Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Doin2Much Williams

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i did the same for vancouver
going there in a week

lets jsut say

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funny thing my tinder in my city dried up dont evne get matches anymore, whenever i put myself anywhere else it flows like the river nile :sadbron:


Im in richmond this very second...

... The women here are really on a different plane, breah.


Mindblowing quality,


That international level steez.


:ohlawd:



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Im in richmond this very second...

... The women here are really on a different plane, breah.


Mindblowing quality,


That international level steez.


:ohlawd:



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damn breh your cdn?

ill be in the north (vancouver)

all my tinder matches, already got a few breezies ill be meeting up with :prince:

cant wait
 

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damn breh your cdn?

ill be in the north (vancouver)

all my tinder matches, already got a few breezies ill be meeting up with :prince:

cant wait

Naw... Im a yank. Just came up here for the richmond night market with the gal im trying to sever ties with. Its ironic i know.

Otherwise, its a balmy 75 degrees and the sun still hasnt set yet (its basically 9 pm).

Canadian border patrol some jerks. Dude was invasive as fukk with the inquiries; the typical stuff... Then, what i did for living, what kind of car i drove, the relationship between me and my lady friend... Im sure it was all drug related shiit,,, but i could have told him i fukked horses and trafficked 80s porno videos.


Fukk him. Lol
 

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Got denied a few weekends back(she told me she was seeing someone when I asked her out)... and it still got me feeling some kind of way cuz I'm still sitting next to the girl at work.............. Its not like awkward like when I used to ask other chicks she still acts the same and stuff but man that shyt hurts a nikka in the friend zone and it fukking sucks.......... like a knife being put through a cut like fukk I want to get away from her but then again she's cool to speak with and I ain't that talktative to a lot of other people at work cuz fukk em thats why
a fukkin mami too brehs :to:
This L streak is fukking disgusting b
 

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Got denied a few weekends back(she told me she was seeing someone when I asked her out)... and it still got me feeling some kind of way cuz I'm still sitting next to the girl at work.............. Its not like awkward like when I used to ask other chicks she still acts the same and stuff but man that shyt hurts a nikka in the friend zone and it fukking sucks.......... like a knife being put through a cut like fukk I want to get away from her but then again she's cool to speak with and I ain't that talktative to a lot of other people at work cuz fukk em thats why
a fukkin mami too brehs :to:
This L streak is fukking disgusting b

But ill tell u what tho, broham...

You must not, by any circumstances... Allow her to gain any sense that her actions have affected u in any form, shape or way... All day.

Its imperative that you are as ambivalent to all this as she...

And ima tell u how you're gonna prevail in this situation... Cuz if youve paid any attention to my last few posts, you'll understand that im not too far a cabin on this proverbial love train

If you want nothing to do with this woman. Stop here and disregard this message.

You wanna gain access to her vaj?


Come follow me now...

Now what you do is actually, totally against your normal social r
 

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Routine...

What you actually do is engage in more random convo with the chicks in the vicinity. Why this will work?

She understands completely that u feel some kind of way for her. That part of the equation is factual. But what youre capable of doing is creating the "cat and string theory". Now u pull urself from your dynamic with her (albeit still playing it cool), yet... Manifesting this image that YOU are the prize in the work room and that YOU are the most desirable candidate in that mothafukka.

This is where u step up ur charm factor and redeem yourself by with a technique i like to refer to as, "the distinguished and extinguished". What this method entails is making yourself more socially present in an approach that makes all those around you feel uplifted by your presence and its something your doing unique that makes you alluring (the "distinguished" factor).

While simultaneously... Not giving ANY attention to aforementioned target/female at hand ("the extinguished" aspect of it).

After several days... Weeks... Shes gonna wonder why you're such a sought after cat in the office by ur fellow peers/suborindates and how uve somehow so recentlly become the flavor of the decade... And ultimately... Why she isnt getting a slice of it.

Once she's done being intrigued by it and seeing her plate left looking more struggle than Malcolm's dinner meals... Trust - she's gonna hit the kitchen running and ask for seconds and then some.

Give it a whirl. It doesnt take much effort but an assertive tongue and and attitude of aces, stone cold cases and a heavy dousing spiritual traces of don juan graces.

And play on playa...


*sprinkles his patna j purp some charisma crack*


Ooh wee.



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Got denied a few weekends back(she told me she was seeing someone when I asked her out)... and it still got me feeling some kind of way cuz I'm still sitting next to the girl at work.............. Its not like awkward like when I used to ask other chicks she still acts the same and stuff but man that shyt hurts a nikka in the friend zone and it fukking sucks.......... like a knife being put through a cut like fukk I want to get away from her but then again she's cool to speak with and I ain't that talktative to a lot of other people at work cuz fukk em thats why
a fukkin mami too brehs :to:
This L streak is fukking disgusting b

:snoop:

Why do y'all insist on going at chicks at you place of work.....
 

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Gems Thread Patrons... My friends... My comrades... my self-improvement in love/life brethren; this is where i'm at.


So i'm still with the same lady friend (since jan 2013), and while she's cool and practically drama free (she's wifey material)... i just don't see myself with her "at the moment".


Is there a way i can say, "Can we take some time out?"... but i guess i can answer my own question... i believe i want to cut her off cuz this isn't gonna work. I can tell she wants to settle down
(at 29 she is) and start a family. But here i am, out in the streets kicking it with the fellas, hypebeasting, still have no property to my name... i'm basically philandering into my second childhood - and i don't want to waste her time anymore.


But we're so compatible.


Thing is, as much as i love her - i'm not IN love with her any more...


Here's the story...


April 2013, a customer comes to the shop asking to get her brakes replaced and oil changed. Cool. No biggie (she's actually the bosses neighbor, cuz typically - we don't mechanical shiit here, just body work). At first, i'm thinking,"Oh, another attractive woman w car woes, cool."

So we actually text back and forth, me giving her progress about her car, showing her how to send GIFs through imessage, casual ass convo. Nothing huge.

Then, arrived the day where she came by to pick up her car, we ended up talking outside the office for nearly an hour - about Bullshiit stuff. (this is more attention that i give most customers and vice versa)

Then it got to the point where i said,

"You know what? I'm the kind of shop manager that likes to get involved with the repairs we perform, perhaps sometime i i can sit in the car with you to see how the brakes perform and if there are any internal squeeks stemming from the brakes... it's my priority to guarantee our workmanship."

She said, "Yeah! That'd be a great idea. I'll let you know when we can do that. Thing is, there was a lot of sexual tension and chemistry between us. This girl has never met me before and there she is, yapping about everything, giving me the physical and verbal cues; the chick was attracted.

But nothing ultimately happened. No biggie. So I K.I.M.

(mind you, i was still dating my girl at the time but i figured after a couple months, it's not confirmed that we're in a relationship so i still flirted heavy. Not that i don't today, LOL!).



*Flash forwards 5 months later, September 2013... random text hits phone*


"Hey Howie, I need another oil change, you think you can help me?"


Long story short breaighs. We changed her oil and this time, i bluntly asked, "What are you doing this weekend?"


We ended up kickin' it.


Was the most I had in a long time...



This girl made a very strong impression on me...



So what happened?



Part Deux... on the way...


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sounds like youre having your donnell jones 'where i wanna be' moment right now breh. just knownthat no matter what you do somebody will be hurt
 

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What does it meN when a chick you spoke to before randomly hits you up and doesn't talk about nothing?

Girl: hey
You: wassup
Girl: nttn
You: :comeon:


@Emperor_ReinScarf


Means she is bored breh. shyt happens all the time. You wouldn't believe the amount of random texts and pointless convos I get. You should MMS her that :comeon: smiley so she knows you aint no chump.
 

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Means she is bored breh. shyt happens all the time. You wouldn't believe the amount of random texts and pointless convos I get. You should MMS her that :comeon: smiley so she knows you aint no chump.

This was pn tagged.
Some hoe I hit up last year aint reply to my last message then all of a sudden hmu the other day
 
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