Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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And women end most relationships but if your a decent guy or bf they will want to keep you around as a friend as there on tinder or at a bar or a club, grinding and surfboarding on random dudes.

Why put yourself through that for some broad whose not special?
 

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This week, females nowadays are making a single, lonely life look better and better...if it wasn't for my libido, I'd probably be totally asexual by now....

So as I previously posted, some chick I knew hit me up talking about hanging out though she lives with her fukking boyfriend. Why the fukk would I....:what: Then she hits me up later asking do I have a car....I didn't even reply....

Then the same night my ex hits me up on fb with a friend request (after I deleted her a few months back). So, trying to be "mature", I accepted it. She hit me up talking about "hanging out for drinks." She flaked on me like twice before, and I even asked her if she's gonna do it again. She said no, and what does she do? Yup, flakes again. :why: I don't know why she's playing foolish games, bc I DAMN SURE wasn't missing her ass. So, without saying a word or sending a message...

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I guess it's just the way I'm built....but I just can't be bothered with the games and bullshyt...I'd rather be alone...plus with all these horror stories I'm hearing from others, it ust doesn't seem worth it. so now I'm almost like
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BREH DON'T DO IT

I promise you, b. Once you move on life is so much easier. If you still gonna call her, then call her out on her bullshyt and if she keeps making excuses, and your gut is telling you to hang up, then just do it.

This synthesizes with the "girls like to leave on a good note" principle. She's gonna act dumb. She knows just what tha fukk she's doing.
took me a while to notice this. but once i did :ohhh:

seen it with my own two eyes. the idea of not knowing if a dude is mad at them or not plagues their mind...
 

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took me a while to notice this. but once i did :ohhh:

seen it with my own two eyes. the idea of not knowing if a dude is mad at them or not plagues their mind...

girls always want "closure"

its also why when they dump you, they want to remain friends to relieve any of the guilt
 

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This week, females nowadays are making a single, lonely life look better and better...if it wasn't for my libido, I'd probably be totally asexual by now....

So as I previously posted, some chick I knew hit me up talking about hanging out though she lives with her fukking boyfriend. Why the fukk would I....:what: Then she hits me up later asking do I have a car....I didn't even reply....

Then the same night my ex hits me up on fb with a friend request (after I deleted her a few months back). So, trying to be "mature", I accepted it. She hit me up talking about "hanging out for drinks." She flaked on me like twice before, and I even asked her if she's gonna do it again. She said no, and what does she do? Yup, flakes again. :why: I don't know why she's playing foolish games, bc I DAMN SURE wasn't missing her ass. So, without saying a word or sending a message...

image.png


I guess it's just the way I'm built....but I just can't be bothered with the games and bullshyt...I'd rather be alone...plus with all these horror stories I'm hearing from others, it ust doesn't seem worth it. so now I'm almost like
elwi4d.jpg

that stress free life :blessed:
 

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girls always want "closure"

its also why when they dump you, they want to remain friends to relieve any of the guilt

I also realize online dating sites is a way to practice keep it moving. Get on OkCupid, your plan is to visit these hoes who look like they get a lot of simps msging. You know how it shows when you got a visit from someone?

Yeah what you do is visit her page, if she really interests you then like her page. If she doesn't interest you don't like her page. Either way, keep it moving.

If she messages you, now is the time to make her know that if she isn't interested in you BEFORE her, then you're not gonna kick it. Along with this, the strategy is to try and get her to stop talking to you by any means possible. If she can handle that shyt, she's definitely trying hard for you.

You can take this further by getting deep in somewhere, and cut her off. Completely. Just don't talk anymore.

Brehs, I feel like there is something to be debunked in this mental exercise, please comb through it.
 

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I also realize online dating sites is a way to practice keep it moving. Get on OkCupid, your plan is to visit these hoes who look like they get a lot of simps msging. You know how it shows when you got a visit from someone?

Yeah what you do is visit her page, if she really interests you then like her page. If she doesn't interest you don't like her page. Either way, keep it moving.

If she messages you, now is the time to make her know that if she isn't interested in you BEFORE her, then you're not gonna kick it. Along with this, the strategy is to try and get her to stop talking to you by any means possible. If she can handle that shyt, she's definitely trying hard for you.

You can take this further by getting deep in somewhere, and cut her off. Completely. Just don't talk anymore.

Brehs, I feel like there is something to be debunked in this mental exercise, please comb through it.
this is a game where you subtly make her commit to the concept that she has to choose and pledge right away whether or not she's messing with you. this gets her invested. once she chooses, by cutting her off she feels a sense of loss and like a compulsive gambler will try double or nothing in the hopes of breaking even. you can rinse and repeat until you get p*ssy, or take it even further until you get her soul. very dangerous and demonic game.

while effective, i don't like this type of shyt because it's dishonest and it might make her go crazy (which might be more trouble then it's worth)
 

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imagine this type of knowledge in the hands of someone with no moral code...

yup
i used to be a simp and its amazing the things women pull. They will dump you, pull out your heart, then offer you friendship, then with that friendship they will use your kindness and what they know about you to get favors, a ride etc. and because your emotions are out of wack you think doing these things will "give you another chance". In reality she is over you and prob sucking random dikks and out living life, and the moment you say screw this and move on with life, meet a girl start dating that's when they try and come back with how they messed up, how you're a great guy, or trying to throw dirt on your new girl

i say :pacspit:
 

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this is a game where you subtly make her commit to the concept that she has to choose and pledge right away whether or not she's messing with you. this gets her invested. once she chooses, by cutting her off she feels a sense of loss and like a compulsive gambler will try double or nothing in the hopes of breaking even. you can rinse and repeat until you get p*ssy, or take it even further until you get her soul. very dangerous and demonic game.

while effective, i don't like this type of shyt because it's dishonest and it might make her go crazy (which might be more trouble then it's worth)

Then again why do you think those girls are on those dating sites?:youngsabo:

For an honest man?:youngsabo:

They're being lazy if anything going on a website for that.:youngsabo:
 

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I also realize online dating sites is a way to practice keep it moving. Get on OkCupid, your plan is to visit these hoes who look like they get a lot of simps msging. You know how it shows when you got a visit from someone?

Yeah what you do is visit her page, if she really interests you then like her page. If she doesn't interest you don't like her page. Either way, keep it moving.

If she messages you, now is the time to make her know that if she isn't interested in you BEFORE her, then you're not gonna kick it. Along with this, the strategy is to try and get her to stop talking to you by any means possible. If she can handle that shyt, she's definitely trying hard for you.

You can take this further by getting deep in somewhere, and cut her off. Completely. Just don't talk anymore.

Brehs, I feel like there is something to be debunked in this mental exercise, please comb through it.

I never message females first when i used dating sites or tinder.

just wait in the cut :shaq:, i always get the "well i guess ill be the first to message then"
 

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that stress free life :blessed:
Chea, but there's one small problem....

My libido is fukking HIGH. I try to be like "ehh, fukk these hos. I got better shyt to worry about." Thing is, I'ma vendor. I go to like 10-12 wal-marts at least, so you already know how much ass be in there. So it's like a constant tease. Plus the fact I'm not really a good conversation starter doesn't help. I have like no inspiration besides my libido (and that's subconcious)...

Just a basic look at my mindstate nowadays....

Imagine....how would one feel if they spent their life constantly chasing something, only to finally get it and be sorely disappointed? I was like "I trudged through all this bullshyt and nonsense, disrespect and childish games....for THIS shyt? Is that all? The fukk.....:what::what::what:
 
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