Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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If she's worth it, one good woman is better than 1000 thots
Don't mess it up

So I'm not going to post the Tinder picture, but here's the convo with the chick I been telling yall about, she's 23 yrs old, 5'4, about 135-140 pounds:

Jun 13, 8:52 PM




Havent used tinder since.

I wasnt about to let her match with some other cretin they have here. Soon as she said what she was looking for and she liked me, I gave her my number and she started texting me and face timing me. Total $ spent on her? $5 fukking dollars on an ice cream date. :banderas:

And now she lives 5 mins driving from me so :shaq:
 

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One of the thing I'm realizing as an adult is how much we as men can just win just by showing up for the job (and just being a halfway decent guy with something going for yourself....)

I meet so many attractive single women and the common thing they tell me is that men don't approach them.
 

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One of the thing I'm realizing as an adult is how much we as men can just win just by showing up for the job (and just being a halfway decent guy with something going for yourself....)

I meet so many attractive single women and the common thing they tell me is that men don't approach them.
meh. I approach every bad chick i see almost as long as I can do it without having to break my neck. They're bullshytting and making excuses for why they're single; maybe even shielding the real reason.The same way I hear what your saying is the same way:

-I've had girls ranging from 6-10s say they get approached daily (its just by guys they dont like)
<AND>
-I've been that dude approaching girls daily


so is it oochie wally or one mic?
 

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There is power in the tongue.
exactly, people need to be careful what they say about what they choose to say about themselves and what they choose to believe about themselves. so much power behind the belief but with years and years of negative thoughts about yourself, you could destroy your own spirit. i'm not saying to become delusional and start believing your shyt doesn't stink. but everyone has to find that balance. people need to be real with themselves about what they are and what they aren't. nikkas need to make a plan about what they want to become and take those steps with a positive attitude instead of just letting their mind wander in misery. this goes for getting bytches, getting money, accomplishing goals, etc.
 

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i also think many dudes are selling themselves short, i remember growing up, i was so shy, skinny, thought i was ugly, never got looks, never had a gf never had nothing, hell i wore glasses and people used to call me urkel. I had a speech impediment and people used to laugh at me. I thought id be lucky to get a ugly fat gir. Even after this model argentian broad thought i was so handsome i still didn't think of me of anything, even after i was with my ex fiance for 3 years i remember my brehs telling me damn how did you get a girl like that. I remember going for dates after and just staring in the mirror like damn she gonna think im ugly, only to go and me told damn your so gorgeous, or women throwing themselves at me. All of these internal battles you gotta overcome brehs.

I don't approach women but you could literally be walking by the hottest women you ever seen and in her mind shes like :damn: :noah: when she sees you but your insecurities :ufdup:
 

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simp story :kony:

when i went to vancouver, i actually sort of fell for a broad:sadcam:, first time in like 5 years i actually felt something not bitterness or this fn thot how many dikks has she sucked expecting me to pay for her dinner thoughts for a woman. I had the time of my life, and she was literally a top 5 female in terms of everything i ever had the pleasure of meeting in my life who thought just like i did, it was only a week the devil was teasing me :ohlawd: ah well :manny: [/;spoiler]
 

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Why do people go on tinders looking for long term relationships? :patrice:

Why?

It's not that you're looking for it. It just is possible. shyts easier. On a basic level, you know the other party is at least interested in you...and i found what seems to be a decent person. A teacher, 23 yrs old, no kids, no crazy exes, and isn't crazy (so far). nikka, sign me up.
 

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you can find a ltr anywhere breh this isnt 1999

1 in 4 relationships start through social media of some point.

at this point tinder is better than pof and okcupid the lowest of the low congregate on pof.
I meant that the majority of tinder users, are looking for fun hookups and flings
 

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I meant that the majority of tinder users, are looking for fun hookups and flings

maybe males

majority of women who are single are looking for a relationship don't believe that bs they tell you, they just tell you because they don't want to get into a relationship with you.

every guy has liked a girl and got told uh i dont want to date or be in a relationship, then next thing you know shes dating a guy, women can't fight natural biology.
 
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