Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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What if you don't want people knowing your business?


There's ways to post discretely....like not showing your GF/women....Just post pics of you having fun while showing very little of your life. Think about it like that Beyonce documentary on HBO. She controlled what she showed us while really showing very little.
 

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:mjlol: @ cats takin speech classes to get women. Lol just fukkn with ya. But on the real breh, I guarantee that you don't need that shyt. How old are you?? Have you lived a boring, non-eventful life?? Have you travelled?? Have you been in any interesting situations good or bad?? What are you interested in that you can get in-depth with when talking about it?? What makes you happy?? What pisses you off?? What are your dreams,goals and aspirations?? I ask these questions because most conversations revolve around these things. If you've led a boring life then you will have nothing to talk about:yeshrug:. Simple as that. It's not that you CANT talk to women it might be that you have nothing to talk about:sadcam:. This is where "working on yourself" comes into play. Meaning live life. Learn new skills. Travel. Do things you've never done before. Gain new experiences that you can talk about. BECOME AN INTERESTING PERSON!!!! Now log off The Coli, go out, get into a bar fight and spend a night in jail. Now you got an interesting story to talk about:obama:
This is my biggest thing as far as talking goes.
 

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To my brehs with the urge to hit up or text that old flame you haven't spoken to in a while, remind yourself of the reason why you haven't spoken to her. If you can help it, remove that number from your phone.

:myman:

I wish most men would realize that. Once its over with a ex, whether i'm done or we go our seperate ways, i'm done.

I used to be that guy who remained friends, that guy who kept them on facebook, that guy who hoped deep down inside for another chance whether at dating, sex etc. now :camby:, Why waste your time on a chick whose not into you? why waste a minute or a second on a chick you messed with in the past, when there are TONS AND TONS AND TONS AND TONS of women out there who are dying for a shot with you?
 

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To my brehs with the urge to hit up or text that old flame you haven't spoken to in a while, remind yourself of the reason why you haven't spoken to her. If you can help it, remove that number from your phone.
I'm in this exact situation right now. Chick I cut off earlier this year. The fact that I never hit is the biggest reason I get tempted to hit her up at times. That ass too :ohlawd:
 

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To my brehs with the urge to hit up or text that old flame you haven't spoken to in a while, remind yourself of the reason why you haven't spoken to her. If you can help it, remove that number from your phone.
I'm in this exact situation right now. Chick I cut off earlier this year. The fact that I never hit is the biggest reason I get tempted to hit her up at times. That ass too :ohlawd:
 

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Use Instagram to your advantage. My instagram is full of pics of me traveling, dining at fine restaurants, enjoying new activities and chillin with interesting people. I give evert new chick I meet my instrgram and once they see the pics of my fun filled life they want to be a part of it.

This.

You gotta also keep one GOOD gym selfie just to spark the interest of a chic so she knows you take care of yourself. fukk it, you'd might as well use social networks to your advantage
 

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:myman:

I wish most men would realize that. Once its over with a ex, whether i'm done or we go our seperate ways, i'm done.

I used to be that guy who remained friends, that guy who kept them on facebook, that guy who hoped deep down inside for another chance whether at dating, sex etc. now :camby:, Why waste your time on a chick whose not into you? why waste a minute or a second on a chick you messed with in the past, when there are TONS AND TONS AND TONS AND TONS of women out there who are dying for a shot with you?

the accuracy of this :wow:
 

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:russ: but i figured i'd take a BS class for summer school since i couldn't get into the class i wanted to i'm 23 btw. I just figured it would help with my confidence because i'm a soft spoken person and don't really talk much but i've been going out to parties and been doing a bit of mingling with people so that helps :smugbiden:. but yeah i've been wanting to work on me for the longest because there are some things i need to work on.


Take the class... not to learn how to 'spit game at broads', but more because you've identified a weakness in yourself, which is not being as outspoken as you need to be. Life is about way more than pulling women, and as a man, if you see a weakness in yourself, approach it directly. the side benefit is that you will also be more successful with women due to your increased conversational skills.
 

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So how do you let a girl know that you're concerned of her hygiene? I never noticed it was like this until I had her over my place but she was over my place and we were fukking every day Fr-Sun. She only took one shower, while I took a shower and brushed my teeth every night. I'm not even sure she brushed her teeth. And what is even more mind boggling to me is that she took a shower but that strange smell of moth balls was still on her. She's a real nice girl but what the fukk is with this smell I don't think I can deal with it.
 

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So how do you let a girl know that you're concerned of her hygiene? I never noticed it was like this until I had her over my place but she was over my place and we were fukking every day Fr-Sun. She only took one shower, while I took a shower and brushed my teeth every night. I'm not even sure she brushed her teeth. And what is even more mind boggling to me is that she took a shower but that strange smell of moth balls was still on her. She's a real nice girl but what the fukk is with this smell I don't think I can deal with it.
there's a girl who i work with who's a nice chick but has a weird strange smell so i know your pain
 
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