Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Wouldn't trust.People change but not many transform.She will play goody good for a while,but when times get tough watch her actions closely.
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ask her how many timesit was emotionally cheating
i respect honesty i dunno what to think about this thouggh
Youseenmywork
KING
The real definition of a man, tried, tested and true. (Pook)
- Does not go through life walking on eggshells.
- Focuses on his dreams.
- Does not apologize for his testosterone, for his desires.
- Tries to always win in what he does.
- Has deep convictions that allows him to be a possible leader.
- Seeks to solve problems then to place blame.
- Sees failure as only a temporary set-back to the inevitable.
- Knows where he is going in Life.
- Never loses his passion, for that would be the death of his soul.
- Never feels he has to prove himself to anyone.
- Does not go through life walking on eggshells.
- Focuses on his dreams.
- Does not apologize for his testosterone, for his desires.
- Tries to always win in what he does.
- Has deep convictions that allows him to be a possible leader.
- Seeks to solve problems then to place blame.
- Sees failure as only a temporary set-back to the inevitable.
- Knows where he is going in Life.
- Never loses his passion, for that would be the death of his soul.
- Never feels he has to prove himself to anyone.
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Youseenmywork
KING
I leave with last words to you. Take every thread and post with a grain of salt. Not everyone speaks of experience, less speak with wisdom. Do not bash fellow friends for speaking their mind, rather offer something to help them. Read and absorb as much as you can, apply it and learn. You must become ever-improving, developing your own lifestyle and ways of handling everything, from girls to your job to life. It is when you are truly happy that you can say you are a true Don Juan, for to enjoy life to it's fulliest with everything you have dreamt of getting, knowing that you have encountered the good with the bad, is the ultimate success in your life.- pook 
Some of us are bout that life
Some of us are bout that life
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I leave with last words to you. Take every thread and post with a grain of salt. Not everyone speaks of experience, less speak with wisdom. Do not bash fellow friends for speaking their mind, rather offer something to help them. Read and absorb as much as you can, apply it and learn. You must become ever-improving, developing your own lifestyle and ways of handling everything, from girls to your job to life. It is when you are truly happy that you can say you are a true Don Juan, for to enjoy life to it's fulliest with everything you have dreamt of getting, knowing that you have encountered the good with the bad, is the ultimate success in your life.- pook
Some of us are bout that life
<<TheStandard>>
I Am A God
I'm honestly starting to believe that having sex too quickly can be detrimental towards relationships......You'll often find yourself with a girl just because you're attracted to her and enjoy the sex..
I've really gotten to the point where I have to ask myself, if I couldn't have sex with a particular girl would I want to hang out with her?
At 28 I'm learning to approach relationships like this.....
I've really gotten to the point where I have to ask myself, if I couldn't have sex with a particular girl would I want to hang out with her?
At 28 I'm learning to approach relationships like this.....
that's true, but in the back of your mind, you start thinking negative thoughts...
Because you ask yourself, well damn, this bytch don't get horny??
Then you start wondering mentally
Let me speak for myself...Im just super analytical
<<TheStandard>>
I Am A God
that's true, but in the back of your mind, you start thinking negative thoughts...
Because you ask yourself, well damn, this bytch don't get horny??
Then you start wondering mentally
Let me speak for myself...Im just super analytical
Yeah you're definitely being super analytical....I'm just coming from the position of having sex with girls almost immediately and later realizing I don't even like this chick that much......Or maybe we hang out and she's just not in the mood or her period is on, something and I realize damn, there's nothing else there.
it can go both ways as well...
If she wack in bed, you've pretty much wasted the same amount of time as well..
because if the sexual chemistry isn't there in the beginning, its just a matter of time before it goes downhill...
And you cant build on sexual chemistry if there isn't really a foundation..But people try to and that's where they end up prolonging the inevitable...
There has to be a mental timetable for this shyt..lol
Virtuous_Brotha
Superstar
it would only be a problem if she trys to condone it like aint shyt wrong.considering most have cheated in some form anyway its really nothing,she'd get a thumbs up for honesty from meit was emotionally cheating
i respect honesty i dunno what to think about this thouggh
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Urbanmiracle
Brooklyn the planet...
So it's been a while since the break up and I'm slowly getting back into the scene. I got a decent rotation for the winter lined up. Cut off my ex but she still text me asking to be friends I'm like nah. She like why you gotta be so black and white? Grey ain't my favorite color.
Not gonna lie ima miss her companionship but we weren't gonna last. She wants to explore and I'm trying to settle down have some kids. Oh well.
Now my newest problem (or adventure) is these two chicks that were friends for 10 years but they had a big fight over social meds (so you know they birds) and they hate each other. But I'm chillin with both though. I already smashed one and I have the other one in line. The first one really really really really likes me. Even when I was with my gf. She waiting for me to get over it and make her move but she got a kid and no job. She just home girl, a quick lay and then cook me some food type of deal. I think the other friend just wants to fukk to piss her off. So should I get mine and watch the Maury show unfold? Or back away?
Lastly: like I've said I wanted to start to travel. I have this other chick I used to mess with 5 years ago, who recently just got divorce with two kids and she looking for a getaway. I had this trip to DR planned for me and ex ann that was paid for so she wants to go and even gave half of her cut up front. She is one of those chicks whose slim but got a nice body Costa Rican but her face, well let's just say lights got an off switch for a reason. So I think ima take her and have some fun. Have her topless on the beach with a cigar and post pics on my IG which my ex sis still follows me and she will surely report back to her.
Not gonna lie ima miss her companionship but we weren't gonna last. She wants to explore and I'm trying to settle down have some kids. Oh well.
Now my newest problem (or adventure) is these two chicks that were friends for 10 years but they had a big fight over social meds (so you know they birds) and they hate each other. But I'm chillin with both though. I already smashed one and I have the other one in line. The first one really really really really likes me. Even when I was with my gf. She waiting for me to get over it and make her move but she got a kid and no job. She just home girl, a quick lay and then cook me some food type of deal. I think the other friend just wants to fukk to piss her off. So should I get mine and watch the Maury show unfold? Or back away?
Lastly: like I've said I wanted to start to travel. I have this other chick I used to mess with 5 years ago, who recently just got divorce with two kids and she looking for a getaway. I had this trip to DR planned for me and ex ann that was paid for so she wants to go and even gave half of her cut up front. She is one of those chicks whose slim but got a nice body Costa Rican but her face, well let's just say lights got an off switch for a reason. So I think ima take her and have some fun. Have her topless on the beach with a cigar and post pics on my IG which my ex sis still follows me and she will surely report back to her.
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Exes only want to be friends to relieve the guilt.
If you had a job and they fired you but said you can Stoll come to work tomorrow but your not getting paid would you?
Or would you say screw this and go find a job where you're actually wanted, paid and appreciated.
Man why are you so anxious to get back dating again your not ready you even mentioned you want to make your ex jealous .
I told you to cut all communication for 3 months to purge and detoxify any feelings etc.
Right now she's still hitting you up and you have her family member following you on ig shakes head.
Instead of dealing with the pain emotions you just want another girl because your scared to to through it ala the rebound.
Stop being so co Dependant
If you had a job and they fired you but said you can Stoll come to work tomorrow but your not getting paid would you?
Or would you say screw this and go find a job where you're actually wanted, paid and appreciated.
Man why are you so anxious to get back dating again your not ready you even mentioned you want to make your ex jealous .
I told you to cut all communication for 3 months to purge and detoxify any feelings etc.
Right now she's still hitting you up and you have her family member following you on ig shakes head.
Instead of dealing with the pain emotions you just want another girl because your scared to to through it ala the rebound.
Stop being so co Dependant
Now that im older and have studied and observed and seen what love is
I can say I've never been in love . I've been in lust, I've cared for people a lot but love nope.
I can say I've never been in love . I've been in lust, I've cared for people a lot but love nope.
Minimize drama in your life. Never let a woman manipulate you to make someone else mad. Don't bring that into your atmosphere.
Urbanmiracle
Brooklyn the planet...
I just figured I needed some distractions but I really do need to face some issues head on. Will get right on it. Gonna do some self reflection and improvement. And you're right I am bit co-dependent. I need to be on my own for a tick to figure out myself. Still gonna go to DR though.