Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Brehs why do females take all these thot pictures and ask like they confident in person but act shy when that dude they interested in is in they face?

I got a cousin that talk a buncha shyt, twerks on instagram, got over 3,000 new kik messages but when we was in the same room with a dude she was feeling she told me to tell the dude she wanted his number while she ran upstairs. :what:
 

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Brehs why do females take all these thot pictures and ask like they confident in person but act shy when that dude they interested in is in they face?

I got a cousin that talk a buncha shyt, twerks on instagram, got over 3,000 new kik messages but when we was in the same room with a dude she was feeling she told me to tell the dude she wanted his number while she ran upstairs. :what:
I've said this quite a few times, social.networks have really dwarfed peoples social skills. People are so used to DMing or tweeting people that when they get an actual dude trying to bag them or when they're trying to bag somebody they have no idea how to hold a conversation. Why? They're so used to reading a text and taking 10 minutes to think of the perfect response. One that makes them seem interested but not too interested. One that makes them seem busy. One that makes them seem funny or clever. Got ppl consulting their friends on what to say and shyt; its ridiculous.
 
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when it comes down to it, most brehs are stressing over women who offer nothing.

Once you mess with/date/wife/marry etc. a great women or a woman with her ish together whose totally interested in you..... you're whole outlook on the flock changes.

You ponder and realize why the heck are you chasing after broads, fighting over instagram ratchets, talking to chicks who have nothing going for them in life besides their looks, not caring about the signs, how to spit game and all that, for most women who offer you absolutely nothing!!!

When I was on vacation i was mingling and cavorting with a model making 6 figures yearly whose only 22, who drove me around everywhere, made sure I had the time of my life, didn't have to put on any act, I was myself from day one awkward, observant etc. and she totally felt the breh, i had to do NOTHING.........and now that I'm back in my city these chicks here expect me to break my back, use my gas and come meet em for coffee :childplease:, think of a corny line to get them to msg me on a dating site, or shower them with gifts and compliments, take em out for dinner while random mens are blowing up their phone :camby:, chicks offering me nothing but a pretty face (maybe), drama and stress :pacspit:

Screw that I say

SCREW THAT
 

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I've said this quite a few times, relationships have really dwarfed peoples social skills. People are so used to DMing or tweeting people that when they get an actual dude trying to bag them or when they're trying to bag somebody they have no idea how to hold a conversation. Why? They're so used to reading a text and taking 10 minutes to think of the perfect response. One that makes them seem interested but not too interested. One that makes them seem busy. One that makes them seem funny or clever. Got ppl consulting their friends on what to say and shyt; its ridiculous.

Well I guess thats it.
Alotta do still act that sassy act in person that they use online though
 

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when it comes down to it, most brehs are stressing over women who offer nothing.

Once you mess with/date/wife/marry etc. a great women or a woman with her ish together whose totally interested in you..... you're whole outlook on the flock changes.
basically why i dont take much bs anymore. last girlfriend wasnt perfect but she possessed the integral qualities and I cant settle for a girl who doesnt have those
 

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The main reason women are winning is because men have no concept of their value and women just play the withholding game. All they have to do is withhold interest and dudes will try to 'impress them' and change their disinterest around. If you take physicality out of the equation, I ask the question, "What do most women really bring to the table", and even those simps can hardly think of anything.... and yet men do the utmost to appease and please these women? And why wouldn't women accept it? If I bought some trinket for 5 bucks and people are rushing to pay me $1,000 for it, what can I do but profit? Men love to get on women about their ways, but in a lot of ways, the modern man is worse than a woman when it comes to being alone. He'll accept utterly atrocious behavior because he can't be alone. Why in the world do dudes do all of this, even going so far as to invent a new personality?
 
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The logic bombs :wow:

I realized something the other day. I was out there with some friends, and there were a lot of women out there that day. Now I'm really not about looking at women to lust at them, so inside I'm like :whoa:

I started really thinking though. Have you ever been somewhere like the beach, where every five minutes you're out there there's another woman passing by that has you fighting not to :takedat:?

All that does is reaffirm what we already know. There's attractive women everywhere. They're a dime a dozen.
It's like in Pokemon when you were a kid, and something weak like a ratatta or a weedle would come out.
You were like :heh: :usure::camby:because those cats were everywhere. They didn't have any value.

Now think of a woman who was really down for you. Someone who was always in your corner, even when you were sick or broke. Someone you could talk to after a bad day and everything felt better afterward. Someone who would cook for you. Who would go out of their way for you, and it felt like you didn't even have to try with her at all. Notice that most of you can think of far fewer women who fit that role.

And that's because that mess is RARE. Think of the first time you ran into Mewtwo or one of the legendary birds.
You were like :whew: I better value this. I'm never gonna find this ever again!

Would you ever want to trade in that Mewtwo/Moltres/Zapdos/Articuno for a Ratatta/Weedle/Caterpie? I didn't think so.

Chasing the majority of these women out here who bring nothing to the table besides their looks is like using your only Master Ball on a Ratatta.
It's such a waste, friend.:sitdown:
 

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Compare women to pokemon brehs :troll:
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Hi all.
Got her number through tinder got a few messages there and there from 10:24 pm till midnight.
When should I ask her out?
Should I wait at least 2 more days of textin wit her and then drop the bomb? Or just not text at all then hit her up after 2 days and ask her out.
I ain't tryna look too thirsty tbh.
 

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If you met her on Tinder why wait?
iono that's what my nikka told me(he's an og in this game shyt, but He never used tinder tho. so it may be different for him he's a pof kinda nikka)
I'm probably gon call her instead of texting and ask her out.
I just dont want to seem so thirsty :damn:
 

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iono that's what my nikka told me(he's an og in this game shyt, but He never used tinder tho. so it may be different for him he's a pof kinda nikka)
I'm probably gon call her instead of texting and ask her out.
I just dont want to seem so thirsty :damn:

Fam the very nature of what you are doing is thirst :heh:

If you want to ak just ask but waiting two days doesn't change anything.
 
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