So this chick I met on tagged has been all over me verbally.
Calling me baby, handsome and sexy damn near every sentence and messaging me GOOD MORNING every day.
Even sent me a naked ass shot while still wet from the shower. And she asked for a dikk pic.
I just now told her I wanted to meet up and she said she would love to and I seem like a really nice guy
So this chick I met on tagged has been all over me verbally.
Calling me baby, handsome and sexy damn near every sentence and messaging me GOOD MORNING every day.
Even sent me a naked ass shot while still wet from the shower. And she asked for a dikk pic.
I just now told her I wanted to meet up and she said she would love to and I seem like a really nice guy
So this chick I met on tagged has been all over me verbally.
Calling me baby, handsome and sexy damn near every sentence and messaging me GOOD MORNING every day.
Even sent me a naked ass shot while still wet from the shower. And she asked for a dikk pic.
I just now told her I wanted to meet up and she said she would love to and I seem like a really nice guy
Was up on Afro Romance for a minute, scooped up a lil something. Dated a few months now, she say its time for us to be officially BF and GF.
So I go on Afro Romance a few days ago, to terminate my account and look at my old messages with her and see her profile was active on the same day. I confront her about it, she say she doesn't reply, she just looks at the messages when she is bored and wants to laugh at the stuff they say.
At this point I'm hot as a tea kettle, I flip on her (verbally) and she gets upset at me for not believing her. She offers me her password so I can go and check it, i don't do it tho. But she keeps saying over and over she hasn't replied to anyone since we been together and she loves me etc. She then deletes her profile and apologies to me
I dunno brehs...The hood that brought me up said never trust anyone. I don't see the difference here.
Was up on Afro Romance for a minute, scooped up a lil something. Dated a few months now, she say its time for us to be officially BF and GF.
So I go on Afro Romance a few days ago, to terminate my account and look at my old messages with her and see her profile was active on the same day. I confront her about it, she say she doesn't reply, she just looks at the messages when she is bored and wants to laugh at the stuff they say.
At this point I'm hot as a tea kettle, I flip on her (verbally) and she gets upset at me for not believing her. She offers me her password so I can go and check it, i don't do it tho. But she keeps saying over and over she hasn't replied to anyone since we been together and she loves me etc. She then deletes her profile and apologies to me
I dunno brehs...The hood that brought me up said never trust anyone. I don't see the difference here.
Went over to her place last night... finally had the talk and just let her know how i felt. And even though it was something that i had to do, i didn't feel liberated at all. It only caused a gash in my heart.
Delivering her the news was tough, and she had questions for me that i couldn't even answer in full because i didn't want to pour salt on an open wound.
Seeing her cry was the toughest cuz she did ABSOLUTELY ZERO to deserve it. It was so sad breghs. As i was telling her about how i felt, why i was falling out of love and that i just couldn't continue, i was literally balling my eyes out... up until last night, it was the saddest moment in my life (right next to the death of my doggie last November, shiit stung irregardless).
Now i feel numb... i don't want to do anything. Trying to stay occupied at work but i can only think about how much i hurt her. The nights when i was out and about, trying to kick game to new females and even being on dates with them while she was at home waiting for me (i even disclosed the fact that i did meet somebody for a brief moment... the same week as our 1 year anniversary. FUKK!!!)... that's the most fukked up shiit and i can't bring it to myself to hurt her any more that's why i had to jump ship.
I know this is normal, now i feel so empty without her... but worse yet is knowing how she feels cuz she was completely head over heals for me; and she legit loved me for me (not the most handsome, rich or status quo filling guy out there; just a regular joe with a couple redeeming qualities that SHE admired).
Y'all wanna hear something unfortunate? When i texted her yesterday afternoon, telling her i'd swing by and talk to her.
Her; Are you coming by to tell me something bad?
Me; Yes
Her: Okay, i just want you to be honest so that i'm prepared.
Turns out, she just thought i was coming by to tell her sorry and that i didn't want to lose her.
Fukk breaghs. i threw her the ultimate curve ball.
When I walked out of her place for the last time, i was so distraught by what i just experienced... i tried to fight back my tears during the trip...
... and i'm doing the exact same thing at work right now.
I know the grass isn't always greener on the other side. I KNOW she's the best thing out there for me and is my exact match; i could live, marry, have chul'dren and die with her. My heart knows this... but my mind isn't corresponding with my feelings. That's why i'm so conflicted. That's why i'm at crossroads with my emotions. Fukk!
Now i'm in the office alone listening to slow jams, reminiscing about her.
I mean bros... when i was sick and ailing from my trip back from the motherland back in February and i was all alone... she was over everyday to take care of me. Bring me soup. Buy me medicine.
It was the greatest gesture a person has ever extended to me...
but the kindest gesture life ever gave me was bringing her into my little world.
I feel like i let you guys down too cuz that's not what this thread is about. I did wrong and i'm not about that life of breakin' hearts.
Hmmm, iono man, while I feel empathy for your pain, women like that in today's world are few and far between. I'd love to meet a woman with her qualities. Finding someone like her is like a needle in a haystack.
When you get a really good woman who loves you to death and is down for you, you should NEVER let them go. IMO you should have given it a little bit more thought.
Haha, tbh my sig was just a troll phase I was going through on here...
I do the online shyt, but I am not normally naive, so I normally keep my guard one hunned. The problem is, a large majority of women are naive, even offline. The whole "Oh, he just wants to be friends" shyt...So even though she was up on there "not for other guys", I know guys were still trying to holla at her anyway.
But it's her stupidity which is annoying me more than anything.
Haha, tbh my sig was just a troll phase I was going through on here...
I do the online shyt, but I am not normally naive, so I normally keep my guard one hunned. The problem is, a large majority of women are naive, even offline. The whole "Oh, he just wants to be friends" shyt...So even though she was up on there "not for other guys", I know guys were still trying to holla at her anyway.
But it's her stupidity which is annoying me more than anything.
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...........im legit 
for some reason....
?
she's 21, been talking to her on and off for about 8 months
....your gonna have issues breh
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