Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I was thinking about something.....

Women always say they want a man who has alot of confidence, talks a good game, alot of "swag",etc. That's somewhat understandable....

But IMO, alot of the extremely confident dudes are that way b/c they have a bunch of experience with ALOT of different women. With that in mind, most of these dudes aren't looking for anything serious in a relationship.....the woman ends up getting played(over and over) by the exact guys they claim to want.

The male friends I have that are married didn't approach their wives initially on some over-confident alpha-male sh*t. Some of them were nervous, some of them the girl didnt even like them at first. Some of them just acted like themselves.

IMO, if a woman can't see or look beyond the exterior of "confidence/swag/game"(regardless of whether it's real or fake), then she's probably not someone who is good at picking a long-term mate.
 

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I'mma make it simple for nikkaz. Whenever a girl plays hard to get, doesn't text you, acts hot and cold...just basically ain't making things easy for ya'll...i want ya'll to envision this. There is/are women 20x more sexier than her in your city and around the world that will be on your nuts. I kno its a hard thing to fathom..but trust me when i say that. @Emperor_ReinScarf is a testament to this. When you text/call or out with her, i want ya'll to keep that at the back of your head. Let them bury themselves. Hoes make it easy for us and they don't even realize it. When they play games and shyt, all that says is, she ain't interested and if she is, she ain't worth nothing more than to fukk and dump.

Also, always talk to more than 1 hoe and remember this gem. It will show in your body language and confidence. You'll start to say shyt more freely and not worry about having to lose her or what she'll think of you, because there are sexier women than her. Don't make shyt out to be rocket science. Attraction is meant to be natural, so if you see yourself goin against the grain..stop.
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"...And I assume every women is in love with me until they tell me different." Chino XL:wow:
 

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I was thinking about something.....

Women always say they want a man who has alot of confidence, talks a good game, alot of "swag",etc. That's somewhat understandable....

But IMO, alot of the extremely confident dudes are that way b/c they have a bunch of experience with ALOT of different women. With that in mind, most of these dudes aren't looking for anything serious in a relationship.....the woman ends up getting played(over and over) by the exact guys they claim to want.

The male friends I have that are married didn't approach their wives initially on some over-confident alpha-male sh*t. Some of them were nervous, some of them the girl didnt even like them at first. Some of them just acted like themselves.

IMO, if a woman can't see or look beyond the exterior of "confidence/swag/game"(regardless of whether it's real or fake), then she's probably not someone who is good at picking a long-term mate.

claps hands.

which is why to reiterate again don't change who you are for a woman, if you are shy, awkward, nervous then be it. IF a girl is into you, she will like you for who you are, never change for a broad.

honestly i went to vancouver last month and met a chick as soon as i got off the plane who was picking me up, i was nervous, sweating, quiet, stuttering and all that, and she still liked da breh :obama:
 

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This is pretty much where I'm at with it

From some texting she sounds legit, doing some summer internship, prob a 19/20 yo college chick. I still don't wanna walk into some thing where we set something up and she's gross though. Thinking I should just ask straight up for a pic or her name to check fb and stuff.

She definitely remembers me and seems into me but like I said I'm total blackout on that night so this is where I'm at

got her to send me a pic. shes decent. basically what id expect to hit on drunk...

booty call status. prolly give it a shot this weekend
 

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Brehs do yall think females bump into on purpose so you can notice them?
I was on the bus today and I saw this chocolate chick with a lil ass on her. :shaq:

I looked down at my phone coming to the coli while she was tapping her card and her purse clearly swung and hit me all in the arm.
Nobody is sitting on my row so aint like she was tryna dodge somebody.

Maybe im over thinking. :yeshrug:

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Brehs do yall think females bump into on purpose so you can notice them?
I was on the bus today and I saw this chocolate chick with a lil ass on her. :shaq:

I looked down at my phone coming to the coli while she was tapping her card and her purse clearly swung and hit me all in the arm.
Nobody is sitting on my row so aint like she was tryna dodge somebody.

Maybe im over thinking. :yeshrug:

@kevm3 @Emperor_ReinScarf
I mean you didn't do anything with so..........................
 

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I mean you didn't do anything with so..........................

So......that's the point of me making the post to see if that's a choosing maneuver or not.
Yall stay tryna shyt on somebody post

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Honestly, stop worrying about signals. Choose whether or not you will step up to the plate and talk to her. You may miss a woman that may like you because she's not giving off these so called signals.
 
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