Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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phone convo, slight texting for a couple of days just so she can pretend like she "knows" you and isn't fukking some random. if you really just want to fukk, dates really aren't necessary. but you gotta be a little more carefree though. just talk to her a little bit. then invite her over for a drink and movies at your place but say it in a way that she knows you want to fukk. you just put your bid in and pull back, no more pursuing unless she cooperates. anything other then a yes is a no. if she comes up with excuses don't try to convince her of coming over. by debating with her on whether or not she should come over, you're giving her power. make your invite and fall back. she has to feel like if she doesn't come over, someone else might take her spot and ruin all the work she put into seducing you without her reaping the rewards. which brings us to another point

you gotta let her put in work towards you. if you're doing all the seducing and pursuing, she doesn't lose anything if you throw her in the bushes. but that's a whole other post...


to recap, a few short phone and text convos, put the sex vibe in, invite for mundane stuff at your place. if you did it right, she'll know you're trying to fukk. do not debate her or try to convince her. if she says no, bushes until she comes back around.
I have no crib of my own but :ehh:
 

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Meeting this thick one at the lounge tonight. She's kinda iffy on comin back to the crib so I might put her in the friend zone and holla at other broads tonight
 

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Went out last night to "hookah bar" for first time. Worst club/venue whatever that shyt was I ever been to. I show up at like 11 and girl I'm tryin to get on there with three friends. ( I work with 3/4) One friend I'm cool with but other two mugging haarrrddd. Try to make small talk with two I'm cool with but can't hear over shytty DJ. Awkward as shyt. We all sitting at a table but can't hear each other.. They left at like 1 and my girl tell me they leaving and ask me if I'm staying. Say yeah and Ended up staying after they left and had a few drinks. I really don't like group shyt. Hit her today to see if she wanna kick it and she chilin in the country and good. Bout to say fukk it. :yeshrug: She 20 and I'm 25 and I can tell she stupid shy or uninterested.
 

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So a nikka called her today asked her out and she said yes.
Unless I gets flaked on this sunday.
I'm back baby :wow:
fukk THIS L STREAK ITS OVA NOW :pacspit:
Sorry to rain on your parade but getting a date is nothing to brag about. Nowadays chicks will accept dates from almost anyone who is offering to take her out to a nice restaurant. Update us when you smash.
 

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So in other words, nobody's ever been in my sitchayshun and can't empathize/assist me with my problem?


I just want y'all to help me. help me cope with this.


please... help me.



I don't know what to do...



Feel like eightball's classic triple disc solo lp...


Lost.



.
you fukked up. you're afraid of committment, panicked and fukked up. you will regret this. don't know what else to tell you :yeshrug: you got a window of tree to four weeks to fix this, afterwards, she will have moved on while you still want her back:ooh::ufdup:
 

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Supposed to be meeting a chick for lunch today, we talked and decided on a location yesterday. Now she hit my phone talking about its too far for her to drive and she wants me to drive somewhere closer to her...

cant do nothing for her :camby:
 

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do you care if you gf dances with guys at a wedding while you arent attendance. Does it change if she has known them most of her life, does it matter or not if you have ever met them
 

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Supposed to be meeting a chick for lunch today, we talked and decided on a location yesterday. Now she hit my phone talking about its too far for her to drive and she wants me to drive somewhere closer to her...

cant do nothing for her :camby:
I'd be like nah I'm good, have a good day
 

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Say brehs... :patrice:

I was just thinking about something. As men, due to our egos, we need to believe that our girls are pristine, honorable beings, who could never do not wrong. I'm talking about when you really care about a girl.

Because if/when we realize that is not the case our entire world is shattered. We've all seen it. We all have homeboys that soon realize they're sharing their girl or that the kid they've been taking care of isn't theirs. It completely fukks them up. It's like everything they believed in has been ruined. "How could this girl do me like that?!? I cared for her, I gave her everything!" They lament.

Some folks will call me jaded because I won't put anything past anyone but I call it being a realist. I have a lot of homies who are in ignorant bliss, and I hope their world never comes crashing down on them. Because a man's ego aint built for the truth like that. That's why dudes go crazy when shyt hits the fan.

Anyway, that was just on my mind this morning. Women handle it better than men because for some reason men tend to think dumb shyt like, "I can cheat on her all I want. She won't ever want no new dikk." :lolbron: Then they get ethered later. :wow:
 

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@Mr Hate Coffee I don't know why anyone would say that's jaded, that's just the real way of looking at things. Guys who take everything anyone (but in this case, girls) says at face value are setting themselves up for a fall.

I've seen guys get cheated on then say "But she says she still loves me :sadcam:"

It's just sad :snoop:
 

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PC BRO #LWO
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The L streak continues. fukk man, and I don't even know what the fukk did I do breh this time :mindblown:
This shyt sucks hardbody.
 
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