Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Naw i'm good breh :whoa: y'all would go in
fam you really really need to stop putting yourself down. There is nothing shameful about an aesthetically challenged male; not everybody was blessed with perfect genes. But point blank, if you have your parents' genes and they were obviously good looking enough to attract somebody then it shouldnt be an issue.

Can't say the same thing about low self-esteem though. You need to focus on what you bring to the table and think about why a woman would want to mess with you. Because if you wouldnt mess with yourself how can you be mad at a female for not doing so
 
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fam you really really need to stop putting yourself down. There is nothing shameful about an aesthetically challenged male; not everybody was blessed with perfect genes. But point blank, ve your parents' genes and they were obviously good looking enough to attract somebody then it shouldnt be an issue.

Can't say the same thing about low self-esteem though. You need to focus on what you bring to the table and think about why a woman would want to mess with you. Because if you wouldnt mess with yourself how can you be mad at a female for not doing so


And to add to this have you seen any ugly males with a nice looking female? ...trust you are better than them(females) . Whatever your weakness are address them and what ever you strengths are continue to work on them to make them even better. To Find The Woman Of Your Dreams, You Must First Become the Man Of Your Dreams
 

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So chick didn't show up to coffee date...said she forgot and asleep. She asked to reschedule but I'm like fukk it. Lost my interest in hanging with you.

if chris brown or trey songz or denzel had a date with her would she forget and fall asleep?
 

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So chick didn't show up to coffee date...said she forgot and asleep. She asked to reschedule but I'm like fukk it. Lost my interest in hanging with you.
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fam you really really need to stop putting yourself down. There is nothing shameful about an aesthetically challenged male; not everybody was blessed with perfect genes. But point blank, if you have your parents' genes and they were obviously good looking enough to attract somebody then it shouldnt be an issue.

Can't say the same thing about low self-esteem though. You need to focus on what you bring to the table and think about why a woman would want to mess with you. Because if you wouldnt mess with yourself how can you be mad at a female for not doing so

Doesn't help being bullied in high/middle school, called ugly all the time, and no one wanting to talk to you because you're a loner. I got stories for days but no one wants to hear that.
 

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Doesn't help being bullied in high/middle school, called ugly all the time, and no one wanting to talk to you because you're a loner. I got stories for days but no one wants to hear that.
at this point the choice is yours breh. whatever you can improve about yourself, improve. whatever you can't, accept it and make peace with it.

but if you like the role you've casted yourself into, then remain that dude and keep being miserable. nothing anyone on here can do for you breh. it's on you at this point.
 

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Doesn't help being bullied in high/middle school, called ugly all the time, and no one wanting to talk to you because you're a loner. I got stories for days but no one wants to hear that.

um i guess you missed over my post breh?

I was the same, i was skinny with glasses and a speech impediment. I was called every name in teh book, urkel, laughed at. Just kept my mouth shut and stayed in the shadows, wasn't until grade 12 when i got contacts and went to a cac hs that I somewhat fit in and even then I really didn't i was just the token "cool black guy".

honestly all my life i thought i was ugly as well only mom calling me handsome, it was literally this one argentian big booty big titty slut who i met off the internet and thought i was cute that changed my whole thought proces and even then i still thought o myself as eh,, i retreated and just stayed to myself etc., i guess my "mysterious vibe" or whateer gave off confidence etc. and i just kept on attracting chicks.

Honestly growing up ugly fat looking chicks like this wouldn't even give me play hell they would laugh at me

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if you could see the chicks ive messed with :ohlawd:
 

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at this point the choice is yours breh. whatever you can improve about yourself, improve. whatever you can't, accept it and make peace with it.

but if you like the role you've casted yourself into, then remain that dude and keep being miserable. nothing anyone on here can do for you breh. it's on you at this point.

Naw I'm cursed so there's no point of trying. I fail at almost everything I do so fukk it :manny:
 

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Naw I'm cursed so there's no point of trying. I fail at almost everything I do so fukk it :manny:
well at least it's settled
change your mindset b

thing is your probably not ugly what you see in pictures and in the mirror is not the way others see you.
i say let him be. dude is attached to his misery. he's in love with it. he chose.
 

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Ol girl works at the gym I go to. Apologized to me in person and then was like what about this evening...

:myman:Was like nah I'm good now. I don't feel like bullshytting tonight.

Tried to talk to me a couple of times more I just gave her the one word answers like i do to white people at work.

:banderas:18 year old me would be reacheduling dates. Current me glad the bytch exposed her silly ways early and saved me hassle. Never let them see you bothered.
 

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Ol girl works at the gym I go to. Apologized to me in person and then was like what about this evening...

:myman:Was like nah I'm good now. I don't feel like bullshytting tonight.

Tried to talk to me a couple of times more I just gave her the one word answers like i do to white people at work.

:banderas:18 year old me would be reacheduling dates. Current me glad the bytch exposed her silly ways early and saved me hassle. Never let them see you bothered.

majority of men/simps would be like oh its ok etc.

she already disrespected you once and you werent even dating, people dont realize how valuable your time is.

Daps breh
 
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