty woman your gonna be disappointed. If you ever notice tv shows and how the wife always mentions to the husband about their anniversary. The husband is more and practically doesnt care.The woman knows this and doesnt flip,When women see you not stress about anything they seem to respect/love you more.When your worryin like they are and acting overly emotional thats when you get place in a certain zone.

 

[kevm3]

Something you need to do as a man is list all of your weaknesses and then write a plan on how you will work on them one by one and work on them. In this day and age, people want some magic pill to success, when in reality you need to take your time and work from the inside out. Is your dress code wack? Your conversation lacking? You have no leadership skills? Attack those weaknesses directly and focus on them until they become strengths. A lot of you hear all of this about women loving confidence, and yes, it's true... but you wont' get REAL confidence until you work on yourself and you get to a point to where you can look in the mirror and see a man who overcame countless obstacles and weaknesses. When you work on yourself, rewards such as the attention of women, come with the territory. When you look sharp, smell right, have your funds right, you're doing something with your life and you can talk right, then women will make things MUCH easier for you. It comes down to priorities. You'll also get at women easier because you'll feel much more valuable and you'll also be rewarded before even saying a word to them with their smiles and their constant eyeing you.

 

[DaRealness]

One of my boys had his head all messed up last night because a girl he's been getting close was going out with her girlfriends and said that she needed to look good for any potential guys they might meet right in front of him. I had to tell him to keep his head up and let it slide because if the feeling was really mutual between them, then other guys would have been the last thing on her mind. He seemed to cheer up a bit after he saw my POV but I could tell it was still bugging him.

I found it funny how a girl could have an in-depth, intimate conversation with a guy in one instance, then talk about looking good for other guys right in front of him in another when it's clear that the guy has feelings for them.

I can't stand girls like this, because they know damn well what they're doing. Dudes have to share the blame even more cos it's like man nowadays is as soft as freshly baked bread.

Stop having these intimate conversations with these women who aren't related to you or not in a relationship with....and for goodness sake, stop caring. Big man should have things to do with his time. Granted, I've been there myself in the past, but it's all a learning curve.

This business about giving attention whores what they crave needs to stop. I can sniff them out from miles away and deliberately don't give them the time of day - not as some kind of ploy, but because I value my time and who I give it to and don't care for this kiddy nonsense. I genuinely don't give a fukk and one of my cousin's female friends tried that shyt the other day and I just cut that shyt straight before she even got the chance. You want someone to chase you, go call Wiley Coyote. I'm a grown ass man who deals with grown ass people.

 

[DaRealness]

Another thing, try making more strong male friends (definitely no homo) who are wise and possess leadership qualities and traits so you can be around that masculine energy and get wisdom from. When I speak to a lot of older heads like my dad's friends for instance, this crying and feening for female attention never even came into their reality. These moist dudes would have been clowned to Bolivia back in the 70s with some of this shyt they go on with nowadays.

 

[MikelArteta]

To many women it's always a game, they never want that attention to stop, they always want something better. You could give then a nfler, they'd want a dude in the NBA.

Dude says anything flip will be script how he's jealous and controlling and insecure

This is why I'd just walk away cease all contact and next, to many men take disrespect. I don't even argue or point out what chicks do anymore, I'm not marking their tests and leaving comments.

Secondly many men have to realize hypergamy, read about it , study it !!

This is exactly what I was saying to him. She's seems like the kind of girl that gets off on male attention so if he decides to take a step back, I wouldn't be surprised if she began being the pursuer. I'm gonna see him and the chick tomorrow night so it'll be interesting to see how things have developed since Saturday.

On an unrelated note, I love being single and focusing on doing things I want to do. It's fun watching the people around you lose their heads whilst you're just chilling . This time last year, I was in a serious but demanding relationship and I'm so glad I don't have those stresses anymore.

 

[Nintendough]

One of my boys had his head all messed up last night because a girl he's been getting close was going out with her girlfriends and said that she needed to look good for any potential guys they might meet right in front of him. I had to tell him to keep his head up and let it slide because if the feeling was really mutual between them, then other guys would have been the last thing on her mind. He seemed to cheer up a bit after he saw my POV but I could tell it was still bugging him.

I found it funny how a girl could have an in-depth, intimate conversation with a guy in one instance, then talk about looking good for other guys right in front of him in another when it's clear that the guy has feelings for them.

He is about to get trapped in that quicksand....save him before its too late.

 

[EA]

Another thing, try making more strong male friends (definitely no homo) who are wise and possess leadership qualities and traits so you can be around that masculine energy and get wisdom from. When I speak to a lot of older heads like my dad's friends for instance, this crying and feening for female attention never even came into their reality. These moist dudes would have been clowned to Bolivia back in the 70s with some of this shyt they go on with nowadays.

This so true. I've realised that a lot of guys nowadays put up with a lot shyt from girls because they're afraid of the prospect of not getting any. I keep telling my boys that there's more to life than selling ourselves short in order to secure sex but I feel like I'm talking to myself most of the time.

He is about to get trapped in that quicksand....save him before its too late.

I'm seeing him in later on tonight so I'll see what the update is. I hope he took my advice.

 

[RealAssanova]

This so true. I've realised that a lot of guys nowadays put up with a lot shyt from girls because they're afraid of the prospect of not getting any. I keep telling my boys that there's more to life than selling ourselves short in order to secure sex but I feel like I'm talking to myself most of the time.


I'm seeing him in later on tonight so I'll see what the update is. I hope he took my advice.

you most likely are in regards to the former. I've realized this and that is why i don't give advice to nikkaz cuz i know its gonna fall on deaf ears.

all nikkaz do is justify shyt...sounding like females and shyt. Part of me thinks its ego but the other part thinks these nikkaz ain't got an ounce of testosterone in em.

all i can say is just do you breh. Advise em once, and do your own thing. Don't watch or care about what others do. Don't rely on others either. If you can stand on your own 2 feet like a dude that commands respect and authority with just his body language, then nikka you gucci.

@DaRealness masculine nikkaz we can surround ourselves with are in shorty supply these days. That is why i just do me and help out my closest nikkaz who truly listen to me. Others...

 

[OaklandCertified]

I went out on a date with this chick the other day. Now, everything was cool until she started telling me about her ex-boyfriend. Long story short the nikka was a bum and had her doing bum shyt too. Nikka didn't have a job, never took her out on dates, all they did was fukk. After she told me that, I felt like this bytch was beneath me. You can't go from fukking with a scrub to fukking with a man with his shyt together. Her putting up with that shyt until he dumped her made me despise her. No call back for you bytch.

 

[MikelArteta]

yep
give a breh good advice

he , you know your right

breh does the opposite, but she loves me still b, you duno how i feel about her.

you most likely are in regards to the former. I've realized this and that is why i don't give advice to nikkaz cuz i know its gonna fall on deaf ears.

all nikkaz do is justify shyt...sounding like females and shyt. Part of me thinks its ego but the other part thinks these nikkaz ain't got an ounce of testosterone in em.

all i can say is just do you breh. Advise em once, and do your own thing. Don't watch or care about what others do. Don't rely on others either. If you can stand on your own 2 feet like a dude that commands respect and authority with just his body language, then nikka you gucci.

@DaRealness masculine nikkaz we can surround ourselves with are in shorty supply these days. That is why i just do me and help out my closest nikkaz who truly listen to me. Others...

 

[MikelArteta]

I went out on a date with this chick the other day. Now, everything was cool until she started telling me about her ex-boyfriend. Long story short the nikka was a bum and had her doing bum shyt too. Nikka didn't have a job, never took her out on dates, all they did was fukk. After she told me that, I felt like this bytch was beneath me. You can't go from fukking with a scrub to fukking with a man with his shyt together. Her putting up with that shyt until he dumped her made me despise her. No call back for you bytch.

also when a woman talks about her ex boyfriend that quickly like that, she still ain't over him, if that bum wanted her back tomorrow she'd be opening her legs again.

 

[kevm3]

you most likely are in regards to the former. I've realized this and that is why i don't give advice to nikkaz cuz i know its gonna fall on deaf ears.

all nikkaz do is justify shyt...sounding like females and shyt. Part of me thinks its ego but the other part thinks these nikkaz ain't got an ounce of testosterone in em.

all i can say is just do you breh. Advise em once, and do your own thing. Don't watch or care about what others do. Don't rely on others either. If you can stand on your own 2 feet like a dude that commands respect and authority with just his body language, then nikka you gucci.

@DaRealness masculine nikkaz we can surround ourselves with are in shorty supply these days. That is why i just do me and help out my closest nikkaz who truly listen to me. Others...

Pretty much. Sitting around arguing with simps is a waste of time. Let a brother know one time and if he wants to continue down the path of self destruction, that's on him. You get out here trying to rescue these simps and they'll turn on you.

Pretty much. You can only tell some people some things.

 

[MikelArteta]

Pretty much. Sitting around arguing with simps is a waste of time. Let a brother know one time and if he wants to continue down the path of self destruction, that's on him. You get out here trying to rescue these simps and they'll turn on you.

Pretty much. You can only tell some people some things.

even the bible says

And if anyone will not receive you or listen to your words, shake off the dust from your feet when you leave that house or town.

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

This chick wants to fukk. Lets cut to the chase.
I hit with the "we got 1 or 2 options, you're choice". "We can go to the bar for drinks and have the same experience we had at the club"

or.. wait for it..

"we can enjoy ourselves at my place wit drinks music and no interruptions. Whatever youre more comfortable with"

Watch me work..

 

[OaklandCertified]

This chick wants to fukk. Lets cut to the chase.
I hit with the "we got 1 or 2 options, you're choice". "We can go to the bar for drinks and have the same experience we had at the club"

or.. wait for it..

"we can enjoy ourselves at my place wit drinks music and no interruptions. Whatever youre more comfortable with"

Watch me work..

Win/Win situation...